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I'M NOT A NICE GUY! Why We Need to Stop Labeling Average Men "Nice Guys" (Page 3)

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  • DamnMan
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    You got a lot of things wrong, brother.
    Being "nice" does not mean people

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    • DamnMan
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      Being "nice" does not mean people can do as they want to you.
      Make sure people don't do that.

      Reply
  • BOUNTYGUY9
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    Yoda Age: 65
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    l am a real man yes and far to nice fuck it l am still very single l need a girl

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  • Anonymous
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    Generally, Iโ€™ve found that people who self proclaim to be anything whether itโ€™s nice, honest, or anything are generally the opposite.

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  • RedRobin
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    Nice take

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      Thank you. I'm not mad at girls I'm just saying. Yiu make it bad for guys that are naturally polite and not manipulative when you call them a, "nice guy".

      Reply
  • BonnieBunny
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    NO MORE MR. NICE GUY

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
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      I agree, it was a great book.

      Reply
    • somewheresomeway
      somewheresomeway
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      Itโ€™s a good book because it finally points out that feminism is reosnsible for brainwashing young boys into โ€œnice guysโ€. But also speaks to married men, not single guys looking for a relationship.

      Reply
    • vald9inches
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      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KN6ngThqMEs

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  • ovoxo_
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    Just stop being a pussy. You'll be happier. Trust me.

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  • ShesAmerican
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    Lmao you're definitely a cancer

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    • Tdieseler
      Tdieseler
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      hey... i take offense to that... IM a cancer... and i can totally relate... doesn't mean you gotta point it out... damn

      Reply
    • ShesAmerican
      ShesAmerican
      +1 y

      @Tdieseler I'm just stating facts, there's nothing to be offended

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    • Tdieseler
      Tdieseler
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      ain't no damn facts ๐Ÿ˜’

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  • MarketData
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    You're not a nice guy. You're a gentleman.

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  • CT_CD
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    Interesting myTake

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      Thanks. People keep saying I'm angry or resentful. The post isn't about me it's about men being labelled as nice guys or essentially called monsters for no reason.

      Reply
  • BeHappy1985
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    I think you might just be ugly not nice.

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
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      The post isn't about me but okay yeah sure

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  • Anonymous
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    That's the shortest take I've read. Ever.

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  • HereIbe
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    And then we grab boobies!

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  • lsaiah
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    They just need to stop being nice

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    • WhistleForTheChoir
      WhistleForTheChoir
      +1 y

      Honestly, more sage advice than most people want to admit if your goals is "get laid"

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    • WhistleForTheChoir
      WhistleForTheChoir
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      As opposed to "be a good person"

      Reply
  • Anonymous
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    Had to be said. Thank you

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  • Anonymous
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    Good point

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    whine on

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      I'm not whining ๐Ÿ˜‘. I'm simply saying that calling someone a nice guy to insult them is not a good idea because it hurts people that are naturally polite. Read the whole thing next time please.

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    • Anonymous
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      +1 y

      saying you are nice is not an insult...

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    • ThatPersonOverThere
      ThatPersonOverThere
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      It is though, lol.

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    • WhistleForTheChoir
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      I think the OP's inarticulate point is that just because a man is polite, empathetic and mild-mannered in public does NOT mean they are trying to manipulate you into sleeping with them, which is an accusation that is legitimately leveled in public.

      Not the most dire issue our society should be concerned with, but definitely a big pet-peeve.

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    • RaijuRainBird
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      Douchebag. Telling someone to โ€˜whine onโ€™ is a legitimate asshole thing to say.

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    • Anonymous
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      +1 y

      @levantine99 it's just strange to feel negatively about an entire gender

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    • levantine99
      levantine99
      +1 y

      the kid was specific. those women who try to beta shame nice guys. i don't do it, my friends dont do it, you probably dont do it. so he doesn't refer to us. no need to get triggered. also he is a bit frustrated but hey its tough being a man. but what about us? did he bother to empathize how equally hard is being a successful woman?

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      @levantine99 I understand tha women have it hard too but in this day and age lets not forget that if a man so much as is a few feet away from a woman he's already putting himself in harms way. Look at the Metoo movement. Of course these billionaires do think they can assault women and they should be put in jail. But what about guys that get blamed for sexual harassment just because they waved at a woman and smiled? That's not sexual harassment and men shouldn't have their whole life torn apart because of an accusation.

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  • Browneye57
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    Master Age: 69
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    wha f'ing wha. LOL

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      Still not understanding what I'm saying i see ๐Ÿ˜”.

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    • Browneye57
      Browneye57
      +1 y

      You're seeing WOMAN. It's what they do. Watch what they do, not what they say. It's just all about the FEELZ, and they'll change their mind in the next second.

      And never forget, YOU ARE THE PRIZE! So act like it. Women will come and go, but a real man is a prize to behold.

      Reply
  • Revolver_
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    +1 y

    You're a nice guy

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    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      The post isn't about me but okay

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    • Revolver_
      Revolver_
      +1 y

      It's about me

      Reply
    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      No, I'm simply saying that if you reject someone it's okay. But you don't have to insult them and put them down and make them look bad to other women by essentially calling them creeps and pedos. It's not fair and all you have to say is, "I'm not interested" and move on. Instead women point and laugh, tell all their friends and basically bust a mans balls all because he dared ask her out.

      Reply
    • Revolver_
      Revolver_
      +1 y

      I think it's about you

      Reply
    • awesometjgreen
      awesometjgreen
      +1 y

      Lol no I'm talking to someone right now actually. We have a date later on this week. But I am speaking partially from what I've seen.

      Reply
    • Revolver_
      Revolver_
      +1 y

      Interesting

      Reply
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