Why Beautiful Women Scare The Average Man To Death

[pavlove]

Let's call a thing a thing--beuatiful women aren't just "intimidating" they're downright scary to the average man. Even in relationships, a beautiful woman can bring a strong man to his knees. But, obviously, this is not physical strength, so what is it that make beautiful women so powerful?

She Has Something the Average Man "Doesn't"

The average male feels concrectly that a beautiful woman has something he doesn't. He's not "hot" certaintly not as hot as her and while they understand logically that this doesn't matter, emotionally it feels as though he's coming to her with an empty cup while her cup is full. It feels uneven, unbalanced, and logically its hard to fathom why she would want him when she has so much "more" of what he values.

She's The Unknown

Fear of beautiful women is just that a fear--it is larger than a logical disposition to avoid that which might cause you harm, it's irrational, built up by the mind's ability to imagine consequences. It isn't until an average guy just tries it with the full expectation of painful failure that he realizes that not only is there little to be afraid of in failure, he actually doesn't fail nearly as much as he thought he would.

She's Not Usually the Most "Supportive"

Pornography

porn has changed for this generation of young men. no longer are the majority of porn videos consisting of actual augmented porn stars. Now many many many videos are "amateur" videos that one might imagine a couple making together that somehow leaked online. This, i believe, is a result of young male's desire to sexualize the women around them--their friends, peers, coworkers and porn creators desire to capitalize on this while managing to only have to produce intentionally cheap videos with poor camera work to add to the illusion that "this could happen all the time in real life."

Of course, this means that just walking into a starbucks coffee shop, a young man might find himself stimulated by many women around him as if they are porn stars, which is obviously a frightening experience for an inexperienced average male.

Average Women Exist

Fears are usually only overcome when there's no longer a choice. Adrenaline kicks in over fear and sends you into action, but because there's just as if not more women who are not who he defines as beautiful he has little reason to "try." generally, this will cause him to treat the average looking women as replaceable, and even an annoyance, but not always, if his intention is to "settle."

[Anonymous]

No. in my opinion, THIS is what is wrong with guys today. This worship of women and letting your eyes and ESPECIALLY your fuckin PENIS think for you instead of using your fuckin BRAIN. NO, pretty girls don't scare worth shit outta me. They are just other human flesh that burp, fart, poop, and vomit just like anyone else. They are NOT fuckin goddesses! Stop acting like it. Hell, I imagine there are guys out there that agree and they'd REALLY curse you out and insult you personally for this mytake. I won't go that low and I'm trying to avoid it, but men must WAKE UP and see women for the fuckers they are. They are just the same as any other fucker around. No different. Nothing. Nada. Women are NOTHING special. They are equal to guys. PERIOD. (hehe, period, bad joke, sorry) They can do just about anything a guy can do. So let them and stop making them lazy and into thinking they can live off of being a trophy. Trophies don't do anything good for society except just exist. Can't we agree that women are more than a fuckin sex doll for you to look at and think about fucking? Don't you think of your mother as more than just a woman your dad fucked so you could be born? If so, apply that to women besides her!

[pavlove]

you seem rather upset, but if you look at the take again, I'm referring to a rather natural fear that most men have that has nothing to do with the logical understanding that she's just a person. They're still afraid and that fear does not go away until he physically starts interacting with more beautiful women, but, in many cases he doesn't FEEL like he has the right to even if he KNOWS he does

[Opinion Owner]

I think it's very pending on the guy. The minute you see all women, no matter who it is as not a big deal just more flesh, then the fear is gone. I'm not upset, I just want to make sure the point gets across well. Like I said, there are people that would REALLY unleash a wrath on you. You ever SEEN MGTOW? Many of them would lose it. Seems MGTOWers either aren't on this site much, or haven't come yet. You need to be prepped for really scolding comments, as mine was straight forward, but respectful in comparison.

[pavlove]

I think though that you’re applying logic to fear and that’s not always the case. Fear is an emotion for instance you can be afraid of a mouse even though it Logically poses no threat and you can also not be afraid of a tiger even though it does logically pose a threat. Yes you can rewire by doing it and ONLY by doing it. Loads of guys are born and raised afraid to approach you can’t just logically figure out how not be afraid because it isn’t logical you just have to do you just have to try there is no logical speech anywhere that will make it go away

[SkipStop]

An average man believes that he is not good enough for her. If he does get together with her, she could easily find a Chad Thundercock if she desires. And failure is a killer.
Beautiful women tend to be high maintenance. The average man will feel that it's too much for him to handle or deal with. He says "You look so besutiful already, why do you worry so much?" But nothing seems to ever be enough for her to feel satisfied about her look.
Most men like the feeling of dominance. But a beautiful woman tends to become the dominant one when she is with an average man. Eyes are on her. She's high class. So she dominates.

[ragequeen]

I don't think men are scared of pretty girls, I think they are scared to be REJECTED or ignored.

However, I guess it all depends. When you have a crush, be they amazingly attractive or just average, you get really intimidated regardless. Then you have those people who are quick to judge. I know this one beautiful girl but people avoid her because she is nasty. Also, you have the popular or social pretty girls. They are easy to talk to, therefore it shouldn`t be a challenge, and intimidation is unnecessary.

[pavlove]

I made the distinction in the take average guys are afraid of rejection it’s not just a self esteem issue. Many have to learn only through having it happen that it’s no big deal and part of the fun that it could go well or poorly

[Anonymous]

Does the woman always knows she's beautiful though? People have different opinions. While someone may think she's ugly, average or "just" pretty, the other man may think she's gorgeous.

I don't wanna sound egoistic, I don't believe I'm very pretty but I was told quite a lot of times I'm beautiful yet no guy ever approaches me in reality.
They probably lied lol

[pavlove]

well, it's true people usually have a higher estimation of how attractive they are, I'd say feedback fromliving in the real world whether that's compliments, rejections, etc. people learn where they generally stack up "to people" so that "hot people know theyre hot and ugly people know theyre ugly"

[pavlove]

also saying i dont believe im very pretty is such an obnoxious pretty girl thing to say... a true average/ugly woman would never openly admit to not being pretty

[Opinion Owner]

I actually think I look pretty bad and when I read that we actually look even worse than we think, it killed all of my hopes. Life is cruel xD

[cherryphi82]

Yes, great question. I think many women don't know where they stand and sometimes even go back and forth on how they see themselves. It's not like attractiveness is a static thing.

[dancing_in_nebulas]

This is so true. I am really pretty, I dont mean that arrogantly, but I often get stopped by random men, who literally say, "I just wanted to tell you, that you are gorgeous... wow."

Its the lips really lol, they give me a very sultry look -

Men have also said:

"Im sorry, but I kept watching you all night. But I couldnt, how could I talk to you? Look at you..."

"You were amazing to see, Im sorry Im not all big and cute but..."

"Your body was mesmorizing [Im a dancer,] I wanted to tell you then but I just couldnt get it out..."

"I didn't think you'd actually call/text/message me..."

😔

I can't believe guys feel so nervous like this with pretty girls.

They APOLOGIZE to me because they dont feel brave or handsome enough to talk to me.

I would always ask why, and they shouldn't worry about it, because I didn't understand until this myTake.

"It feels as though he is coming to her with an empty cup, and hers is full."

Im so sorry it feels that way. I think a lot of it is impressed on young men, because in the media, beautiful women are always spotlighted.

Really though, pretty girls have about as full a cup as average girls when you start considering personality, stability etc.

My sluttier, meaner pretty girl friends had average guys all over them, because they were so sexually suggestive.

I am more conservative with a technical degree and speak very intelligently.

That has sent some average guys I really liked running for the hills, although I told them I didn't care about their job or income😭

Then the really hot guys like compete with you lol Its like a "yeah girl your cute, but Im hot too so-"

Lol

I dont consider looks a standard for replaceability.

Any incredible person willing to give up their own life to make one with you, is hard to replace.

Pretty or ugly.

[amarahorrorstory]

Not that I think I'm some amazing beauty queen but I think it's overrated to be "beautiful'. I've been called the prettiest girl in the room (their words, not mine) enough times and after awhile, it loses it's luster. Because men WON'T approach you, hardly at all. If they do, it's usually not in a way that's flattering. I don't mind approaching guys at all, it's honestly easier in my eyes, if you want something done right, do it yourself. But also having guys never approach you does not improve your ego as people would think. I like "average looking guys" often enough, and in my experience, they're harder to get than any other kind.

[MelaninDoll]

FACTS! omg someone I can finally relate to.

[Malita55]

sooo true!

[TobyWinters]

Let me tell you a story I read about.

A 27-year-old guy visits his urologist and tells him that he is still a virgin and he pushes girls away because he is insecure about his small penis. Urologist takes a look and -- shocking -- his dick is literally dead center average.

While our appearances aren't our dicks, same concept applies. Even though it isn't usually that extreme, we often subconsciously don't believe it if an attractive woman approaches us because we can't fathom that you are legitimately interested in us. There's probably some deep culture-caused psychological issue affecting us here, but I haven't slept in like 30 hours and I don't have the energy to perform my usual culture/consciousness/psyche analysis.

[CindyRuns]

I've been told that I'm one of those women !!!

I'm not sure what scares guys... I'm a happy, friendly person who loves being around people of both genders. I'm probably as approachable as they come.

I have a very normal job and live a very normal life.

My husband, by most standards is a pretty average looking guy who I absolutely love to death !!! I think the thing that attracted me to him quite a lot is that he didn't treat me like I was some sort of fragile China Doll just because I am somewhat attractive.

[Knighted2170]

Fear of the beautiful woman?
Guys talk about this (major revelation there). Their fear is of being rejected publicly. If not by the woman herself, then of another guy close to her (friend, boy-friend, husband). It doesn't stop there though. He probably has a group of friends he has to go back to. Those guys may rip him up for even going up to her.
On the flip side, he has no idea of what to say beyond "Hi." This isn't just with beautiful women, but all women. Which is really sad.
He approaches, then asks some weird off the off question and quickly leaves before he even really tries.
In short, he just doesn't know what to do, or what to say. Especially with women who have been gifted by the genetic gods with super model looks.

[Browneye57]

Fear? I wouldn't call it that. Suspicion is likely more realistic.

For ever beautiful woman there's at least one guy out there that is completely tired of her bullshit.

The really beautiful ones tend to be self-entitled snowflake princesses that are high-maintanence and fussy. Those types get boring real quick. Smart guys know better.

And you're right, a normal type girl, a 6-7 on the SMV scale, or one that carries a little extra weight, will try MUCH harder to please her man. They are more sexually bold, tend to be more content and appreciative, and are much more fun to be with. The 8-9 range women are constantly hit on. It gets boring after while.

[azzntittiz]

This man be bitter bruh, why you mad dawg? Always. so. mad.

[Browneye57]

@azzntittiz - Not mad at all honey. What makes you say that? This is just simple reality - time for a check?

I've been married for longer than you've been on the planet. This stuff becomes plain as day after while.

[azzntittiz]

Yeah, no hot woman screwed you over, you're just in denial that you cannot pick a decent woman and now you think you know them all.

[Browneye57]

@azzntittiz No, I got a jewel of a woman. Been with her almost thirty years.
And I DO know them all - their MO. It's plain as day.
What exactly is YOUR problem? My guess is you're too young to know better. You're so totally focused on your own belly button you can't even see reality! It's called SOLIPSISM. Google it.

[azzntittiz]

Bite me good bitter sir, I ain't googling shit.

[shredor]

I believe that there is nothing called scary. She is either nice or not, good or bad. Below, some reasons why you might not approach a beautiful girl:

1- the fear of rejection, therefore you might not approach her at all.

2- You don't think of her as a person but instead you will think about having sex with her. If you approach her as person not as sexy girl, you will win her for sure.

In my experience most girls doesn't care about your look, they care about your character. The look is secondary.

[TomasLyy]

The Pornography part is way too true, but I do feel that fear is justified. I myself am very attractive, but unfortunately, somewhere in my personality, I lack what girls want. I personally have gotten over the fear of rejection but I see guys ask out girls and the girls just don't know how to handle it, so they end up treating the guy like trash. Even if they do like them. I'm sure there are many mature women out there, but there are also girls who just don't know and don't understand there own feelings, and they make other people pay for it.

[passinby]

4 days ago I met this extremely hot girl and I was expecting the typical bitch attitude but, wtf, she was very nice and friendly, sweet actually. We started talking and kept going; I shall see. It really comes down to her. If she is receptive and acts human, I am well into an extremely attractive woman. If she turns out to also be a warm person, I am in danger then.

[GinaEdwards]

Just a qoustion, once you see a beautiful women would you say that to be certain your dreams of being with her will come true is her beauty enough alone to make you determent to date her? I mean for example I've known guys that diden't even try to get to know her as a equal, they just accepted everything about her even when they were not remotely compatible

[dr1fter]

For me at least, I don't dream of being with anyone I randomly encounter

[Stoner710]

I’m not the author but kinda when because the image of the women’s beauty is ingrained in our minds we can continue to look at her as beautiful even when she is old and gray. The average women don’t have that affect. Personality is important but when we don’t know your personality when we first look at you so we’re initially talking to you because of looks. But that’s Radom and counters and online dating

[dr1fter]

Didn't mean to click submit.

The only person I dreamed of spending my life with was my ex. The only reason I rarely approach women whom I find attractive is because I'm socially awkward with strangers in general. Even when they show obvious hints of interest, my fear of social rejection pushes me from approaching others--especially women whom I find attractive. For example, while I was running/working out outside today, I noticed a lot of women (and men too, but it might have been from jealousy) taking extended glances at me. However, the only actions I took were staring back at them and resuming my exercise because I was afraid to show interest. As for viewing attractive women as an equal, I equally respect everyone as a human being who has positive and negative traits just like me. We're all amazing and screwed up in our own hidden ways.

TL;DR: I enjoy socializing, but I'm afraid to approach strangers.

[GinaEdwards]

@Stoner710 Thnk you for your answer, it helped me to get a better perspective on the male mind

[GinaEdwards]

@dr1fter Awe well thank you for the honesty

[Middleman]

What about those women who are both beautiful AND intelligent, how do you deal with those? By intelligent I mean, streetwise, financially stable and career-minded/ambitious? I know such a person right now and I can tell you it is rather scary. Because it seems, she has more to offer than you as a man. When a man no longer feels he can be a man (in a relationship) it can be awfully troublesome.

[Benedek38]

I actually no longer feel scared of attractive women. I feel deep disgust because I know how much free shit society has handed them for a pretty face. I also gloat a little, because I know that what they get for free, I work for, and when they will fall, they won't be able to get up.

What goes around, comes around.

[MelaninDoll]

I'm not even offended because I know it's true. I would know from first hand experience.

[SammieAggy]

You don't get shit for free? That's only if your famous or in a movie.

[Benedek38]

@SammieAggy So you are telling me you have never been paid a drink by a guy without any kind of reason?
So you are telling me you have NEVER chosen a lower cut top, or adjusted your cleavage in any setting, in an attempt to get preferential treatment from guys?
So you are telling me people, guys in particular, in general don't treat you nice, smile at you, and help you with stuff for no reason?

If you are interested in a conversation, I am happy to oblige. I don't want to come off as judgmental, but I feel like these things have to be said sometimes.

[SammieAggy]

No I've never had a guy pay for a drink. And no I've never done that either, I'd like to cover what I got, the whole world doesn't need to see what I possess.. I get treated nice by everyone, and get hellped because that's what yours suppose to do. I do the same shit too. It has nothing to do with being attractive. The fact that you think acting like a decent human being is cause a girl is pretty is unbelievable.
And that low cut comment or adjust my cleavage thing is completely unbelievable that you think all women do that to get good treatment. I'm going to tell you right now, you don't get good treatment you get sexually assulted.

[Anonymous]

Lol so basically when men say they want a woman to approach them they probably mean 'I want a hot woman I'm too intimidated by to approach me bc I want a hot girlfriend'. Or if they do end up chasing a girl bc of her looks they complain that they can't get a girlfriend when in reality what they mean is they can't get a hot girlfriend. Lmao.

[LThunder]

How is this any different for girls, whom are the initial gender in these regards in the first place?

[Opinion Owner]

@LThunder women mature way earlier than men, and I've seen a ton of beautiful women with average or even below average men and for reasons other than money. Yes , if a woman isn't attracted to you and you approach her she may reject you. But a man actually loves to approach women , he likes being the assertive one and get what he wants. But when a woman approaches a man she is seen as ' coming on too strong ' or desperate , and if she isn't hot the man will only feel good for 2 seconds because someone finds him attractive but he won't take her seriously.
But for women if you approach her and ask her out chances are she may say yes if you are a good person or if she feels you would be compatible together , it's always worked out that way and I see average men with attractive and pretty women all the time. But I never see the opposite , men are rarely going to accept a girls offer to date unless she's hot.

[Dbwkdncnf]

I feel like you're just sharing what makes you feel insecure about yourself and how you see the world and so you write an average take on how woman are mythological creatures that will only accept perfection.

Or, just your idea of it...

And even if this wasn't what I thought it was, it's a shitty way to make men feel like they're average while trying to categorically place certain individuals because they don't fit the standards on what you think is attractive.

In short, you're boring.

[BrittBratt2416]

They are scared cause they don't want to get rejected by the 9s and 10's of the world. When they do it does something to their ego/self-esteem, that's when they decide to lower their standards and go for the average women cause in their minds they have nothing to loose since she's not his first choice.

[LThunder]

It goes deeper than any modern idea you can try to make it into. It's primitive. It goes back to a primal tribal fear of approaching the wrong, higher status female and suffering brutal consequences at the hands of the tribal leader or his friends. Secondly, being turned down, and people in a tribe knowing about this can hurt a man's reputation and chances of replication. To this day, men have that hard wired into their system to get a jolt of fear response at a woman they find 'too' attractive.

[Anonymous]

Beauty is an entirely subjective concept.

I have a guy friend who swears this girl he has slept with is "hot" and according to him, "all guys" want to bang her, but I remember thinking to myself the first day I met her, "Wow. She must have a great personality for her to be dating this guy since she's not even a 6 on a beauty scale." It still mystifies me up until this day how he could find this girl "hot" when I don't even find her to be average-looking.

People find different things beautiful which would probably explain the discrepancy.

[JDavid25]

That's cause society put being "beautiful" on this godly pedestal... Look at movies, and ish.. Most times they damn near make attractive people (especially women.) look untouchable.. I agree wit the statement that logic is thrown out, cause men who fear beautiful women obviously see them as above them.. They don't realize that these women takes dookies, farts stank, they have germs, slowly decayin bodies, stankin mornin breath, and need to wash up and clean they a$$ like they do.. LOL..

[SammieAggy]

My friends constantly say that I'm more beautiful than the average person, and almost every guy I've met he has told me I look like Rihanna. I've been told I'm gorgeous and shit but no guy will approach me, I'm really nice but the only think guys wanna do is fuck if they do have the balls to come up to me while is that?

[FamousAF]

Damn. You totally DO look like RIhanna. Also those blue eyes. Wow.

Some guys are pretty much psychos. They don't feel a whole lot, including fear or approach anxiety. So they will be overrepresented in the guys who do approach you. If you don't feel a whole lot, you're probably also less likely to develop feelings for someone. So that is my guess.

[Blackbrowny]

Well that sex stuff turns down over time, give guys about 3 more years and you gonna find one :D

[errorgoodnameunfound]

I am guessing what you want to hear, and truthfully deserve to hear, is that you should be judged based on personality, brains, etc and not by looks which die the day ya turn 40. in my opinion, good for you for saying "fuck you" to the guys that only just want to fuck. Many women would have said "Ok, well you are kinda cute, so please fuck me/abuse me all you want as long as that cash gets in my pocket too," thus only increasing the problem in society. If these type women stopped existing, men would have no choice but to comply and stop expecting it. You are one of the smarter women for that 100% and should be proud for it.

[FamousAF]

@errorgoodnameunfound Lol gotta love that bitter nice guy logic.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@FamousAF What nice guy logic? Ya think I'm going out of my way to chase anyone? No. It's called saving money and being smart. It's guys like you that pretend that they are "above the average guy" but you aren't. Idgaf how many girls you fuck. It's not an acheivement that dies with age. Hopsin legit says the same thing. You wanna dare call that dude a "nice guy"? Who's the one rolling in cash and lambos rn? You or him? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlb-HWpDDx0

[errorgoodnameunfound]

*and it dies with age

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@FamousAF Also, the fact that you look at this girl and your re-action is OMG WOW YOUR EYES AAAAAH! Bitch please, get a life.

[FamousAF]

@errorgoodnameunfound The tell was in the way you offered your unsolicited approval of her dating preferences as well as judging other women and men's preferences. The cherry on top was labeling it a societal problem.

[FamousAF]

@errorgoodnameunfound Her eyes combined with her "race" are spectacular! She is bloody beautiful.

[FamousAF]

But on closer inspection probably a catfish...

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@FamousAF Yes, because everyone wants to hear your opinion over mine *eye roll*. I don't think there's much of a problem in saying "hey good for you and I admire your thinking." If you find it as a problem, that's your problem. In fact, it's your own hypocrisy, given you say that I can't compliment somebody's brain, and YET you go gaga over her eyes like OMG! BLUE EYES ARE SO SPECIAL! AAAAAH! YOURS IN PARTICULAR! OMG! CAUSE NOBODY ELSE HAS BLUE EYES... I doubt you even know what psycho actually means, given that you use it as a label for people that have anxiety approaching people. EVERYONE has their own thoughts of what will happen upon approaching somebody. Anxiety or being careful about who is approached and how, perhaps lays out the potential problems and risks associated with approaching and whether it's worth the time/effort investment. Again, using the brain not the penis, to think.

[FamousAF]

@errorgoodnameunfound I complimented her looks. Which she can't change, anyway. You judged her dating preferences and those of other men and women. That is kind of different, dude. Regarding the blue eyes, to my knowledge, most mixed-race people don't have blue eyes. Which is probably why it looks remarkable. And I didn't label people with approach anxiety psychos. The opposite, actually. I wrote that psychos are overrepresented amongst guys who hit on women BECAUSE they feel no anxiety.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@FamousAF Again, beauty is subject to the eyes of the beholder. Fawning over a girl as if they are so significant cause of looks is absolutely pathetic. If your penis is that desperate, go jack off somewhere. I wouldn't be surprised when if you marry a woman based on the fact that she "looks amazing" just to find out that actually living with her is fucking awful, communication breaks down, but you can't divorce because then you couldn't afford child support cause you just HAD to fuck her hard without condom cause again, thinking with your penis and being desperate for sex. I have a logical guess you want marriage along with kids as if it's so beneficial as they advertise it. Wake tf up dude. Do it before it's too late and you are fucked for life.

[FamousAF]

@errorgoodnameunfound I'm actually not particularly into the idea of marriage or commitment (at least at present). Also, why are you so defensive? I compliment a girl's looks, and suddenly I'm "fawning"? I guess you think I should pretend she's not attractive, play hard-to-get, etc. Sorry bro. Been there, done that. It's dishonest and ineffective.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@FamousAF No. You still don't get it. You are one of the biggest hypocrites I have met on this site. You put my opinion that she actually has a brain as unnecessary, but then when YOU think she is pretty, that actually matters enough for you to point out. News flash: Any opinion can matter or not matter. If you value looks over brains, then I say, ok good luck! You are fawning over her and there's more than enough evidence for it, and worse yet, you barely even know her before even considering doing so AND she is SEVENTEEN. There are actually people out there that would not be physically attracted to her and that goes for attraction towards anyone. That is also their right. I never indicated I play "hard to get." If women or men approached me, you think I'd just reject all of them immediately? No. I wouldn't. Each one I'd give a fair and equal chance to get to know them. Based on the brain/personalities that fit best with me, they are the ones who end up my friends or something more.

[FamousAF]

@errorgoodnameunfound You're the one sexualizing the fact that I complimented her for your looks. I am well aware she is seventeen (again, pretty sure it's a catfish, so this argument is kin of obsolete). Did it ever occur to you that a guy can compliment a girl on her looks and not immediately try to bed her?

You are of course well within your rights to value brains over looks. The problem is when you start judging men and women for having casual sex, which is what you totally did in your answer. Like, how the fuck is that your business? It isn't. You're not the chastity police, dude. You're just another guy.

[pavlove]

the most confident/aggressive guys tend to be the ones only interested in is sex. also, its easier for a guy to be confident when all he wants is sex because he doesn't really care if the woman likes him back only that he get what he wants, or he doesn't.

that's why confidence is actually not the best and certaintly shouldn't be the only trait women look for in a guy

[FamousAF]

Women are attracted to the traits they are in guys because it has worked best for thousands of generations. If it didn't work, they wouldn't do it.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@FamousAF 1. Still creepy the way you complimented her without looking at her age. If you are complimenting somebody that much younger, CASUALLY, you wouldn't call her "bloody beautiful." Those words imply there are certain things you are thinking about her because of it. If you actually bothered to LOOK at what I was saying, I was not criticizing casual sex at all, but instead people that rely on looks and money too much. Not even directing at porn stars or prostitutes, because sometimes they don't have other options, but at girls that have MORE than enough resources to make something of themselves, yet instead leech of of a guy they marry. If you look at the modern woman too arguably, many are actually starting to fall for EACH OTHER and reject nearly ALL men because SOME men get TOO aggressive and they are SICK of it, so they are not sure which man to trust, ever. The girls who also think their place is lesser than men, therefore become leeches, are the weaker ones.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Case in point, you may actually find a woman one day, but the type you seem to be going for, the "looks before brains" based, is likely just NOT as smart as a woman who wants to WORK and NEVER rely on a guy. You are going for an INFERIOR type woman, meaning a INFERIOR nuclear family type relationship may be the future, where the man makes the money, while the woman cooks, cleans, and does laundry. The man serves in the army or can change a tire, while the woman can't, but is a wonderful cum sucking baby maker. This man not allowing the woman to do as she pleases is limiting her ability, thus preventing a strong, superior family. The SUPERIOR family will consist of a man that can cook, clean, take care of kids, AS WELL AS work and for the wife/other husband, the SAME abilities come around when needed. THAT is a SUPERIOR family that will survive this world into the future. The whole "woman want an aggressive man, it's survival" is 100% BS Women want a SUPERIOR man, who wantsSUPERIORwomen

[errorgoodnameunfound]

*SUPERIOR doesn't mean AGGRESSIVE but able to SURVIVE by any means possible, meaning, they men can do any of the stereotypical "women's tasks" and women can do vice versa. Go ahead and settle on some inferior woman if you like. The actual alpha woman may or may not spot me, and I am more than happy to go for another man, as long as we BOTH are ALPHAS.

[SammieAggy]

Okay well firstly I am not catfish, this is actually me. I don't see the point in catfish. I get that shit all the time, but you guys just had like an all out war RN. Neither of your opinions are invalid, cause technically opinions unless on fact can be invalid

[FamousAF]

@errorgoodnameunfound Lol I hardly know what to say to that. Have fun with your alpha man, I guess? Regarding complimenting her looks, I full well knew she was seventeen. I just don't see why I can't compliment her looks? She is very attractive. I'm not hitting on her, I'm just complimenting her looks.

[FamousAF]

Also @SammieAggy apologies for the all-out war.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@FamousAF Thanks, I will. Alpha man or woman if I decide to even live with somebody/date, as that may or may not be worth the investment. You completely did what she indicated she is sick of. Now suddenly, you apologize to try to look better. Though, this is a lot of notifications, free speech is allowed whether on somebody's comment or not. You really seem to have an inferiority complex towards women dude. Im saying for real. You don't have to respond to this, just think about it.

[Mrbrainsyck]

@errorgoodnameunfound Take a chill pill fuck. I get what your saying, but its hard to follow because your letting anger get the best of you.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@Mrbrainsyck I'm not angry at all. I am just super blunt. If I'm not, people ignore it or don't get it. I have doubts you fully looked at what the other guy said before calling me angry or have a bias againts me bc I said things bluntly and truthfully and truth hurts. If you looked at what the other guy said, he's way more defensive than me and you'd figure that out if you actually paid attention to every single detail, which is near impossible because you weren't involved at any point.

[Mrbrainsyck]

@errorgoodnameunfound No I'm actually sitting here agreeing with you, but asking you to dial it back from "OMG WOW YOUR EYES AAAAAH! Bitch please, get a life." If you still want to fight with me even though I agree with you go right ahead. Being blunt is just stating facts clearly regardless if someone doesn't like the opinion. Your talking about something that is widely accepted by most men but sperging the fuck out so half of what we read is you losing your head, and the focus of the argument. I don't have a bias towards either of you. I'm being Blunt and telling you that even though i agree. You're making yourself look like a dip shit. Make any assumptions about my approach as you want, but its just you trying to reassure your self that you handled everything properly. Don't like criticism tough shit.

Men have to control their emotions or else they lose articulation, and I'm pointing out your display. If you disagree with that I don't know what to tell you.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@Mrbrainsyck Ok, I get what you are saying a bit more. You like what I say and agree, but would rather me subside the angry sound to it. Ya know, if it sounds angry, I guess I can try to type it differently. I'm actually quite glad to have a bit of evidence that many men agree with my statements, as I supposed that was true, but the more men that agree, the bit more it's validated. I respect a fellow man coming in to make sure the appropriate message gets across appropriately and communicated properly. Men sticking up for fellow men is a huge principal I stand by. And anything that helps it, even it means coaching me a bit, telling me get my head clear, I am ok with it.

[hsshannah96]

They don’t. I have many beautiful friends. But beautiful is all based on perspective. My friends think I’m beautiful. I don’t

[pavlove]

well there's more of them than there are of you

[hsshannah96]

I don’t scare any guys. I am a bit boring. With a typical old flower shirt and jean shorts, three ear piercings only, no tattoo, minimal drinking, no smoking, hazel eyes, dirty blonde hair and (at the moment from tanning) sun kissed skin I’m just a typical human but I have Olympic par kor people as friends. Lmdao. But hot Russian friend is so beautiful. I’m straight but my god. She will have you like WOW

[hsshannah96]

But again, beauty is relative.

[hsshannah96]

I have been single for two years. Nothing draws guys to me. Hahaha

[Mrbrainsyck]

Just stare at some guy like a creep, and he'll come over.

[Prof_Don]

Most guys that are "scared" of beautiful women, is because they feel inadequate and insecure around her.

In short, the guy fears being cheated on and/or replaced, since he feel this beautiful girl will be given MANY opportunities to do so.

[MelaninDoll]

facts.

[Prof_Don]

@MelaninDoll unfortunately so, these guys just have to recognize their own great qualities and embrace them! That is how self-esteem is built.