Are You Just Not Good Enough For Her/ Him? The Truth is Harsh.

[Sheriblossom]

Yes. The harsh reality? Some people are just not good enough. And no, there's not going to be any sugar coating today my peeps. Come have a laddle full of reality soup featuring rocks, pins, bandages , and all the garbage you can imagine. T'is life.

People have needs. Duh. And in relationships, there are things specific to each person that everyone needs. Some of it could include finding a person that can make them happy,

a good sense of humour, has ambition in life, passionate about their hobbies, confidence, etc. This is a separate problem all in itself. And sometimes, if you lack what the other person needs, then that's it.

How has a recently 17 year old gal typing random stuff into a

pretty little pink and blue swirly MacBook come to realize this? Well, I realized something while I've been talking to guys. I've only talked to like, 5 guys online on a regular basis so mind you it's not much. I still have so much more to learn. But something I realized is that yes, I have my own problems and insecurities that need fixing. However, I have the right mindset to get myself there and develop myself, thus, leaving the next biggest problem. My Approach.

Think of it like advertising: You could have a hella great product and if you have lame ass marketing. Ain't nobody buyin that sh*t. And it also goes the other way around. Either way though, marketing is gonna save you. Don't go posting 1243575645 selfies in a row on snapchat! Whatchu tryna say? I can look equally ridiculous at 4 billion different angles? Haha, in case you wondered why people skip your stories.

The guys:

#1 (basically the first guy I ever flirted with at all) I don't talk to him anymore, he lost interest, I was to forward, didn't create desire/ attraction, just let him use me to the max. I was a lame ass option.

#2 I improved so much he was attracted to me, but I didn't create scarcity, jealousy, or any competition to make him think I was scarce. I was too available and we live too far away even though he suggested to meet me. That ass didn't even say happy birthday and totes doesn't give a fuck about me anymore.

#3 Still talks to me and we joke around and have the best convos ever!!!!!

#4 Really deep insightful convos, we still talk!

Dams Sherry! Back at it again with the purple Nikes. What changed? Umm. Desire. Scarcity. Letting the last two guys know that I have options. The second guy asked "You don't flirt with other guys? Why?" And I said " ooh you're the only one I need" * barfing* DON'T let the other person have that sense of security. Hell nah. He wants you? All to himself? Commit. Make him commit. Or else, have options! It's not a devious thing. Like, you don't have to be romantically into other guys, but just comments like how cool another guy is is all it really takes sometimes. You gotta raise your value in his eyes. It works reverse gender as well. Guy #2 and #3 has nothing to be jealous of. Nothing to desire or protect and keep for themselves. Nothing to earn. Guy #3 and #4 told me they were jealous of the other guys I talk to. The thing is I don't try to make them jealous. If you naturally have options, you're all that more attractive. And in the future I won't be saying " Oh don't be jealous of him :) " I'll be saying " Ooh, is someone jealous :P ". I will be more playful. And as much as many guys deny it, something that is scarce is valued way more. Compare diamonds, lumber, and how people have been valuing fossil fuels more than they used to.

The good news is that all you need to focus on is doing it the right way. Okay? Most people have amazing lives to share with other people and are equally amazing people. You just gotta focus on attraction and doing it the right way. I will try to unpack some things that I'll be learning in these next few weeks and sharing it with my readers :) Stay tuned -Sherry

[Anonymous]

Basically no. The opposite of most of that is true. If you think having options is going to make me want you then think again. Why would I want someone who isn't interested in committing to me? I'm not going to play that game. Not actually being into the other guys and just dropping comments about guys is swaps not caring with mindgames, either way it's a turnoff. You should be direct an straightforward, if you can't then why would I invest in you? Why go after someone playing hard to get when someone who is the same except they're receptive and aren't playing games is going to be more appealing?
I wouldn't.

You'll have loads of 'options' but not land a partner, which brings into question if you truly have that many 'options' if they're not really going to pan out.

"how people have been valuing fossil fuels more than they used to"
You mean how their excessive cost drives people to seek alternatives in renewable energy technologies that harvest from more available sources? "More valuable" is one way to put it, they cost more but we don't want them to. An analogy of something people want to not pay for and seek alternatives to does not support your "scarcity" position.

Also, that "need" is relative. Obese people "need" an excess of junk food. It manifests as a very real desire but that doesn't mean it's just this perfectly natural and good thing. You change your eating/exercise habits/attitudes, you get healthier. Your romantic choices can function in the same ways as bad habits; what you want is not automatically right or good.

It could be that what you want is reasonable. It could also be that what you want is ridiculous and the other person is actually totally adequate by most people's metrics.

[Sheriblossom]

it's not about hiding whats in your mind. It's about revealing it slowly. The truth is, many of the people that we desire what is scarce. People that have options. People that make us earn their attention and respect. That's why we'll never take them for granted. It's great if everyone has their own life. That's how they keep their partner interested. Too much of a good thing and too much security can make things repetitive and boring. It's not that you don't let them know you like them. It's giving them a little sprinkle of your feelings here and there until their decide to commit to you. I meant that people used to think fossil fuels were so endless and thought there'd always be more. However, now we've realized that there's not as much as it as we think there is. And guess what? It's a scarce commodity now and soon one day maybe there won't be any more left. If it was endless, then we wouldn't care as much about how much we used. I never said if I was right or wrong

[Sheriblossom]

in case a person wonders why people always take advantage of them, or use them, or don't value their time, etc then this is exactly why. They are available 24/7 . Ever wonder why people call you on dates last second and not in advance? Because they know that person will never have anything better to true. No one wants to give another person that message :)

[Sheriblossom]

Why do guys pull back or why do girls pull away from a guy? This is all based on the same thing. You gotta create scarcity in the other one's eyes

[Opinion Owner]

"many of the people that we desire what is scarce"
Desiring things that are scarce and desiring things because they are scare are different.

"People that make us earn their attention and respect."
They don't like us enough to pay attention to us -- and certainly paying attention to others is not earning my respect at all. I appreciate sincere keenness to spend time with me. Being juggled is annoying.

"their own life. That's how they keep their partner interested"
Not by having their own separate lovelife though.

"Too much of a good thing and too much security can make things repetitive and boring"
In my experience guys seem much more okay with comfort and bordem. Perhaps you're describing girls' feelings.

"It's giving them a little sprinkle of your feelings here and there until their decide to commit to you"
Isn't that a one sided action you're describing? Or are we both supposed to "sprinkle" but never take action until the end of time?

[Opinion Owner]

"It's a scarce commodity now"
Doesn't mean we want it more. It's "valuable" because we need it not because we want it or because it's scarce. It's scarce because we wanted it, not the other way around.

"Available"
I don't see the problem with being available -- and if the only thing stopping people from taking advantage of you is the opporunitiy to do so, then they're probably not people who's attention or respect you should be caring about.

"Ever wonder why people call you on dates last second and not in advance?"
No. A lot of this sounds like it only applies to girls.

"Because they know that person will never have anything better to true. No one wants to give another person that message"
So the message that they probably have something better to do than spend time with you is something other than disrespectful?

[Opinion Owner]

"You gotta create scarcity in the other one's eyes"
Nope. What I'm reading is that guys need to create scarcity in girls' eyes apparently -- and even then I think this scarcity concept is a distortion/misinterpretation of the situation.

[Sheriblossom]

Create scarcity in each others eyes. it's not gender specific. No, it's not scarce because we want it. It's scarce only when we want it and there's a limited supply. If it's not limited, then its not scarce. Being too available is a turn off. It's the truth. Being there for someone 24/7 when you're not in an exclusive relationship is what makes guys get into the girl's friendzone. I prefer talking to guys that don't always have time for me but will make time for me. Not a guy that has nothing better to do than wait for me to talk to him.

[Opinion Owner]

"Create scarcity in each others eyes. it's not gender specific"
Well, I'm saying men don't generally respond that way.

"It's scarce only when we want it and there's a limited supply."
That was implied.
"If it's not limited, then its not scarce. Being too available is a turn off."
If it's not so limited then we would still want it just as much if not more. Scarcity is not what makes us want it, this is not a good analogy at all.

"Being there for someone 24/7 when you're not in an exclusive relationship is what makes guys get into the girl's friendzone"
Maybe so, but you're talking about girls there.

[Opinion Owner]

"I prefer talking to guys that don't always have time for me but will make time for me. Not a guy that has nothing better to do than wait for me to talk to him."
Well, that's your preference.
How would you know the difference if a guy made time and if a guy had time?
Just because they're available doesn't mean they're just waiting to talk to you. The only reason any of it sounds bad at all is your phrasing of it, there's no reason you have to phrase it as "having nothing better to do," this is your personal reaction to someone's availability.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm a uni student. Most of the work that goes into my degree takes place outside of structured class time. I've got 12 hours of lectures to watch per week and more time to make sure I understand and then also do assignments. That is a lot of unstructured time that means I can stop whenever and do something. So technically I'm quite available, doesn't mean I "have nothing better to do" but neither would I phrase it that way; as if it's a problem. Like, so you're available... shrug.

What does annoy me is the other end: people being busy all the time. It's bad enough that they have to *make time* for me, but I also find that "scarce" people don't get a lot of time with themselves; they tend to lack introspection and awareness.

[Sheriblossom]

You obviously had the luck of not having to text people that literally just say "Hey" and then I ask whats up and they say "Just the same thing as yesterday" " I went to work and came home". Or when they literally just don't have a life. It's not attractive. Tell me what you're up to and that you actually have responsibilities and things to do. That's the people that give me impression that they use their time well and have other things to do than to talk to me, but choose to talk to me. Not that they are bored and have nothing better to do.

[Opinion Owner]

But people don't have to text you if they're bored -- and if even if they're bored they're still choosing you to relieve that.

I had a girlfriend like that. It was totally fine. People can talk about things other than just what they do and you don't have to "do things" to find things funny and talk about them or whatever. Basically this just seems like a personal preference you have. In my experience this is mostly a thing only girls get hung up on. It hinges on that impression you get. Well I don't get that impression or care about that at all, it's just not within the scope of my experience.

[SaintJonesy]

A better title for this piece would've been, "How to emotionally manipulate people into thinking you're too good for them," especially since the original title is kind of unrelated.

My favorite line is, "DON'T let the other person have that sense of security." This is someone you supposedly like that you're talking about, and GOD FORBID they know you like them. You're saying if you aren't keeping them dogged and insecure, then you're doing it wrong. I understand that it's good to have options and not appear desperate, but you're talking about purposely making someone feel inadequate and insecure. If this is how you treat your friends, I don't want to know how you treat your enemies.

[Sheriblossom]

Haha, titles are not always what they appear to be. Ever read the lord of the flies? The title has more significance than you know. Yes, some people like giving the other person security. That's a sole choice. However, in terms of "Attraction" things are way more complex. The truth is, many of the people that we desire are people we can't have. People that have options. People that make us earn their attention and respect. That's why we'll never take them for granted. It's great if everyone has their own life. That's how they keep their partner interested. Too much of a good thing and too much security can make things repetitive and boring. It's not that you don't let them know you like them. It's giving them a little sprinkle of your feelings here and there until their decide to commit to you. And guess what? This especially works on the people who never settle down. If you do it right, you can make that person stay. And think about it, you're not trying to manipulate their emotions

[Sheriblossom]

For example: you meet a girl and you want sex. She tells you she likes you but that's not her speed and doesn't wanna move that fast. However, she's be happy if you'd like to take her out on another date and get to know her better. She's not manipulating you if she's not putting out. She's simply communicating her standard. If you are willing to work with her to meet that standard, then she is more than willing to be with you. However if you don't want to, she will find another guy. That simple. This is how attraction works. Not simply protecting the other one's emotions and not giving a hoot about your own

[Anonymous]

everything you just wrote here was pointless
ill break this down real simple

LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS
LMS
also a little bit of asshole mixed in there

if the guy is not at least average to good looking he has no chance
also women's standards are to high

basically if every guy is not a 9
he is not good enough
even though most women are average lol

what I have learned through out my time
is that I was always to good for most women
especially once I hit HS woahhh

fucking sluts (let me touch your abs) lol
shallow bitches

women do not learn until they are in their 40s
so I have one rule for one pump and dump
make money and trust in GOD

(MGTOW They Don't Really Care About Us)

[Sheriblossom]

Haha, I like how everyone thinks it's off topic but I simply asked a question. And then I said the truth is harsh. Never said yes or no to whether or not you're good enough. But in the mytake, I did mention that not everyone is good enough. some people are not ambtious is life and can provide nothing to their partner even in terms of personality. I just said these people are rare. And it's not about hiding whats in your mind. It's about revealing it slowly. The truth is, many of the people that we desire what is scarce. People that have options. People that make us earn their attention and respect. That's why we'll never take them for granted. It's great if everyone has their own life. That's how they keep their partner interested. Too much of a good thing and too much security can make things repetitive and boring. It's not that you don't let them know you like them. It's giving them a little sprinkle of your feelings here and there until their decide to commit to you.

[Opinion Owner]

no lol

[JustMyTake]

The disparity between how guys reacted to this and how girls reacted to this is interesting. I have a few thoughts regarding this post.

First and foremost, I feel as though there's this idea that negative information is correct and positive information is wrong. Many, many self help books say something along these lines. "Forget everything you thought was true" "Don't strive for your dreams because you won't reach them, strive for something you can achieve." The truth, I believe, falls somewhere in the middle. I don't believe that taking positive or conventional ideas and flipping them on their heads is the best way to figure things out.

Regarding the scarcity mentality- many men buy diamond engagement rings for their soon-to-be fiances. But if diamonds suddenly became scarcer and the price skyrocketed, many men may opt for moissanite instead, a far cheaper material, similar to a diamond. Using your analogy, they might opt for a girl they aren't as attracted to at first or aren't as interested in.

And yes, the guy may desperately want the girl, but what both girls and guys fail to take into account is the influence and sway of friends. A guy talks about how much he likes you, but how he doesn't know if you like him back. He may be smitten with you, but his friends are not and his friends will have "harsh truths" to speak. Eventually you become known as a player and guys lose interest.

I agree with not revealing your entire life story right off the bat. Ease into it. Be a bit mysterious. But playing people off each other ends up backfiring when they *correctly* guess that's what you are doing. Better to be straightforward and honest, but not desperate, I think. I haven't personally been in a relationship but I have witnessed a number of them and where things go wrong and I know how guys talk about girls. I've been desperate and pushed girls away, but I've also never talked to some girls in hopes that they would talk to me. That has happened, but not with girls I was interested in (mind you, in high school I used to literally run away from girls that showed any interest.) But none of what I'm saying is novel or anything I made up. This comes from many years of third person observation.

[ChurchOfIron]

What you're saying is entirely true. For women. But, for guys, it doesn't work that way. The more "options" a woman has, the less desirable she is. When a guy has a lot of options, that is desirable to a woman. But, it discourages men. If you raise your value too high, he is going to be like, "Okay, well, I guess I lose. Best move on to easier targets."

Unless you are actively looking for a guy who will drive through no matter what. In which case, you will find one like that, probably, if you keep playing that game.

See. Women are already scarce, for men. It's not easy to attract women. Well, it is for me, but only after a lot of hard work and a lot of practice. But I mean for most guys. Unless you are specifically speaking about men who have a lot of options. Which might be around 10%, 15% of men. So, I wouldn't use what you're saying as a generalized statement, because it won't work on average or even moderately above average guys. It will just discourage them and run them off. But, you've come to your own conclusions based on your own experiences and observations, so I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong. But I really don't agree.

Even then, I'm not sure if it would work for top tier men, either. Guys like it when you show affection and show that you are interested. They don't like it when you are playing games and playing hard to get. In my experience, women like the chase a lot more than men.

As you say, women like it when the guy has options, they like it when he's a little jealous, they like to know "I am special. He could have any of these other girls, but he chose me." But men are different.

Players would have fun with what you're doing. So, you might catch yourself a player. Otherwise, mmmmm, I think you should put some more thought into it. Namely revolving around the differences between men and women. But, like I said, I don't know. Just my thoughts on it.

[dmgstarfleet]

Female Hypergamy means that women tend to mate upwards with men of higher status than themselves. Please note, however, in the "marketplace" women tend to peak in value in their 20s, declining rapidly therafter ( An average 40 year old will have more "marketplace" value than a beautiful 50 year old for instance) Don't get arrogant because you're 17 and getting a lot of male attention. That's going to even out and decline as you age (unless you change your attitude-there is NOTHING attractive about arrogance and narcissism)

[Sheriblossom]

Haha, thank you for taking time to write this. However, I think the people that actually know me in my day to day life will know if I'm arrogant or not, and quite surprisingly I've never really been described like that before. Like I've mentioned in my mytake, I'm not saying I am experienced, I am simply saying that I have learned something that helps me grow. And my mytakes tend to take on the tone of sarcastic humour.

[Knighted2170]

A female pickup artist, maybe? Have you been reading my opinions? :0 I've been posting that stuff since I came on here. You have some of it down pretty well.
I recommend you refine your takes just a little. Give clear examples of how, and why, it works. Especially the value and options part.
I understood your entire post, but only because I use the same information. Some won't, others are going to flame saying it's trash.

I thought it was good. Your take is exactly right. Just refine the presentation a little and I think you will be golden.

[taleswapper]

Sour grapes, I'm afraid. The whole idea of "good enough" or "Not good enough" misses the point. "Good" is subjective, and personal. So the guy who doesn't do "it" for you may be exactly what that 10 over there wants. It's scrambled eggs and bacon vs, rice balls and slivers of pickled fish for breakfast. Neither is "good" or "bad", they're just to someone else's taste.

That cute guy over there? With the great personality and a trust fund? He's got a thing for shy petite girls with freckles. Since you're a 5'8 Amazon with an hourglass figure and an assertive personality, you won't do. It doesn't mean you're not "good enough", just not the right fit. So don't despair when he leaves with that mousy nerd from your calculus class; she's just his type.

[AbdKilani]

Nice take
But the title is a bit off topic
I hate these games that girl do , I am up front guy , if there is attraction I would say , and I don't hide anything on my mind.
That seems not to be working , I know the game I can play it well, but I prefer to be honest.
Good Job

[Sheriblossom]

Haha, I like how everyone thinks it's off topic but I simply asked a question. And then I said the truth is harsh. Never said yes or no to whether or not you're good enough. But in the mytake, I did mention that not everyone is good enough. some people are not ambtious is life and can provide nothing to their partner even in terms of personality. I just said these people are rare. And it's not about hiding whats in your mind. It's about revealing it slowly. The truth is, many of the people that we desire what is scarce. People that have options. People that make us earn their attention and respect. That's why we'll never take them for granted. It's great if everyone has their own life. That's how they keep their partner interested. Too much of a good thing and too much security can make things repetitive and boring. It's not that you don't let them know you like them. It's giving them a little sprinkle of your feelings here and there until their decide to commit to you.

[Sheriblossom]

For example: you meet a girl and you want sex. She tells you she likes you but that's not her speed and doesn't wanna move that fast. However, she's be happy if you'd like to take her out on another date and get to know her better. She's not manipulating you if she's not putting out. She's simply communicating her standard. If you are willing to work with her to meet that standard, then she is more than willing to be with you. However if you don't want to, she will find another guy. That simple. This is how attraction works. Not simply protecting the other one's emotions and not giving a hoot about your own

[AbdKilani]

Wow too long reply xd
I meant the title is about being good enough, but most of the topic about mid games, and how couples and friends works
For me , personally , I chat with many people here, I am straight to the point, If i feel there is something going on, I would state it , I can take a hint

[Sheriblossom]

Online is different and in some ways similar in real life. But there's usually less pressure dealing with someone who doesn't know us in person I find :) but hey everyone thinks differently!

[AbdKilani]

Yup
LoL
I am still to have a first date, so I only know online
In real life, even if things clicked , it never works out

[Sheriblossom]

Haha well we all learn a little more each day so if you put effort into it I'm sure you'll be able to do it!

[AbdKilani]

LoL
Do it , I gave up on dating long time ago xd
No luck in that field , just going to get traditional wedding

[Sheriblossom]

I don't think you should give up on anything as long as you have the right and strong mindset for it and are willing to learn. Everyone thinks dating comes naturally but you gotta be willing to put in effort to work on it. I listen to relationship coaches and stuff and I realized how much there was for me to learn and especially at such a young age. You can still learn you have lots of time :)

[AbdKilani]

Nah
I put my effort
Nothing worked, but I will just still waiting for a glimmer of a chance though

[torken]

Eh, this is a rather hopeless perspective.

I think it is important to have a value system and to find someone who shares a similar one.
Example, if your pursuit is knowledge, someone who likes to party might be a dullard and to them you might be boring. However you might each think the other is "not good enough for you". When that isn't quite the case, eh?

Know yourself, know what you want, try and get there yourself and keep an eye out for others on a similar life journey.

[Sheriblossom]

Haha please reread :) I said that people are often good enough for each other, but do not know how to express themselves fully!

[lilaqua]

is this really a good foundation for a relationship? I pretty much committed all of your sins when I first started talking to my boyfriend, no 'false scarcity', no mind games just honesty. If a person likes you as a person they're gonna pursue it.

[Sheriblossom]

Very true, but perhaps I'm still doubtful of my own value and what I think people perceive of me so I don't think I have the ability to find someone I will truly like. I don't think I have really experienced that before. So definitely, my experience has skewed my thinking :)

[lilaqua]

if you haven't found someone you truly like then what's the point of even juggling multiple guys at once. It just sounds like a lot of effort for no real point. Ahh I mean i've always been pretty simple.

[AriesMale]

The topic and the title doesn’t correlate. The topic is self empowerment positivity and how to play the game in your perspective. The title itself plays on people’s insecurities, making them see if they’re not good enough so to speak.

Anyways you should go work for buzzfeed your honestly good at clickbaiting.

[Sheriblossom]

Haha, I like how everyone thinks it's off topic but I simply asked a question. And then I said the truth is harsh. Never said yes or no to whether or not you're good enough. But in the mytake, I did mention that not everyone is good enough. some people are not ambtious is life and can provide nothing to their partner even in terms of personality. I just said these people are rare.

[Bluedream13]

yeah its one of those harsh truths. I like to be upfront with girls but as soon as I show them slightly more interest than they show me they lose interest or want to sidecar me.

There's only been one exception in my life so far

[Dingsbums]

A bad product with good marketing might get sales at first but people will get back to the store and give it back. So u need both. Good product and good marketing. Only a few don’t have to do marketing and still get partners.
I don’t see myself as a product and refuse to do marketing tho lol

[HughJass]

Also to add, to have an everlasting relationship, one must share not only common interests but most importantly, VALUES.

[azzntittiz]

This is a great mindset to have, yes, sometimes people won't accept that they might not be good enough in a relationship and that's a real problem.

[Logorithim]

Interesting Take (I like them without the sugarcoating).

I believe that there is someone out there for everyone.

[JustWorthlessMe]

At least you're sort of honest, but for women, it's all about looks

[Sheriblossom]

It's not all about looks, it just starts with looks

[Jack_L_andTurn]

While it is true that some people are not good enough, unless the person is obnoxious the reasons tend to be more about compatibility and interests.

[VanityFiend]

This is the dumbest shit I've skimmed through. You are a deluded 17 year old, grow up.

[Browneye57]

You've 'talked to five guys' and now you're an expert. Sure. LOL

[Sheriblossom]

Haha, thank you for taking time to write this. However, I think the people that actually know me in my day to day life will know if I'm arrogant or not, and quite surprisingly I've never really been described like that before. Like I've mentions in my mytake, I'm not saying I am experienced, I am simply saying that I have learned something that helps me grow. And my mytakes tend to take on the tone of sarcastic humour.

[NotPerfectMan]

Too bad we aren't closer in age.

[Sheriblossom]

Haha why's that?

[NotPerfectMan]

I like what you said & how you think, a LOT. But at 17, I don't think you really know what you want yet and you are jailbait. If we're still both single & here in 4-5 years, we might have a chance together. I doubt it would last. Mostly due to pressure from family on both sides not liking it & overall life experience differences. It would be extremely difficult to overcome the many obstacles & very unfair to you. No matter how healthy & long I might live, you would be left alone at some point. If my health went bad, then you'd probably be alone, in debt & resenting me, with few options left in your life.

[Sheriblossom]

Me and the guy that I like talk about it. He's a few years older than me and we live on opposite sides of the country, but I guess things just don't work like that. My timing with him is a bit off despite that I like him. We talk about a future together but he's started ignoring me after I told him that we need to wait a year till we can meet. And he really stopped talking to me after that so I guess it is what it is. I've realized a lot these past 3 days. Haha I think you're too old for me, I apologize. I am only attracted to guys who are my age, or at most 10 years older. Anymore than that and it's really uncomfortable especially because I'm still a minor.

[NotPerfectMan]

Because you are still a minor & your ex didn't want to be jailed is exactly why he quit talking to you. That and respect left him with no other options. On that note, I also am finished chatting with you. Good bye, good luck & good riddance.

[Kayla45]

interesting mytake, very informal

[Sheriblossom]

thank you!