When you get into a relationship, you'll probably put a lot of effort into it and really cherish her. Then you might breakup one day and it will destroy you. But then you'll learn you can't be perfect in a relationship. Being perfect isn't real. Being yourself and putting effort is all you need to do. And she needs to do the same.
@Blunique Yep, but why would anyone dump a lovely dreamboy in the first place? If we would love each other and I would treat her like a princess, what could go wrong?
Well I had those short relationships. Then I had a little longer. My last relationship could have lasted 5 years. I could have married him. But he didn't treat me right and didn't deserve me. Like when the relationship first started out it was fun and I was really happy. Then all this drama happened which ruined the relationship for me and I didn't want to be with him anymore. I realized he took me for granted and didn't put as much effort as I was putting in. He was in 9 relationships before me and all of his girlfriends broke up with him because he was distant and too consumed in games or whatever his problem was. But he wasn't there for me in a very important time. All I wanted was for him to care and he couldn't even do that. It shattered the relationship for me and I realized everything I did and put into the relationship was a big waste of time. I put all that effort into someone who didn't appreciate it. I broke up with him and since it was my first real breakup it took me a
Very long time to heal. But I'm healed now and talking about it doesn't hurt anymore. It's just like a memory. Something that happened. So your first break up will be hard. You'll probably hate women after that. Or be cautious. Maybe your break ups after that will be easier because it won't be your first rodeo lol
Some people are more sensitive of others and we should be mindful of such facts. Also bare in mind their is nothing wrong with that. And that he had to have gad in mind that she was sensitive and still did the act.
@Wolf_bite666 Well, it just reminds me of an old quote:
"Censorship is telling a man he can't have steak because a baby can't chew it."
I appreciate that some folks are sensitive, but guess what? The world isn't going to walk on eggshells around them and their tender sensibilities, and just like some people are more sensitive than others, some people are more INsensitive than others, too.
So maybe it's the sensitive people who should be sensitive to the insensitivity of insensitive people, and not the other way around?
In a sense I completely agree with you, in some cases sensitivity must be swallowed and it is a very cruel and rough world. However at the same time sensitivity has its time and place. My only aim in my original comment was to make u aware that showing a sensitive side in all cases is not a sign of weakness nor should it always be reprimanded.
A simple quote from me: "Sympathy isn't depriving yourself of streak because your baby can't have it, its choosing not to eat steak around them"
during that time i wasn't at a very high state of mind, this was one year ago and i should have been more clear when i said, that i had the power to walk away but i gave him that power. Not only that but also that many of my guy friends had said things like this. That was my last straw. I realized at the time i could have been annoying and i dont take it to heart now.
i agree that sensitive people are going to learn as am i right now
@Wolf_bite666 That's what the baby needs to motivate it to become stronger.
If all you do is nurture someone, they'll never change. And that's a hell of a thing to do to a kid, make him have to play catch-up for his whole childhood.
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For a person who I love, I try to be truly perfect.
Have you been through a breakup yet?
@Blunique No. Haven't really even a relationship. I have something maybe starting.
When you get into a relationship, you'll probably put a lot of effort into it and really cherish her. Then you might breakup one day and it will destroy you. But then you'll learn you can't be perfect in a relationship. Being perfect isn't real. Being yourself and putting effort is all you need to do. And she needs to do the same.
@Blunique Yep, but why would anyone dump a lovely dreamboy in the first place?
If we would love each other and I would treat her like a princess, what could go wrong?
Never know. Life isn't perfect. You don't always get what you want. Not to rain on your parade.
@Blunique Have you ever been dating?
Yes, I've dated
@Blunique How did it go?
Well I had those short relationships. Then I had a little longer. My last relationship could have lasted 5 years. I could have married him. But he didn't treat me right and didn't deserve me. Like when the relationship first started out it was fun and I was really happy. Then all this drama happened which ruined the relationship for me and I didn't want to be with him anymore. I realized he took me for granted and didn't put as much effort as I was putting in. He was in 9 relationships before me and all of his girlfriends broke up with him because he was distant and too consumed in games or whatever his problem was. But he wasn't there for me in a very important time. All I wanted was for him to care and he couldn't even do that. It shattered the relationship for me and I realized everything I did and put into the relationship was a big waste of time. I put all that effort into someone who didn't appreciate it. I broke up with him and since it was my first real breakup it took me a
Very long time to heal. But I'm healed now and talking about it doesn't hurt anymore. It's just like a memory. Something that happened. So your first break up will be hard. You'll probably hate women after that. Or be cautious. Maybe your break ups after that will be easier because it won't be your first rodeo lol
Over how many girls you have told, “go away” “shut up” “I don’t care” “you are being annoying” “what do you want” “you are stupid”
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We don't always communicate well, but sometimes People get frustrated. Point taken, though.
None; I don't know, you'd have to ask her; I don't know, you'd have to ask her; I don't know, you'd have to ask him; quite well, respectively.
I'm sorry you had to experience that. I never did anything like that.
Think this could be condensed without losing impact
Did that help you get it off your chest?
I don't see a different take here just the usual "me me me me me"
... This isn't a poem just because you called it one.
Poem?
@Wowgirl10q She says at the top that it's a "poem." It's not a poem. It's a rant.
A bad one.
Agreed
Well maybe it's a poem to her
@Wowgirl10q Your audience matters more than the author's intent.
Sometimes people just need to be told to shut up. Boys or girls...
Having told many people in my life time to STFU I agree. Yet, its different when a significant other does it.
This is annoying, stfu kid... he will not take you seriously if you keep spouting such crap
I've never said anything like to a girl ever in my life.
Holy fucking shit, you're a baby.
Some people are more sensitive of others and we should be mindful of such facts. Also bare in mind their is nothing wrong with that. And that he had to have gad in mind that she was sensitive and still did the act.
*had had
@Wolf_bite666 Well, it just reminds me of an old quote:
"Censorship is telling a man he can't have steak because a baby can't chew it."
I appreciate that some folks are sensitive, but guess what? The world isn't going to walk on eggshells around them and their tender sensibilities, and just like some people are more sensitive than others, some people are more INsensitive than others, too.
So maybe it's the sensitive people who should be sensitive to the insensitivity of insensitive people, and not the other way around?
In a sense I completely agree with you, in some cases sensitivity must be swallowed and it is a very cruel and rough world. However at the same time sensitivity has its time and place. My only aim in my original comment was to make u aware that showing a sensitive side in all cases is not a sign of weakness nor should it always be reprimanded.
A simple quote from me:
"Sympathy isn't depriving yourself of streak because your baby can't have it, its choosing not to eat steak around them"
@Wolf_bite666 That doesn't make any sense, I'll chew steak right in a baby's face. Mouth open and everything.
U can but should u?
during that time i wasn't at a very high state of mind, this was one year ago and i should have been more clear when i said, that i had the power to walk away but i gave him that power. Not only that but also that many of my guy friends had said things like this. That was my last straw. I realized at the time i could have been annoying and i dont take it to heart now.
i agree that sensitive people are going to learn as am i right now
@Wolf_bite666 Explain to me how that hurts the baby. Seriously.
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Omfg I love the gif and your spice. But hey it doesn't hurt physically but it does introduce a point of denial that never had to exist.
@Wolf_bite666 That's what the baby needs to motivate it to become stronger.
If all you do is nurture someone, they'll never change. And that's a hell of a thing to do to a kid, make him have to play catch-up for his whole childhood.
Ok ur right in done with this battle of attrition. Have a good life.
@Wolf_bite666 All the attrition was on your side.
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Absolutely!!
I got bored reading the question.
I'm glad I never had to worry about that.
Don't mind, this happens.
some boys can be weird lol
No girls have told me to go away and shut up
Iron man: lol realistic
Right lol
@Iron_Man Go away Shut up... lol😍
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Shut up.
That's not clever; it's just rude. You get your kicks by being rude to teenage girls?
@OlderAndWiser I try to get a laugh from anyone, but teenage girls are certainly the best, as they take themselves so seriously.
Well, that was whiny and entitled.