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OMG there are SO many single women in their twenties, we just don’t wanna be “picked up” by guys online. (Unless it’s a specific dating site) Also, what exactly do you mean by “good girls”? If all you are interested in is the superficial, then obviously you are not going to find any good women. I am not on any dating sites, and I get asked out all the time! You just have to be patient and not be afraid to ask women out. If most women you ask out say that they are in a relationship, maybe you are asking out women who are just way above you in the looks department? The one thing I notice more than anything since I’ve been in college is that most of the guys who ask me out are maybe 2’s, 3’s, or 4’s in the looks department. Now I am by no means a 10, but I’m certainly a 7 at least. So I don’t understand what guys are thinking? There are SO MANY women on campus who are single who are average looking, and there is nothing wrong with them being average. But average looking guys are asking out 7’s. 8’s, and 9’s and wondering why they don’t have any luck with dating! The only way a guy who’s a 4 is getting a woman who’s an 8 is if he’s wealthy and she’s a gold digging whore! (And I doubt THAT is what you are looking for!)
If you want to find women who are single and whom you have things in common with, then join a club, hell join several clubs. Take a class like photography or something. Find a woman with whom you share common interests. Get to know them as people first, and allow them to get to know you! But take a long look in the mirror and be realistic about the women you ask out. By asking out women who are similar in the looks range than you are, you are more likely to find someone that will date you. But if you are unable to tell if a woman likes you or is interested in you without talking to her, then by getting to know her in a class or club situation, you may have more luck in finding a woman who will say yes when you ask her out.
I really hope this helps you. Take care.
People must have no idea how hard it is to talk to a girl. As a gu talking to a girl is like unfair, people say just put yourself out there but guess what, the sad but undeniable truth is that girls never want to talk to you, they’re superficial and only take interest if you look super attractive or model-like. Decent looking guys never get that satisfaction because it never happens, from what I always hear, girls only like 6ft guys who have muscular w/abs, pls don’t deny cuz it’s mostly true
Okay, so you’re just ignoring what I suggested you to do? I guess your way is working so well. Talking to women isn’t difficult you’re just afraid of rejection, and that’s not a trait women find attractive. There’s a huge problem of men who believe they are entitled to date women who are gorgeous, when those men are average looking at best, that’s just SO unrealistic! You can follow my advice and increase your chances with women, or ignore it and complain about women being “stuck-up”. Because there’s nothing we find sexier than whiny men who blame women for their own failures! 🙄. I often read that attractive women only like “bad boys types” well I for one personally abhor them, but AT LEAST THEY ASK US OUT w/o fearing rejection. Now while I will reject any man who’s a “bad boy/player type”, a lot of women my age DO date those assholes, because they are the ONLY men who are NOT below average in the looks department who actually take the risk and ask us out. Meanwhile my average looking friends standing right next to me when a below average looking guy asks me out, just treats her as if she doesn’t exist! Jesus, if you would have just asked HER out, you could have a girlfriend who loved you by now! This view some men have on not only their own inflated looks, but on the ease we women have in dating, that we have no difficulties is asinine. Completely dismissing the difficulties WE have with dating is just childish, and narcissistic! How could anyone believe that THEY are the only ones with difficulties in dating? Also believing that we just look for a “model” is crazy. (If you saw my ex-boyfriend you would be quite shocked by how completely NOT like a model he was, and was in fact quite nerdy). But guys like you completely ignore average looking girls, so I have difficulty getting dates, my friend has difficulty getting dates, and you have difficulty getting dates! If people just asked out women closer to your own looks we would ALL find more success in dating!
“If people just asked out women closer to your own looks we would all find more success in dating”? Don’t you think that sounds a bit shallow to you?
Did you even read what i said? As a guy talking to a girl is like unfair, people say just put yourself out there but guess what, the sad but undeniable truth is that girls never want to talk to you, they’re superficial and only take interest if you look super attractive or model-like. Decent looking guys never get that satisfaction because it never happens, from what I always hear, girls only like 6ft guys who have muscular w/abs, pls don’t deny cuz it’s mostly true
Also you don’t even know me! You don’t know the girls I’m attracted to. I’m the type of person who cares more about personality, but guess what, many girls don’t seem to care about that.
IRL I try my best to be a good person but no i always get friend-zoned or rejected when i tell a girl i like her. Like I don't know what’s wrong with me, i try my best to look good, dress well and take care of my appearance. I try my best to be a good person and be kind and friendly But still I don't know, it’s probably looks that are affecting my chances which is bullshit cuz i don’t look that ugly so
Riiiight, Im shallow! I just told you that average looking guys ignore my friend, time and time again, and she herself is average looking. But guys ignore her and ask ME out, but according to you I’M SUPERFICIAL? Seriously, you think I’m superficial because I point out the obvious superficiality of the men who ignore my average looking friend who would love to be asked out by most of the guys who I turn down because I’m not ready for a relationship right now, but she is and yet guys only ask me out! You’re out of your friggin mind! This right here, THIS is exactly why I don’t usually answer anonymous questions, because it’s always a friggin troll just looking to piss people off for trying to help! I gave you excellent advice about joining a club or taking an adult night class in pottery, photography, whatever and you just insulted me personally, when I only spoke about some men in general, so screw you!
Doing stuff like that is a chore for introverts and people with bad social skills. You’re overreacting as well, you’re a good example of girls i never wanna meet or date.
“You’re a good example of girls i never wanna meet or date” Well, thank you for that at least!
If you are too lazy to get off your ass and do something about changing your life, then stop whining that you can’t get any dates! You EASILY could, you’re just too friggin lazy to actually do anything about it! How the hell do you expect to acquire any social skills? Do you think we are born with them? No, we put ourselves out there, usually beginning in middle school, and we LEARN what works and what doesn’t. I will say this, NO woman wants a nervous, socially awkward man with no social skills, NONE! So sit at home, play your video games (I’m absolutely positive you play lots of video games), and jerk off! Hell there’s nothing wrong with a little self-loving before bed. But at least I will be going on at least two dates a week (during which I will pay for myself, thank you). And a LOT of those will be with thin nerdy guys, but they’ll be thin nerdy guys who are decent looking and have GREAT self confidence, and a good sense of self assuredness! Actually one of the guys I’m currently dating asked me out last year, early in the fall. I politely declined, but I gave him the same advice as I gave you. I said join a club or take some (non college) night classes, and ask women out there. When you've been on 5 dates, if you are still single ask me out again. He did, and he had a completely different affect! He was way more confident, he held his head high, his shoulders back, and he confidently looked me right in the eyes and asked me out again, and I said “absolutely, yes!” He’s a really great guy, and he now has social skills, AND he’s making out with a pretty blonde a couple of times a week! But you just keep on doing what you’re doing, I’m sure you’ll be fine.
But this is where I say goodbye, and end my participation in this ridiculous conversation/troll you have going on here. It’s definitely been a great education for why I should NEVER answer anonymous posters again!
You obviously don’t understand how hard it is to talk to people especially girls. You can’t possibly imagine. And i have social anxiety and autism which makes it harder. Whenever i try to talk to girls they get so awkward with me and they don’t even look open for conversation. So don’t blame me and say I’m whining. You girls will never understand how hard guys have it when it comes to you women. Talking to women is like talking to someone who expects way more than what actually matters
Life isn’t fair, get over it. I dealt with a lot of the same shit you’re dealing with it but trying to get other peoples sympathy and understanding isn’t how I advanced.
@WhiteBoyChill yk you sound like such an a**hole, I’ve seen you on so many responses on just my question alone. And you sound really immature. You’re such a dick, but it’s people like you who give me confidence cuz I know I’m better than you just of my personality alone. Cuz I’m more kinder and mature than you.
You’re judgement of maturity doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me. You’ve managed to piss off just about everybody in your post
@WhiteBoyChill My Judgment of maturity? You were arguing/talking about big dicks in one of these responses so don’t you go judging me on my judgement of maturity
Yet you’re the one who got all triggered and offended by our discussion like a little pssy.
@WhiteBoyChill just grow up, you’re 22 act like it, I’m a year older than you and yet i have a more mature personality than you so yea, I’m gonna block you, again Grow up pls 🙄🤦🏻♂️
Im gonna cry cuz you blocked me
But no seriously tho. You’re the one that keeps getting triggered and having temper tantrums over trivial stuff. Did you not have friends growing up?
If you want someone mature, you’re going to have to consider women who are slightly older or with more experience. Or studious women with more prestige and high standards, just make sure you meet hers too and don’t expect her to have a lot of time for you.
Its still not that simple tho. I mean yeah there’s the studious girls in college, but they’re just dry af.
As in conversationally dry
I don't know. Usually they just don’t want to talk so I leave them be
Yea, people say talk to more girls, put yourself out there but like i do but they never want to talk to me so like it’s not my fault. Girls are so ha to talk to cuz they don’t open up to anyone other than to other girls
That’s like every girl I talk to lol. Point being most girls aren’t going to give an average appearance 5ft 9 guy the time of day.
Wtf does that even mean?
My mentality the entire time has been take me as is or forget about me. No woman is ever going to change me into what she desires.
Whoever is replying, they’ve blocked me so I can’t see their shit
I just want to point something out.
The internet shows off the worst of humanity. In general.
Think about the GUYS you see on the internet? (I realize you don't care about guys like you care about girls, but bare with me)
The guys on the internet... are generally fucking embarrassing. They are over-the-top obnoxious, ignorant, immature, sexually inappropriate, misogynistic and just... well... embarrassing.
What I'm saying is that women could look at the internet... and ALSO think "where the hell are the decent guys?" Because what they see on the internet is not actually a reflection of 'guys out in the world'. It's some bottom-of-the-barrel shit. It's the worst specimens of 'males' who are the loudest on the internet. They seem to be in the majority on the internet. That's not true in actual life.
Same thing applies here. The girls who are making you lose faith in "good women"... don't represent women overall. Again, it's going to be the worst type of 'female' who is the loudest on the internet. They seem in the majority. But that's not a reflection of women in real life. Most women are not like the one's you're talking about. Don't go thinking the internet is an accurate representation of women overall. It's not.
I’m not just talking about the internet fyi
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people, and most of the good girls are taken
most of the girls that are good are all taken IRL. IRL I try my best to be a good person but no i always get friend-zoned or rejected when i tell a girl i like her. Like I don't know what’s wrong with me, i try my best to look good, dress well and take care of my appearance. I try my best to be a good person and be kind and friendly But still I don't know, it’s probably looks that are affecting my chances which is bullshit cuz i don’t look that ugly so
They're out there. They're just hiding from all the scuzzy guys. Not saying that's what you are, it's just that if they're taking precautions then it's harder for guys without experience to find them.
So, stop looking. Focus on being the best you that you can be, start following your dreams and by doing so you'll put yourself in certain circles.
Women are predators, just like men, but whereas men are like lions or bears women are like beautiful toxic flowers that lull you to sleep.
Anyway, if you're doing your best, women will see focus and sincerity and maybe they'll make the first move.
Just be patient. I'm not proud of it, I'm on my third marriage. The 20's were a rough time for me because I was in a rush, I had low self-esteem and I actually believed those bloodsucking... individuals when they said they loved me. I wish I'd believed in myself and treated myself as someone to be valued and protected.
I'm not saying to be arrogant. Just know that you are of value and you should have standards that you will not violate. If a bad woman sees your desperation then it's easier to take advantage of you.
There are QUALITY women out there. Be a quality man first. Quality takes time. Be patient... and start doing some pushups and finish your education!
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Because they’re trolls online as well as people can say who they really are without people seeing them differently.
It’s like if many women seem the type of porn men watched and the degrading things men say about women online. They would be demoralized.
If you hate women in general most women won’t want you. Some claim I hate women on here others say I’m a SIMP…. So take that for what it is. All made up garbage so they can deflect when they’re called out but okay.
There are plenty of good women. If someone isn’t into you. Nothing personal long as she’s cool. Just move on and focus on someone else. You can’t make everyone like you and focusing on people who don’t will keep you single for sure
I feel that way about the men I know. I haven't dated a lot to know how many guys my age are single but I would imagine the odds change every year unless God helps me out. The advantage is, I am also losing interest in young guys and prefer a guy at least 40.
There's still a lot of good faithful women. You can usually find them in Christian churches
Religious women tend to be more dutiful in relationships and not as quick to dump a guy
That’s always how is it. Snooze and indecisive and lose…
Wdym indecisive
You think it’s easy? Girls have such high unrealistic standards. You either have to be a model or close to beyond human to get a girl to take interest
Then why are you chasing shallow girls?
I’m not, but that’s all there is, all the good girls are mainly taken
Inexperienced? You probably a play boy, someone who probably just uses girls for their bodies and inappropriate shit
I’m 23
He sounds like an incel. Also he claims to know all woman. He basing this on the two girls he knows 🤣
Why are people online suck jerks.
My dad was an accountant, why does it matter?
"Everyone online is so superficial and shallow and really immature and bitchy"
It’s true tho
Stop projecting
Projecting? You don’t know me. god people online suck. You are such jerks. Stop assuming things about me and being an ass
He’s technically not wrong. I mean college girls mostly date players.
You literally made assumptions about everyone on the internet, asker!
I was talking to u
Wasn't
I said asker
God @PinkRose24 has such a stuck up personality. What’s wrong with you?
How? All I said was I was addressing the asker. You're the stuck up one that thinks every comment revolves around him when I clearly was addressing the asker. Why are you getting mad just for making things clear.
You're really immature for your age tbh
You’re 29, you’re the one who acts immature for your age. Fyi i am the person who asked the original question so
That's not my age. I don't put my information on the internet
You have two accounts?
You realize this entire question is anonymous, and it says asker when I comment? Unless you can’t see it.
Oh really? In that case you’re probably way younger, cuz you sound pretty immature
Oh I thought it was the other guy
There all taken. Go to the gym.
Stereotypical
Not every guy goes to the gym
You should with that mindset.
That’s all stereotypical, what’s so important about the gym? Huh? All the superficial girls only like guys who work out and have muscles and abs
You say all the women online are bitchy but dude you sound bitchy as hell. How do you reconcile that?
I hate superficial people. They disgust me cuz personality matters way more. In a relationship it’s about connection and love and personality.
Am being bitchy for saying there are things more important in a relationship than guys that go to the gym
So why allow a subset of people stop you from finding people you connect with? You act as if you now have to think and walk a certain way because of said superficial people. No you don't. They aren't going anywhere and they certainly have nothing to do with how you should move in your life.
Cuz most of the girls that are good are all taken. I try my best to be a good person but no i always get friend-zoned or rejected when i tell a girl i like her. Like I don't know what’s wrong with me, i try my best to look good, dress well and take care of my appearance. But still I don't know, it’s probably looks that are affecting my chances which is bullshit cuz i don’t look that ugly so
It's definitely your personality.
Also nothing wrong with a guy that stays healthy and hits the gym.
@PinkRose24 you don’t know me so don’t judge me. You don’t know my personality. We’re literally strangers online. And also not every guy goes to the gym and who says you need to go the gym to stay healthy
Why would anything be wrong with you? You certainly don't expect to be everyone's cup of tea do ya? Because that would be insane and arrogant wouldn't you agree? You need to just keep swinging and know that you have something to offer the right person. If you get friend zoned you just ask them if they know anyone that might be in the market for a bad ass like yourself? You turn it around. If they say no great no problem. You don't have to stick around and go shoe shopping with them. You thank them for their time and move on. Remove expectations of outcome on your interactions with women and just have fun with it. You can't get rejected if you are just out having fun and mingling with people.
I want a serious relationship tho, unlike most guys who want casual relationship which mostly just lead to s-e-x
Asker is thinking black and white... you can literally go on a date with a guy have a nice time but it doesn't work out without leading to sex.
@PinkRose24 I feel he wants a magic pill and there isn't any. There is only reps of getting out there and getting better through communication and contact.
I’m introverted and antisocial, girls don’t understand that, that not all guys are super confident and social
You don't understand that not all "good girls" are taken. Instead you make assumptions about others.
According to GAG many women on here love the shy introverted types. So don't let that stop ya
I am super confident and social and still get rejected a lot. Most girls are really average and for a good girl you have to try and wait.
@mateta_haidara average in personality?
@PinkRose24 Yes, but they appearance mislead guys so they seem more interesting human beings than they actually are. Most humans are actually average.
I unfortunately agree with coach's view here
All the good girls are taken for the same reason all the oil and diamonds are taken: cause they're valuable! And like oil and diamonds, becoming increasingly rare over time and are starting to run out.
I've said it before on GAG: I would give my heart and soul (but not my wallet or a wedding ring) to a great woman. Possibly even a good woman. But they truly are really rare, nowadays. I do see a few on here, but they are not single.
Most women nowadays are either queer ("bi"/bi-curious), feminists/man-hating b*tches, far-left/woke, e-whores/unfaithful, or otherwise awful human beings. Not that men are much better nowadays, either. I haven't had good women be into me, but I'm so jaded and sick of modern society nowadays, that I can't blame them. My optimism and positivity has long since gone away; both due to personal struggles in life and woke Western society as a whole.
Maybe one day, an angelic unicorn can restore my tainted black soul into believing in humanity once again. But for now, I've met too many scumbags and rotten people to believe in good women who are still single out here. I'm so sick of lesbians, feminist sh*tstains, woke retards, and OnlyFans trash, being the norm for women. I'm sick of simps, sucks, and soyboys who worship pussy being the norm for men too, but I care slightly less about that, since I'm not into men, in any way.
But yeah, why are all the good women taken? Cause they're the rare diamonds still left in humanity.
Also, gonna echo what others have said on here.
1) You're not going to find quality women online. Online dating apps are set up to give women an ego boost and to see men FAIL on them.
2) You come off SUPER entitled and picky in these comments, OP. Like, seriously. It's the same crap certain women do, when they complain about being single, but then reject all possible women for retarded superficial reasons. "I don't want a stay-at-home mom; I don't want some dumb bitch, I don't want this, I don't want that..." Okay. You don't want 99% of women available to you; but you can't whine and complain about it either, if you're being that picky. That's a giant turn-off and it also makes you sound immature and whiny. I'm not even a woman and even I can notice this. What do you think women will say about it?
Also, not once did you state what YOU offer to a woman; which is the same self-centeredness these picky women do. It's all "me, me, me" but they never think about what they can provide to anyone (usually, they have nothing TO offer anyone, which is why they're single.) Maybe I'm wrong, but you're leaving a really bad impression so far, and this is just as an anon online.
3) Learn how to type and spell. The internet "who dis? what u mean" speak is cringey. No one, on either gender, likes "teenage typing." Is typing "please" really that much more of a hassle than "pls"?
4) You can never go wrong with self-improvement. Work on yourself more, regardless if women will be in your future or not. That's why I'm doing, as my short-ass can't find anyone, either.
Just some food for thought for you to chew on.
Looking online is only good if you're looking for cheating sluts. You have to do the real life face to face stuff if you're looking for something more than a girl wanting strange on the side.
I'm sure there are exceptions out there, but exceptions don't make the general rule... the cheating sluts make the general rule. ... Also you got to be a 10 out of 10 dude for the online stuff to really work... and it works on mostly married or taken cheating sluts. Chicks are super flaky and fickle online... but you probably already have learned that.
The internet is definitely a bad place to look. Bars and clubs aren't great either. I do believe there are good women out there because I have good women in my family who are single. Maybe try a bookstore, pick up a hobby, join a cool/interesting club or try something new. Believing there are no good women won't help anyone, and if you see a good woman, don't hesitate because obviously other guys are going to want her too. I think sometimes it's hard to tell if she is a good woman though, so to combat that, I think the best bet is to just make an effort to get to know them and cut contact if it's going nowhere.
I’m introverted and antisocial, it’s hard for me to talk to people. I suck at socializing
You have to put yourself out there. Maybe you'll look like an idiot but if you don't go out, you'll never get anywhere. Online is literally the worst if you're trying to find good girls. I'm not saying they don't exist, but you're going to have to lower your standards for looks a lot, and why would you do that when you could just improve your social skills? I used the word "skills" because that's exactly what they are. You might think you have some kind of trait that you're born with, and maybe it's true, but you can definitely improve your social skills. The type of girls you can get are literally like night and day. Online dating also forces even just average girls to be super selective because they are getting so many likes, so why would she choose you? Because you have good character? I assure you many guys are going to try to display that they have good character, and girls know this, and even in online dating, you have to display social skills, so you're pretty much fucked if you don't get outside and talking to people in real life. I think deep down you know you have to do this too. Don't be an idiot and think "I'm just going to be real and be my antisocial self" because that's just some bullshit excuse to not take action. If you don't think that's an excuse, why the hell would a woman want to talk to someone who sucks at socializing? Don't try to get confidence before you go out because that's not going to happen. You have to go out and try and try again to get the confidence to do it right when it matters.
People always say that shit, but guess what, girls never want to talk to you, they’re superficial and only take interest if you look like attractive or model-like.
Cuz if that wasn’t the case then why doesn’t any girl talk to me? I try to talk to girls but they shut me out like a fly on a windshield, either that or just really closed off/awkward. I don't know why i try my best to be friendly and a good person, so it’s probably them
Honestly, I don't have an argument aside from what I've already told you, so if you don't believe me, that really sucks for you. There's no hope for you. Seriously, just give up. No point in trying if there are no good girls out there.
Maybe you should try dating guys because there are plenty of good guys available.
You’re a dick, everyone is a dick online. F** you, you shouldn’t even have bothered answering. I don’t need to take your crap. You people deny what’s actually real and believe what’s unrealistic when it comes to actually doing it.
I was hoping for hope and good answers. Not people criticizing me for being stereotypical and generalizing. I want to know if good girls actually exist. But I guess people online can’t answer that cuz you people are idiots and close minded cuz you called me fucked up for believing something that’s obviously true
I said I believe they do exist. I never called you fucked up. I said you're fucked if you don't change the way you think. How can you not agree with what I said? You're literally hoping that they fall on your lap. I'm telling you to work for it. You're saying no amount of social skills is going to change anything so how are you not screwed if you keep thinking like this? I'm giving you tips to change your destiny but you're saying that it won't change anything... How else can I give you hope? Do you want me to tell you that they are just there waiting for you? They're not.
Why is it the world's responsibility to "prove you wrong," by providing you with a girl that fits your standards? You're a man, it's your responsibility to make yourself worthy of a good girl, THEN go find her. What, do you think you're Rapunzel up in tower, where some nice, cute virgin is just suppose to come save the day?
Good girls are only good in comparison to the plethora of women who are trash, but that doesn't mean they're in short supply. However, if you're not somebody worth desiring/ respecting, even the good girls are going to ignore you.
Stereotypical
Not every guy has the courage/confidence of a lion. Not every guy is social. It’s also so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people, and most of the good girls are taken
There a fresh waves of girls turning 18-21 every day; they're not all taken. And quit whining, and improve. "wah, it's hard, blah blah blah" grow a damn pair, kid.
Why are you such a jerk? Kid? I’m 23, it says you’re 27, not much older.
I'm a jerk because I know a little bit about the world, and the world doesn't coddle to us men- we have to toughen up. I have no animosity against you, but I felt you needed a very direct, and frank assessment of what you should do: (1) quit whining, (2) improve yourself, then (3) find a girl who you classify as "good." You can't rush the process- even if you found a single, good girl rn you wouldn't be ready for it.
God why does everyone online have such superiority complexes? 🤦🏻♂️ and such jerks. Just because you are older than me doesn’t mean you have somehow have like twice as much life experience. Grow up cuz you have a serious superiority complex
I'm a decorated war veteran, I have two master's degrees, a six-figure salary, and a virgin girlfriend... I am a bit superior. It'd be beneficial to listen.
You’re 27, how do you even have all of that? And also just because you have more experience in life doesn’t mean you’re better. Just because you’re more successful doesn’t make you better. You have such a huge Superiority complex Fr
How else can one be better? You keep think of these weird abstract principles of equality, but if I'm richer, more educated, and far more experienced with hardship/ success what else would you measure to see if one thing is better than another? I'm not saying you can't have the same thing, because you can- you just need to get over that feminization.
Wdym feminization
The asker needs to get his mind off women right now. Be about building value. Go back to school. Then maybe in 8 to 10 years, you will be in a better place. Western Society seems to be programming these girls to be shallow and a bit hedonistic at times. I see their age is 18-24. I had my heart ripped out and handed back to me at 24. I spent the next 10 years getting an education and doing things for myself. Understand I am not talking about MGTOW and I don't keep blue and red pills in my medicine cabinet. What I am trying to say is build value and be about YOU! When the time is right that cutie will enter your life. Stop stressing over this.
What’s wrong with wanting a girlfriend?
I'm a traditional girl who would love to get married and have lots of babies. I want to be a stay at home working mom, meaning during the day I want to tend to the home by cooking, cleaning, baking, taking care of the children, and caring for my husband. But at night is when I'll start doing my online teaching work cause I want to be an online professor. And I'm still single, I've been for a about two years.
I would never date a girl who wants to be stay at home mom cuz I don’t wanna be the only working, earning money and supporting the family. Stay at home moms are lazy. One parent can’t support an entire family alone
Yea? Who’s gonna earn the money? The husband? I hope he’s rich cuz that’s the only way that’ll work
Dude don’t take advice on relationships from women they think we are on a level playing field and we aren’t they’re on easy mode but men are on maximum difficulty
@asker
Dude, there are jobs ONLINE. She just laid it out for you how she'd take care of her husband, kids, house AND contribute.
SHE is a quality woman!
And you just insulted her?
YOU are the reason why you're alone.
I was diagnosed with Asperger's as an adult. It explained a lot of the problems I had when I was younger. But I sure af didn't insult people who tried to help me.
You need a slap in the back of the head. Say you're sorry.
Talk to me when you're done.
I've got a lesson plan for you.
What you want doesn’t matter when you aren’t fit to be a wife
@Andres77 I didn’t say she can’t work I said she can’t have a career she said she wants to be a professor careers like that are extremely time consuming she will eventually have to give one up
That was one of the major benefits of having a wife it allows men to fully commit to their careers because she handled most of the child rearing
@Andres77
I’ve went to school kids with parents like that and they were the most fucked up kids at school doing drugs selling drugs depressed disrespectful more sociopathic tendencies much less likely to attend college
they’re almost as worst off as kids raised by single moms
Because they’re neglected raising kids is more than just keeping them alive people literally are letting money raise their children and wonder why the world is so fucked up
Who wants to be the only one earning money? Unless you’re rich and that selfless, that’s an unrealistic thing. Are guys just slaves to girls? The person who works all day while she just stays to take care of kids which is most likely not happening if you’re still really young, It’s impossible to live with only one person earning money in the family. The fact that you’re actually making an argument out of this means you’re either rich or in way over your head
I don’t want to be the only one earning money and going poor and homeless because we can’t pay our bills and stuff
@Andres77 not at all it’s undesirable for anyone who is more family oriented
Let me rephrase what I said
You cannot have a career and be a good parent
It’s possible lots of things are but it’s not desirable it’s possible to swim across the Atlantic and not die it’s possible to run through a swarm of bees and not get stung
It’s shouldn’t be recommended because a lot of people don’t see the real effect’s because they aren’t the ones being harmed by it their children are
@PainusNdeeAnus sabes que tonto? I'm going to go with my life experience which is twice as much as yours and the numerous examples that I've seen.
Look at our profile pics. That's what I was doing when I was your age. You think stupid shyt is important. You and the anonymous poster are immature and inexperienced. When you've actually accomplished something with your lives once you leave mommy's basement I might consider your perspective.
Ciao, bambino.
@Andres77 age doesn’t equal wisdom haven’t you ever heard of an old fool
Do you really believe because of your age that someone younger than you can’t teach you? That’s very arrogant of you honestly
This society isn’t like how it was when you were younger this generation is not cut from the same cloth
God why does everyone online have such superiority complexes? 🤦🏻♂️ and such jerks. Just because you are twice my age doesn’t mean you have twice the life experience. Grow up cuz you have a serious superiority complex
Exactly they don’t even know the difference between a career and a job
@Cubus I’m so glad you said judge
Two of my friends I ran track with in high school had a judge for a mother
Her daughter was a bully the school whore and had 5 abortions her mother didn’t know about she dated grown men who weren’t even close to our age
The son did coke , acid, k-pins he was a fucking junkie did not respect his mother at all called her a bitch to her face and he is in jail now for torturing and murdering his girlfriend
People with careers don’t have time to properly discipline their kids she may think she is a good parent but she won’t really know until they’re about 26 and 4 I really feel sorry for her middle child they’re neglected even by involved supportive parents there’s no telling what they do she’s probably raising a future serial killer
You cannot have a career and be a good parent some of the most successful people in the world biggest regret is not spending more time with their kids these are the type of people who turn 18 and never want to see their parents again
@Dinklex3 26 years is hardly a career that’s not a career like I said it’s a lifelong endeavor if she actually made a career of it she would be a very high ranking officer by now
26 years that’s how long people work at factory jobs it really just confirms that she only did it for the money and benefits
Plus military parents aren’t the best example their kids are pretty fucked up too
@PainusNdeeAnus It is a career, lmao. & resulted in a comfy retirement. Seems like you're trying hard to make it appear like your opinion is fact.
Parents can have fucked up kids regardless if theyre military or not. I am in no way "fucked up" and many of my family members have served. Nice try though.
@PainusNdeeAnus I didn't disclose it because it doesn't matter.
You clearly know nothing about the military, make ignorant statements, then claim you can't have a military career, lmao.
menaitech.com/.../
www.trade-schools.net/articles/career-vs-job
@PainusNdeeAnus I gave you links because you're making up your own definitions/ meanings and claiming they're facts when they are not. That is why I gave you actually links because you are wrong 🙃
^ Again, try reviewing the links or do your own research to determine what makes it a job vs a career because you are not making any sense/have no idea what you're talking about.
Have a great New Year! I hope you actually learned the difference between a job and a career for the start or 2023... Or just continue to make up your own definitions and ignore sources... thats on you 💁🏿♀️
Don't take the internet as an example to generalize. There are plenty of good women feeling the same about guys. I know finding people in real life is complicated. I'm struggling with it myself, but trust me, the more guys who turn off their phones, (and girls), go out of their comfort zones and actually work on meeting people, the better. There are countless women worth dating off the screen.
most of the girls that are good are all taken IRL. IRL I try my best to be a good person but no i always get friend-zoned or rejected when i tell a girl i like her. Like I don't know what’s wrong with me, i try my best to look good, dress well and take care of my appearance. I try my best to be a good person and be kind and friendly But still I don't know, it’s probably looks that are affecting my chances which is bullshit cuz i don’t look that ugly so
Most of them aren't taken, actually. Most of them are looking at guys and presuming they're the ones who are already in relationships. I know that whenever I see a handsome, put-together, and kind guy, I never approach him because I'm generally sure he already has a girlfriend.
Women care about looks initially, the same as guys do. But your personality will build on that or break it down.
Yea that’s why i lose hope and looks are bullshit, cuz what about decent looking guys, not every guy has six pack abs, 6ft, and has a big d**k
I care more about personality, i can tell from the first sentence or word how your personality is, that tells me whether to leave or stay
It makes sense that all the married couples will appear better to you. They no longer have to play games. The dropped the pretenses and choose to get to know each other fully. Including the flaws. That takes courage.
There are lots of good people out their hiding behind their hurts from dating experiences.
Here's what you need to do:
1) Observe some of these "good girls" who you want. What are they like? What makes them good? What do YOU value in them? Write this stuff down and understand it.
2) Now observe their behavior with other people. What do they WANT? Who are they guys they are taken by? What attracts them to these guys? What are the qualities of the guys who get these "good girls?" Write it down and understand it.
3) Now figure out where you fit in againt the characteristics that the good girls are attracted to. Which characteristics do you already have? Where do you fall short? What can you change to improve?
4) Now build a plan to make yourself more attractive to the girls you value and then GET TO WORK!
As for finding love I always thought I had a better chance of getting hit by lightning on a submarine however lightning can strike. As for me I tried online dating a few times & with all honesty I like offline dating better. Online it’s like your looking for a starfish & always find whales. My brother from another mother a New Year it is & a new start you can have as well so I say start the year off right & return to the offline dating club.
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people, and most of the good girls are taken
I always say if you want to meet people you have to get out & greet people.
You say all the good girls are taken so find a bad girl instead.
I’m introverted and antisocial. I suck at socializing
It’s a chore
People must have no idea how hard it is to talk to a girl. As a guy talking to a girl is like unfair, people say just put yourself out there but guess what, the sad but undeniable truth is that girls never want to talk to you, they’re superficial and only take interest if you look super attractive or model-like. Decent looking guys never get that satisfaction because it never happens, from what I always hear, girls only like 6ft guys who have muscular w/abs, pls don’t deny cuz it’s mostly true
Love works in mysterious ways. You say you are introverted, antisocial & you suck at socializing so maybe you can find a girl who is introverted, antisocial & sucks at socializing as well. As for asking girls out practice makes perfect & you my friend are going to have to kick yourself in the ass & overcome your ways. The next girl that catches your attention walk up to her I double dare you & say the following. If Covid Doesn’t Take You Out Can I?
I always get rejected and friendzoned, i don’t want to sound like a dick, so i try my best to sound as kind as possible. I don’t want to sound like a playboy
If you get rejected at least you tried. When I get rejected I look at it like they did me a favor because subconsciously they know they aren’t good enough for me.
To me it’s always the other way around
A good girl is like a unicorn… they don’t exist.
you might believe the ones you see in relationships are good but I can guarantee that the guy is tired of her shit.
Women GENERALLY are entitled, narcissistic, spoiled children. Most men who are married are like broken house cats, because they are stopped from doing anything they love or enjoy, they never get sex, they feel trapped and miserable, and long for the time when they had freedom and fun.
look at society, most women dress and act like whores. They expose themselves online or in public with as little clothing as possible to get as much sexual attention as possible, they rack up a body count in the multi digits and think it’s ok, they are shallow and materialistic, are mostly hypergamous, have fake nails, hair, lips, tits, eye lashes, etc and yet want “a real man”.
The best option for any guy, is to stay single.
Ask any married man. (Yes, I am married)
I want someone to spend my life with, everytime I watch romance shows or amazing couples IRL, I always desire something like that.
Romance shows are a female fantasy and unrealistic. People in real life put on a show in public but no man is ever truly happy married. Which is why they call her the ol’ ball and chain.
Women seem like a good ides but they drain you of all your joy over time.
I waited four years till I found my current boyfriend. It was hard but I didn’t want to settles for the sake of not eating to be single. In that time I worked on things I knew I needed to work on and I asked myself the things I’m wanting in a significant other am I willing to do also it’ll be worth it. I know it’s hard but it’ll be worth it when you find the right person.
Sorry can't prove you wrong. The tragedy of online is that there is not the same info as face to face, so people will flick through mostly going by looks. And if you think Girl A is hot than other guys will too and it will be highly competitive. Girl A will know she can pick and choose and so be superficial and bitchy.
It is said that there is 2 men to every girl on tinder. Assuming people only have one profile then there are lot of girls not dating apps. Where do they go?
What about IRL?
Actually most of the girls that are good are all taken IRL. IRL I try my best to be a good person but no i always get friend-zoned or rejected when i tell a girl i like her. Like I don't know what’s wrong with me, i try my best to look good, dress well and take care of my appearance. I try my best to be a good person and be kind and friendly But still I don't know, it’s probably looks that are affecting my chances which is bullshit cuz i don’t look that ugly so
Yeah it makes sense the good ones are snapped up already. It's not as if I know any better.
A friend is trying the strategy of being a friend to as many girls he rates as good as possible on the assumption that at some point they will break up and he will be in a position to swoop in. Haven't seen him for quite some time now so don't how that is working. Seems an over logical forlorn hope to me.
Don't think any of us know any better then you do. I'm pretty sure online girls are going to have qualities you listed. They might be better outside of that environment IRL. Dunno.
In your age bracket there should be the maximum of single girls. It could be they are wanting high income guys. Dunno. What can any of us say?
It has always seemed that way. Every girl I ever went out with had some good qualities but eventually the bad qualities became apparent. They would be perfect except for X (fill in the blank) It took a while but I finally found someone who was perfect for me. It wasn't easy and there was an element of luck involved with it as well.
You ask why all the good girls are taken and then one girl answers you and says she wants to get married and have a family and be a stay at home mom and you argue with her because you don't want to be the only one earning money. Maybe that's your problem.
Who wants to be the only one earning money? Unless you’re rich and that selfless, that’s an unrealistic thing. Are guys just slaves to girls? The person who works all day while she just stays to take care of kids which is most likely not happening if you’re still really young, It’s impossible to live with only one person earning money in the family. The fact that you’re actually making an argument out of this means you’re either rich or in way over your head
I don’t want to be the only one earning money and going poor and homeless because we can’t pay our bills and stuff
I've often enjoyed just going about my everyday life, sometimes even trips to town or metropolis, and there's so much to enjoy during the day as well as of course there's always women crossing paths or walking along and pass me by who I glance briefly and think hmm hot. Or you could just refer to dating apps dating websites, ask mutual friends you know of double dates or blind dates.
Go on a dating show competition maybe or reality show that's romance based? 🥳😈✌🏻 Peace ☮️
good girls are not all taken. you just don't notice them because they don't look like your typical Instagram hot girl. all of you men only want to date hot girls in their 20s. Hot girls are entitled and have bad attitudes because they know plenty of men will tolerate their BS and continue staying with them cuz they're hot.
This is partly what I’ve suspected all along. It’s left me in a difficult situation because I’m only physically attracted to the instagram hot girl, but otherwise still completely turned off by their personality.
@WhiteBoyChill
lotta guys say they won't stay with a hot girl with a entitled bad attitude. but MOST men would stay with her. Hot girls have entitled bad attitudes because they can afford to have them.
if she couldn't get a man due to her bad attitude, she wouldn't have a bad attitude.
@pupluv45 ya that’s true but I am not one of those guys tho. I’ve never even had a girl before personally cuz I just refuse those types outright.
I mean while in terms of practicality dudes can still just hook up with those girls, it just really isn’t my thing. I’d rather just use my hand then make things complicated.
No, that's the problem. They're not all taken. Those taken ones were single once. I have friends who are really good people and and some of them are single. But the problem is that you don't know until you go talk to her. That's why they're all taken, you can see more clearly why that person is a good partner.
A girl sitting across me while on the way to work. She could be a great person, I don't know. We don't know a person just by looking unless she's really acting up.
You sound judgmental, hon. Like it's okay to say "I won't date someone who smokes" or "I won't get involved with someone promiscuous" but stereotyping people? No wonder you're alone!
You’re a jerk. You don’t know me! And also wdym I’m stereotyping people? How am I stereotyping people? I’m just saying the truth
As in confusing opinions with facts?
Also it says you’re 22, why did you call me hon like you’re looking down on me even tho I’m like older than you by one year. I hate when people call someone Hon, cuz it makes them sound condescending, it’s annoying
What'd you prefer to be called?
I’m just wanna know why you called me that. No person around the same age would call someone that. I thought you were way older like 40 when you said that.
I use "hon" often as a way of addressing on GaG. It's nothing against you.
Why are you stereotyping woman again?
How am I stereotyping? I’m not even talking about just women when it comes to this
Elaborate
I don’t need to elaborate, i don’t have to explain that to you. You act both too old for your age and too immature for your age. No 22 year old addresses people with hun, it makes you sound condescending Ngl. Also You’re judgmental cuz you judged me in your original response even tho you don’t even know me.
All right
They are not all taken. Shut down your computer, turn off your phone and go out into the real world and interact with real human women. You will find good girls out there but the internet is not the first best place to find them.
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people especially girls cuz most of them are all taken
Oh let me rephrase that, most of the good ones are taken. The others are just left overs from all the bad guys that they were naive enough to date
I live in a very small island. They hardly have anywhere to go. And plus covid makes it even harder. I’m 23, there’s not very much places i can go
[I got off of most social-media, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and several others. I now have a personal goal to meet women in person. But I kept my WhatsApp and Telegram because not all women feel comfortable texting/communicating via text/actual-phone number. Do yourself that favor, most women are only satisfying their need/want for attention, and interactions don’t go at all far, wether you are kind, or direct. It’s useless.]
They’re not all taken. You’re just looking in the wrong places. Try contiki tours, church groups, meetup activities, tafe courses, volunteer work and meeting people through friends. Often love finds you where you least expect it.
That sounds like hell for me, I’m introverted and antisocial, suck at talking to people
Also i don’t understand that logic, how tf does love find you? I’m pretty sure it doesn’t
I don’t mean it falls out of the sky or gets delivered to your house like an eBay order. You have to go out, looking. But not too hard. Go on trips with your friends, meetup and religious groups, meet friends of friends, use dating sites. Be bold and put yourself out there. But go in with the focus of making male and female friends and then act a bit casual, like you’re friendly but not desperate.
I don’t have that life, i don’t go out with people. I’m a homebody, i never leave my house unless it’s important like an appointment, to eat or something. It’s stereotypical to think that every person has a life like that who has friends that they go out with and they can do all that. I’m 23 still living with my father so
People always say that shit, go out and put yourself out there but guess what, the sad but undeniable truth is that girls never want to talk to you, they’re superficial and only take interest if you look super attractive or model-like. Decent looking guys never get that satisfaction because it never happens, from what I always hear, girls only like 6ft guys who have muscular w/abs, pls don’t deny cuz it’s mostly true
Those are only the younger women. In your thirties, women care more about kindness. You won’t find someone by staying home and waiting for them to appear like an eBay order. That’s not how life works for anyone.
I don’t want to find love late, I’m 23, my parents were in their 42 and 36 when they had me, and my mom died when i was 15, so i don’t want that. I want to find love while I’m young and fighting and still alive cuz the older I get the more I realize goodness doesn’t exist and I’m the only one who’s capable of it now.
Because every woman out there has 5 or 6 guys chasing her, it's like watching a bunch of buck deer chasing a doe during the rut. A good woman would probably have twice that many chasers. It's laughable and hard to believe that there is a more or less equal number of men and women existing on this rock when one woman makes a bunch of guys come out of the woodwork like roaches in a slum apartment.
If you are not over 6 ft tall, fit, rich, and as good-looking as a male model, no woman will pay any attention to you at all. Move to a country in Southeast Asia where the women are still somewhat sane (Thailand or Vietnam are good for this), or resign yourself to growing old and dying alone. Women in the Western world are hopeless.
But who says it’s better anywhere else tho?
Fyi, those countries don’t speak English. And i only speak English
I went to korea once for a trip and hardly any of them spoke English.
Yea well as far as i know hardly anyone in southeast Asia speaks English. Especially the locals
Dude 18 to 25 are crucial years focus on yourself trust me the women will come
The tables will be turned by the time you are in your late twenties to early thirties all you’ll have to do is weed out the baby mommas and dusty females
Plus women are super annoying you’re probably just lonely try making friends real friends just one or two is all you need
Making Real friends are also impossible
I want to share my life with someone, have a life partner. Every time i watch romance shows, i always desire one
Because the quality women go on the attack early and nail partners down. After 25 the women still single are the LEFTOVERS. Occasionally one good one becomes a free agent again if her husband dies, or in the rare instance she picks the wrong guy. But there's a reason after 25 all the good women are gone. It's because guys that have one know what they got. They're smart enough to do what it takes to keep her. And because she's a good woman she makes his life easier.
I’m 23, trying to find a girlfriend but it’s impossible
Because they're good- they have their choice of partners, and usually pair off with the good guys.
Also- don't confuse the internet with reality. Interact with people in the physical world, and you'll find them much more palatable.
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people
True, that is an obstacle- but hobbies and social events can give you chances to meet people.
Hobbies and social events are basically a chore to introverts and antisocial people
Because most "good girls" have standards, and I'm sorry to tell you, the ones you may have known, might think of you as not up to theirs. Some of these standards may be realistic or may be idiotic
Trust me don't look for a relationship online, people are too delusional on here. Look around your own city I'm sure you will meet someone normal and nice.
What about IRL?
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people, and most of the good girls are taken
Yeah I know the struggle.. its hard to even make new friends these days
Totally relateable. Some users have suggested meetup. com or Christian dating apps but I’ve no experience using them
@WhiteBoyChill Well what do you like doing?
I simply don’t meet women. There’s this one girl in college I consider “one of the bros” but other than that we’re just friends
Not all are like that. Don't lose hope and keep looking!
I may look like a bunny, but I can also be bitchy depending on who i m talking with and how they are behaving.
Ok? And that’s why i care a lot about personality. Cuz I don’t ever want to date a girl with attitude issues, i’d rather not deal with that cuz honestly I can’t stand that kind of stuff
because you’re on the internet. Go meet people in real life but at the same time, ask yourself would the women currently in law school or studying to become a doctor date you? Sorry to say they don’t want your typical frat bro mechanical engineer or Wall Street guy so are you up to par yourself?
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people, and most of the good girls are taken
We are not all taken. I'm a good girl and I'm not taken. However, I will be taken in a few years.
You’re 14 tho, I’m mainly talking about people my age
Anyone over 18 and around their 20s
There are a few good girls, but you must find them and get them before some other guy does. Per the numbers in 2021 US census, a major problem for guys in your age range is there are 13.7 million never married males ages 18-24 but only 12.9 million never married females ages 18-24. However, you are also competing with the older more established 8.5 million never married males ages 25-29. Therefore, there are almost 2 unmarried males competing for every 1 unmarried female in your age range. That is not a problem for male in the top 10% but a huge problem for average and below average males.
Furthermore, that is exacerbated by the fact that, since men date down for sex but don’t marry down, a high percentage of young females chase after the hottest guy that will have sex with them and reject guys within their league that would marry them. Therefore, if you are not an elite guy, I can understand how you may feel all the good girls are taken. That is because that is almost true for average and below average men in your age range that believe they shouldn't have to settle for girl much below their league.
The advantage young females have changes and even reverses for women in their high 20s and older. If you are willing to settle for a woman about 5 years older or if you are willing to wait a half dozen year and select a woman near age 30, your options will be much improved. I know that is not fair for young men but life is not designed to be fair.
Wtf? You’re 14, how do you even know all of this?
You’re too logical for a 14 year old
I am smart and I can Google. Furthermore, it you look at the US census, read the comments on GAG and think about them, those facts should be obvious to you. For example, can you not see that girls chase after hot guys that are out of their league? And, how many times do you read, "Does this this guy like me?" Girls would never ask that about guys they are not interested in because they know when those guys like them. I can certainly tell when a boy is interested in me. Therefore, when you read that question, it should be obvious that the guy is out of her league and she is just hoping. If you can't see and understand things like that, I can't help you.
So what are you actually saying?
I gotta say, I am very impressed by this girl. You are very smart
@WhiteBoyChill Thank you.
I honestly hate people who are too smart for their age. Especially when their maturity is lower than their age
It makes them sound ignorant
Who you calling ignorant boy?
Boy? @WhiteBoyChill Dude I’m like the oldest one in this conversation, it says you’re 22, I’m 23, the girl is 14, so yea I’m older than both of you.
Oh yeah…. That Guffrus guy still has me blocked….. phsyco lib
They are taken because they are good. The reason they are taken is not because they are good. Less valuable women have many options too. It's just that good women do not give up on a relationship so easily only because they do not feel like being with a guy anymore. Since they are good, they put more effort. I am saying this because at our age, women are more likely to dump guys than the other way round. They run the game.
U said why… they’re good girls… As a male you should be fighting to defend your home everyday. Financially emotionally and physically. We see it in animals today even … The big boy holds place till the weaker one is ready to rule the kingdom.
Ok? What are you saying?
you find those type of girls on christian mingle 💀 don’t be so picky though especially if it’s online.
Wdym picky? I have standards i don’t want to date a b**tch
It is for me, cuz I want someone with a pure heart and a mature attitude. I don’t wanna be dating a kid trapped in an adult”s body. I don’t wanna put up with someone with attitude issues
Trick question. There are no good girls. Seriously though maybe try older women as they may be past that part of their life and matured by then.
No they are not
Unless I’m too hidden
You are a guy in your early 20s give it some time
Reach late 20s or early 30s to find a girl your age range don’t rush you are so young
The older you are the harder it is because i want to share my life with someone
Can't "prove you wrong".
Get off the internet and meet people in person then?
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people, and most of the good girls are taken
Because they were bad girls before they were tamed by the man.
kidding...
try looking outside of where you usually look...
There are more women than men, I reckon. Polygyny is more commonly practised than polyandry. Good girls are not afraid to ask others out. Seems that homosexuality is more popular with women than with men. Those are my theories.
If these are the women you are attracting then you ought to take a look at yourself.
Who said those are the women I’m attracting? I meant those are the only women i see. Everywhere, I can’t seem to find anyone good
You said online, not everywhere. Which makes me believe you're referring to dating apps.
IRL too
most of the girls that are good IRL are all taken. IRL I try my best to be a good person but no, i always get friend-zoned or rejected when i tell a girl i like her. Like I don't know what’s wrong with me, i try my best to look good, dress well and take care of my appearance. I try my best to be a good person and be kind and friendly But still I don't know, it’s probably looks that are affecting my chances which is bullshit cuz i don’t look that ugly so
It's highly unlikely that it's your looks. You're honestly probably just not interesting enough.
Interesting? What do you define as interesting? I have many talents, i can sing, dance, i took acting in school too. I’m really kind to many people.
Are you approaching strangers or people you have known for a while?
@Razp_Sorbet What makes a man interesting? What does a guy have to say or do or be like to be considered interesting?
@WhiteBoyChill have hobbies, be good at holding conversations, know interesting topics.
Be good at holding conversations? You must not know how hard it is to hold a conversation. Especially when you’re introverted and suck at socializing
Ok. Alright then. What are interesting topics of conversation to women? Politics? Sports? Makeup? Beauty Pagents?
And what hobbies do they find attractive in a man? Hunting? Fishing? MMA? Boxing? Surfing? Football?
Like seriously you gotta be more specific if you want to make sense
Yea I’m not interested in any of that. @WhiteBoyChill those things you mentioned, I’m not interested in any of that, I’m not your average guy.
Well if you’re not the average guy then it’s a wonder to me why you aren’t attracting women. Are you just a femboy or soyboy type?
Soyboy? You trying to be insulting? Jerk.
Girls are superficial that’s why, I’m short and not thin, but I have a good heart and personality. I can sing, dance and kinda act. I’m decent looking.
Ya man hate to break it to ya but my closest friend is the exact same way. He’s super good at talking to women tho but unfortunately they don’t date him cuz he doesn’t meet their physical standards.
Yea that’s why i lose faith in girls everyday cuz it’s ridiculous, girls are so superficial. I don’t think i met one girl who isn’t superficial and generalize men into being super confident and social, women have to understand not every guy is like that
Well its not even that its just even if you become what they claim to want its still not gonna be enough unless you satisfy their physical standard
If you suck at socializing that's probably your issue. Being introverted makes dating 10x harder. For anyone.
I mean not only did you avoid my question, but you also ignored one of my responses. Good job
@WhiteBoyChill it's a silly question. The topics would entirely depend on you and the woman you are interested ins interests. You just need to learn how to ask the right questions to get to know someone and learn about what they like.
Maybe get off the internet. I know lots of single wonderful women and im married.
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people especially girls cuz most of them are all taken
Thats not a reason, man. Its an excuse. Look, i was a cringy whiny single nerd. Fact is, you cannot equate quality with ease. Want good girls? You gonna have to put in effort. If you're wanting the easy way out, then you get what you put in. Garbage in, garbage out, right?
Im not even religious dude. I took up an invitation to a mormon young adult potluck 11 years ago. These "wards" are everywhere. I met some fabulous, gorgeous and amazing women. Got involved with service projects, made good friends... met my now wife.
So get out beyond your screen. Cuz if your only idea of meeting girls is via online, of course you'll be disappointed.
I’m an introvert, i can give the best effort but i don’t wanna waste my time.
most of the girls that are good are all taken IRL. IRL I try my best to be a good person but no i always get friend-zoned or rejected when i tell a girl i like her. Like I don't know what’s wrong with me, i try my best to look good, dress well and take care of my appearance. I try my best to be a good person and be kind and friendly But still I don't know, it’s probably looks that are affecting my chances which is bullshit cuz i don’t look that ugly so
Dude, i can assure you, theyre NOT taken. there's a lot of them out there. Problem is man, dont be looking. I know that sounds weird. But you see, girls can smell out a guy who is putting on the "niceness" to attract them. It doesn't work, cuz its not genuine. genuine kindness comes from serving others and developing yourself, and sharing your passions. Trying to be "nice" in hopes you'll get a girlfriend or even a greased pole, will turn ALL women away.
What’s wrong with being nice?
Nothing wrong with being nice to people in general. But being "nice" to a woman and thinking you deserve a reciprocating interest is, in all actuality NOT "nice". It's fake. It's not genuine. And women can sniff this out man.
So wtf are you supposed to do then? I try my best to be a good person, it’s all genuine for the most part, but even then nothing
Like what i said earlier, dont be looking. Invest yourself into something. An activity. A hobby. Meet like minded people. Share your passions with others. Unless of course you have no passions, in which case find one... or be screwed forwver.
Girls have a superficial mindset and unfair mindset. If you don’t go looking for girls first then she won’t just come to you. Like I don't know why people say don’t go looking cuz how does that work? Also I’m introverted and antisocial, suck at talking to people
Women generally are only as good as their man leads them. So single women are often not very good on their own. Then they get a man who straightens them out. And you view this as all the good women are taken.
Simple solution? Don't look online. Go to church or other religious meeting. If that is not your thing, try classical concerts and museums. Or a ballroom dancing class. Use you imagination.
Well the good ones are grabbed quickly by the attractive guys so we are left with seconds that think they are above us , sometimes you get lucky and you happen to be around before they find another guy quickly
Girls always expect the stereotypical guys who are confident all the time and outgoing and also good looking. No girls ever want that decent looking one who is kind and passive. It’s unfair
Some do but not many and they are taken also right away
Not many? Most girls expect that from guys. It’s unfair cuz not every guy is like that
I’ll admit they do have higher standards than they should have
The internet is the worst place to look. I’ve never had a girlfriend once in my entire life but just seriously don’t be that guy trynna find women on the internet.
Just fck it. Mgtow all the way.
My motto? Keep life simple.
Because they are the good girls. What can I say, it sucks to be you.
Is that supposed to be rude? Why you being rude.
Life isn't easy mate but you've got to have a positive mindset otherwise this will keep eating at you.
Supply and demand. If you're not smart enough to understand that, you're probably not smart enough to find your own solution.
Id have a question what would like make a good girl good in your opinion?
Someone mature, emotionally stable, someone who’s a good person, who knows right from wrong, has good moral standards and isn’t immature and stuck up/Arrogant. Who’s kind/kindhearted, has a good heart, who knows what’s important and isn’t a superficial shallow person. Loyal and cares more about who you are than what you look like cuz that’s what matters, who you are/personality not stupid looks that just fade away as you grow old
So thats a long list do you think you cna fullfill a good girls equal list of what she is looking for in a partner?
Girls are superficial as far as I’m concerned. They want unrealistic things, like guys who are 6ft, big dicks and muscular. That’s what i see from everywhere i get advice. People are simply superficial, that’s why I want to find a good girl.
And what are you bringing to the table then if she's such a good person?
Wdym by that? Wdym what am I bringing to the table?
What are your good qualities that she would be attracted to?
I have a good heart and personality. I can sing, dance and kinda act. I would never cheat cuz I’m loyal, I would love her forever unless something happens.
I’m also really romantic when it comes to love
So you basically fulfill the baseline only?
Baseline? What do you expect from a guy then? Superman? That doesn’t exist
Not cheating is not a positive it is expected a good heart and personality too like depending on how good it might be positive and you are romantic in a romantic relationship crazy you're so perfect
Ok? So what do you actually expect from guys then? I think I’m better than most guys cuz you have any idea how many girls complain about their boyfriends cheating on them and other bad stuff in relationships
Like he should be funny understanding he should like not be insecure or so better confident and he should be a good partner in live and honestly nobody is immune against good looks
Wdym immune against good looks? Not insecure? Most people are insecure, we’re all human after all. Don’t expect so much.
Good girls?
There are good girls?
I have not met any.
They’re not. The internet is just not a good way to look for them.
It’s so hard meeting people IRL, especially when you have nowhere to go. Unless you work, go to school, College. etc it’s almost impossible to meet people, and most of the good girls are taken
It is hard to do but it’s not impossible.
For introverted and people who suck at socializing it is almost impossible
This is how it goes. If you were to meet a good girl who is yet single tomorrow, then you'd take her just as fast and the next guy will ask the same question as you did.
I'd say not necessarily taken but they're hard to find...
Same reason why all the good guys are taken. If a guy gets a good girl, he won't want to lose her and vice versa
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