I Tell You Why the Guy You Like Doesn't Make a Move

[Anonymous]

Did you ever think the reason why the guy you like doesn't make a move? You cannot say that he doesn't like you just because of not making the first move.

I tell you my experience.

Last semester I met a girl named Lucy, she is so cute and kind of elegant. I like her because we have something in common. But I didn't tell her I like her even she changed her schedule.

I haven't made a move until now because "SHE DIDN'T GIVE ME SIGNALS THAT SHE LIKES ME OR SHE DOESN'T HAVE INTEREST IN ME."

Now you know what I mean right? If you wonder "The guy I like seemingly has interest in me, I like him too, but why does he just stand right there and not make a move?" You don't give him enough signal and he is not sure about that.

Or he doesn't have interest in you.

When you are approaching him but he doesn't look at you or even just walk away, no interest.

When you sit next to him but he just focuses on his cellphone, no interest.

If you notice he is texting another girl like snapchat, kik, or messenger when you sit next to him or talk to him, no interest.

Some girl are too shy to make a move or tell him explicitly, this is absolutely normal.

[Vyxzuw]

There can also be the issue that he doesn't think he will get along with your social scene.
If he won't get along with the people you hang out with, then how will he be able to hang out with you?
If he thinks that you like to go out and party, and he's a homebody, or vice versa, then how will it work out?

That's mostly a head game, because it can work, but there is the concern that you have these areas where you won't get along.

This becomes less of a concern when you are older, and you may have several social circles, but in high school, it can be an issue.

[Red_Dragon]

Very good point.

[Emma_240302]

Thank u omigod

[R4zor]

Face it me not gotta make the move women gotta say yes or no

[CoffeeWC]

Great take. I wish I had this much expertise on this subject.