Why are all the good women always taken?

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Why are all the good women always taken? All the nice, sweet, friendly, playful, smart and amazing women are always taken :(
These ladies are so lovely and adorable but they're virtually rarely single for prolonged time.

do we have not enough (good) women on the planet and too many men?

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OlderAndWiser | 9.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Influencer

What an absolutely silly question! Is this the excuse you give yourself for not having a decent relationship?

Of course there are decent women who are available. Most of those decent women in relationships will break up with their partner and be available until they find their next partner. You don't need to be concerned with crowds or hordes of good women; you only need ONE! Do you think there is not even one good woman available in your vicinity?

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Asker

+1 y
No.
So do you have a good woman yourself?
Sure, i want just ONE good woman. And i can't even find one, who is single -_- they're all taken.
OlderAndWiser

+1 y
Yeah, whatever.

I had a first date with a good woman on Thursday last week and a first date with another good woman on Saturday. They are not all taken.
Asker

+1 y
Must be a regional thing then.
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OlderAndWiser

+1 y
Right!

Answer 2

Asker

No.
So do you have a good woman yourself?
Sure, i want just ONE good woman. And i can't even find one, who is single -_- they're all taken.

Answer 3

OlderAndWiser

Yeah, whatever.

I had a first date with a good woman on Thursday last week and a first date with another good woman on Saturday. They are not all taken.

Answer 4

Asker

Must be a regional thing then.

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OlderAndWiser

Right!

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Anonymous

Well a good woman won’t stay single long, there will always be another guy that got there before you, it’s just not your turn yet. Also there are more single men in your age group than women until 40s and 50s when they all get divorced and available again

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Answer 7

RJGraveyTrain

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Because they're good women. That's like asking why a buffet's most popular dish is always being eaten; because it's the most popular item.

Great girls attract great guys who swoop them up before the dude who is wondering if he should approach or not is busy contemplating that approach he made too late.

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witherwing | 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Because a perfect match came along before you. It's just a random coincided who people happen to meet. And it's also just bad luck that you have not ran into a "good" woman that is single, because they always exist. Might not exist anywhere near you, but they exist and there are a lot of them.

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Answer 9

SleeplessEleotriada

Xper 5

same question for you, why are all the good men always taken? The truth is, there are good women and good men out there who are not taken yet and we just haven't met them or we need to recheck " meets our standard list".

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that1guy_123

+1 y
I agree with this.
yourmad101338

+1 y
The good men are in a girls messsge box being ignored
that1guy_123

+1 y
@yourmad101338 or maybe they're not as good as they think they are, lol. The goal shouldn't be to have women lower their standards, but for those of us who consider ourselves good men to raise our standards on ourselves.
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yourmad101338

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No one needs to lower or raise there standards. There are good men its just that their traits are not attractive anymore to most common women
that1guy_123

+1 y
@yourmad101338 I disagree. What good traits are now considered negative?
yourmad101338

+1 y
Being to kind. Doing whatever she wants all the time. Basically everything that puts her on a pedestal. I was like that years ago.. Now im 22 and do the opposite of all that... and now i dont have to worry about girls likeing me or not. They allways are wanting to go out again.
that1guy_123

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@yourmad101338 No one wants to be put on a pedestal, including guys. No one dislikes kindness and generosity from someone they like. If they don't want your kindness and generosity, they probably don't like you and don't like the idea of owing you for it. As for how you currently date, if that works for you, that's fine. Do what works for you.
yourmad101338

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Its not that they dont like it. Its jusy not attractive anymore. Is it a coincidence that it never worked for me back then but all of suddon when i disrepect them i get them in bed?
Asker

+1 y
@yourmad101338 yeah. Go get some of them pussy if that's working for you.
that1guy_123

+1 y
@yourmad101338 again, I disagree. But as I said, if that's what works for you that's fine. I personally think you're jaded and exaggerate your pull on women. But I don't personally know you right? So who am I to judge you. We have different opinions and have acknowledged them. Others can decide which is truer for them.
yourmad101338

+1 y
Allright then

Answer 10

that1guy_123

I agree with this.

Answer 11

yourmad101338

The good men are in a girls messsge box being ignored

Answer 12

that1guy_123

@yourmad101338 or maybe they're not as good as they think they are, lol. The goal shouldn't be to have women lower their standards, but for those of us who consider ourselves good men to raise our standards on ourselves.

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yourmad101338

No one needs to lower or raise there standards. There are good men its just that their traits are not attractive anymore to most common women

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that1guy_123

@yourmad101338 I disagree. What good traits are now considered negative?

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yourmad101338

Being to kind. Doing whatever she wants all the time. Basically everything that puts her on a pedestal. I was like that years ago.. Now im 22 and do the opposite of all that... and now i dont have to worry about girls likeing me or not. They allways are wanting to go out again.

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that1guy_123

@yourmad101338 No one wants to be put on a pedestal, including guys. No one dislikes kindness and generosity from someone they like. If they don't want your kindness and generosity, they probably don't like you and don't like the idea of owing you for it. As for how you currently date, if that works for you, that's fine. Do what works for you.

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yourmad101338

Its not that they dont like it. Its jusy not attractive anymore. Is it a coincidence that it never worked for me back then but all of suddon when i disrepect them i get them in bed?

Answer 18

Asker

@yourmad101338 yeah. Go get some of them pussy if that's working for you.

Answer 19

that1guy_123

@yourmad101338 again, I disagree. But as I said, if that's what works for you that's fine. I personally think you're jaded and exaggerate your pull on women. But I don't personally know you right? So who am I to judge you. We have different opinions and have acknowledged them. Others can decide which is truer for them.

Answer 20

yourmad101338

Allright then

Answer 21

englisc

Guru

It has always been hard to find a good woman/man. Only the best men get the best women and vice versa.

The idea that they're all taken makes no sense, because before they were taken they would have been single. There will be single ones out there.

If you can't get one there's usually something about you that puts them off. Are you worthy of one? I see a lot of people complaining here that they can't find one, in particular a woman who thinks that all the best women are single and that men don't want good women. It reminds me of those guys who think women don't want them and that all other guys who have girlfriends are assholes. That's not true, there's just something about them that the opposite sex don't like.

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Answer 22

nakesia

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No, I am one of them. Men don't want good women. Most of the women that are single are the good ones. The assholes are married. These people need to stop. Just like most of your asshole men are married and single. But, good women are single. I will say it again. The asshole men are married and single.

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Asker

+1 y
I understand. It's the men's fault, that you (supposedly a good woman) are single. Totally not the other way around. I got it!
BlueLights

+1 y
Men can be blind and only see slutty women.

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Asker

I understand. It's the men's fault, that you (supposedly a good woman) are single. Totally not the other way around. I got it!

Answer 24

BlueLights

Men can be blind and only see slutty women.

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patrysid90

Xper 3

I used to think the same thing about men when I was a teen. Now i just think all the guys that are taken are crap as the rest. Lol, its q joke i. swear.

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Belorum

Xper 6

Because the guys they are with know it and don't dump them. Same reason why a lot of "good men" are taken aswell.

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Answer 27

zagor | 8.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

There are more men born than women, usually about 103 boys per 100 girls. But due to preference for boys and selective abortion, in some age ranges in some places this has gotten up to 118 boys per 100 girls.

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Blondie80 | 161 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

It is the same with men. Single women often complaints the same way.

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Shane_B | 174 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

The good ones mainly go for a 'bad boy' so to speak.
Until they are 30+ with kids and a single parent before they want nice guys like us...
Then for us its to late to even be in a relationship to be happy and have a family of our own...

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Kayla03

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Because of monogamy relationship= one guy having multiply womans 😅

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Anonymous

No we don’t. You will find one if you keep looking. Wether or not she stays is another story. So better yourself and hope she doesn’t.

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Answer 32

Anonymous

Not really. A lot of smart and genuinely nice women are waiting for good guys. Unfortunately, these guys may not come at all.

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Vmm90 | 258 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I must not be a good woman then

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BMW12

+1 y
hahahahahahahahaha your are funny and nice to talk
Vmm90

+1 y
You're kind ☺
Asker

+1 y
How are you still single then? You kind of look nice.

Answer 34

BMW12

hahahahahahahahaha your are funny and nice to talk

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Vmm90

You're kind ☺

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Asker

How are you still single then? You kind of look nice.

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Jayson101

Xper 6

You have to snatch them off of people. It is a big competition

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Answer 38

AlphaM1

Xper 4

Because a real man knows that they are precious. So we catch them before someone else will.

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Answer 39

Anon-ymous1

Guru

The answer to your last question is yes.

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lord_chilled | 507 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Smart men snatch up the good ones while they can

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csBill

Xper 2

Every man (and many women) wants a good woman!

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dwiller943 | 719 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

We're not.

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Answer 43

Zedds

Xper 3

Uhh.. no?

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DinaM | 256 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Gee. Thanks.

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Cody_Travers

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perhaps

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