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I thought you were supposed to describe a guy? That sounds like a chick to me...
You'd think this was common sense, but it isn't for so many women...
Says the girl who recently was devastated because she got dumped.
LMAO
I can understand most of part but financial I'm not agree with u. If girl care about financial more than guy u with. Then I'm out
So your think because your a woman men are obliged to spend money on you? Also your a white girls and white girls mainly date black men these days so date an Asian guy if your want money.
#2: do you buy your guy stuff? If not than you ain't getting anything either.
Those can't be the only reasons, or I sure as hell should not be single -.-
Right, I ditch them when they do all those things as well.
About #2 : I'm very hesitent about financial investment because, if I don't feel a girl, I'll stay on my guard. Also, are you really that materialistic?
She didn't say it needed to be big and fancy. But like of it were my birthday I would like a few flowers or something like that.
I think that's what she means maybe
@Emmdk Yes, but I don't know why girls tend to be more materialistic than guys. I mean, a realationship is about love, not about goods, right?
Right. There are 5 different love languages, "gift giving, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service (devotion), and physical touch."
The writers love language may be gift giving?
I don't know. My love language is quality time. Everyone's different.
Be pretty and Rich and you still can do all that and there won't be any problem
And there are guys who just chase girls because they are virgin. I hate those f*ckboys
There are more women who chase guys with money tho
@HeatNation1 well that's true too but you said that by men perspective. I said what I said by women perspective
What about guys who chase virgins because they are one themselves and because their religious beliefs are no sex until marriage? Are they "fuckboys".
Chill girl lol. It's not others' fault that you have got dumped
5th one is dumb i get it if he's flirty but if he spends more time with them? really? forget the fact that its a female friend how does this sound "if you spend more time with your friends than me we are through" ... pretty crazy right
See you don't get it, you really think it's okay for your girlfriend to spend MORE time with her guy friends than you?
@BrittBratt2416 well it depends how close they are. what if they have been fe=riends since 7 years old? makes more sense they would hangout a lot.. no one not even your SO will be as close as your friends because you can say anything to a buddy without them getting mad. but if they have only been friends for 3 years then id get annoyed
Exactly what Liisjak has said. Spot on. You described a woman.
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cut the BS I do all that and girls keep chasing me.
Thing is most girls don't know what is good for them... Its sad they don't realize how much they deserve. Same goes for guys who chase the wrong girls who don't put in the effort and time
@littlebigtittyfreak yes you are a 100% right and i agree with every word you said i was one of the guys who never chased the wrong girls and i kept my cool and decency but that got me nothing, girls simply put are into players, into guys who lie and flirt day and night they aren't into guys who respect them and if you do that while it makes you a good human being it will not get you a girlfriend as sad as it sounds.
Um yes it will. You just hang around the wrong people. My girlfriends and I wouldn't even look twice at you once we knew you were like that and the guys I keep in my circle are sincere and true gentlemen. And i dont mean yes men or always polite men but men that show they care and always down and honest. And even if it got people running in circles why give up. Its cowardice? Dont take the easy way out because bitches ain't shit.
You are basically showing the world the girl that will become your world if you didn't give up isn't really worth it in the end
@littlebigtittyfreak no offense but if iam interested in a girl i want her iam not interested in being part of her "Circle" as you put it, i just want her so when iam facing girls who claim to ignore guys like me just as you admitted i shrug it off and move on you know why? because these same girls will still show interest in me, iam not hanging around the wrong people, iam hangoing around all kinds of people and i kid you not even the most decent girl will turn sexual when she hears the right words from a guy she wants, you're a girl you will never get it but just know this : what you advise guys to do does not get results or anything done.
I was just saying that its the only guys I would keep in my circle. And I never said I dont get sexual. But I certainly dont wanna fuck a guy who doesn't give me the time of day and lies and shit. Thats a big mood killer. And I wouldn't settle for less.
I just said circle as in I know lots of guys who can get girls who aren't jerks. It honestly makes me want to cry when I know about jerks. And if you are just looking for sex then thats different. Excuse me for assuming you were lookimg for more. And even if you werent, you can get into girls panties without being a jerk... Trust me I see it all the time
@littlebigtittyfreak sure you dont have to be a full jerk that is a turn off but you need to not care a lot and say what you want when you want, those are the kind of guys who get girls, plus looks if you have that girls will want you even more.
girls will never admit that they are drawn to guys who dont show much interest in them , but they do it happens so much i lost count of how many times it happened so far.
You have obviously never met a girl like me then. I could give zero fucks to guys like that
@littlebigtittyfreak you do they all do
Then tell me why i have always cut guys like you off after the third strike... And I have only had one boyfriend before because of guys like you. I just met someone new. We aren't a thing officially. We see each other... I guess you could say. But he seems genuine and sincere and yes he is sexual and isn't afraid to get pissed off if he is. But he doesn't do any of these things in that list which I love
I esp can't stand a guy that won't communicate and talk about deep stuff with no fear. Communication is key. That being said I will kick a guy to the curb sooner than you could blink if he goes MIA or whatever. Those piss me off the most out of this list but so does the rest. I won't settle for shit
@littlebigtittyfreak
1- he is sexual
2- he says what he wants without caring
yeah pretty much thats how most guys who get girls do it, so you're not really dating a special kind of guy you're dating the kind of guy that i just told you, you will chase so you're not exactly bringing anything new just proving my point.
No because you said you do all those things. And actually he does care about what he says. I just said that he is human so he isn't afraid to get pissed off or show emotion. And guys can get sex in multiple ways. Most of the time its actually by telling a girl whatever she wants to hear.
But anyways I meant he isn't like you because u said u do all those things. All the rest on that list will TURN ME THE FUCK OFF I wouldn't EVEN WANT SEX
For instance any guy who goes MIA, isn't a hard worker, or doesn't like to communicate with me a lot then I drop everything and dont even let him in my panties. You sound sad. There is so much an awesome girl can offer you besides sex but it seems thats all you want
@littlebigtittyfreak i want sex from some girls and a relationship from others, when i meet that great girl i will hold on to her but until then iam not gonna commit to a girl
Have fun with your 20 cats.
Literally laughed out really loud. Good one :D
@sp33d Thanks mate 😂 Glad you liked it.
lmao 11 likes from dudes
No dispute here. You should be treated with the same courtesy and respect as any friend.
Similar to what some women do I guess
Thanks!
my guy cut off his best female friend or i called the love he never got.
so he can be with me... worth continuing?
@bingbaddaboom
thanks for the name calling... lol
you know what friend zoned mean?
the difference between male and female friend zone?
when a girl gets friend zoned... she likes the guy, guy not interested in a relationship, still good enough for sex, so she becomes his sex object and hope for one day, he will give her a girlfriend title.
when the guy gets friend zoned... he is her best gay friend, listen to her bitching about anything and everything, her helper, babysitter and financial supporter to all her needs. He will want to do anything to hope for one day get into her pants.
agree?
You're welcome. It was a conditional statement, notice the "if" in there. By defending yourself, in this case, you only acknowledge that he has higher value than you.
I hope that you get what you deserve and you probably will.
@bingbaddaboom
no he doesn't have higher value than me.
love is if he wishes to leave he is a free man.
i am not his friends with benefits.
I am his girlfriend and his woman.
He had to get rid of her in order to date me.
How will it end? No one knows.
My job is to be the best girlfriend I can be.
And she must F*** off if she has no interest in a man, instead of using him for so many years.
And he must stand up for himself to take care of his woman (me).
to answer to this Take... he doesn't do #1-4
and has been working on #5 ... she won't stop contacting him...