Alpha Men and Why I Love Them

[Anonymous]

DISCLAIMER : we all like certain traits in the opposite sex, I'm not saying I will find someone who possesses all these traits although I've came pretty close in previous relationships.

Being a straight woman in her 20s, of course I like men but what I love more than men are MEN in capital letter, alphas, manly men, gentlemen, masculine men just like Thomas Shelby from Peaky Blinders that you can see in the picture above.

DISCLAIMER 2: I wanted to put "Why we love them" in the title of the Mytake because there are a lot of girls who also like manly men but NOT ALL OF US DO, we all have types.

So this is my perspective on why me and a lot of girls might like Masculine guys

They're confident

Harvey spectre / Suits

There's a fine line between being confident and being cocky but confidence is extremely sexy and if you have valid reasons to be confident it's even better.

They're powerful

Don Draper / Mad Men

Whether they started from scratch to get where they are or they always were, it takes a lot to build power and respect but it also takes a lot to maintain it.

They know not to judge someone just because they sin differently they do

Thomas Shelby / Peaky Blinders

We all sin, we all fuck up, we all do bad things but somewhat we still judge people. It takes a certain maturity to acknowledge that and not to judge.

They're unstoppable

There's something extremely sexy about people who are so motivated that nothing can stop them. Plus in a relationship it's much better to motivate each other than to bring each other down.

They're classy

They know how to dress up and as a woman who loves to dress up classy, I want a man who also does so.

They have a great taste in cars

I like beautiful classic cars. Just thinking about a 1960 Ferrari turns me on so obviously I need a man who knows his shit about cars and loves them just as much.

When they love, they love deeply

They don't just give their love/time to anyone so you know that when they do, it's for real. And they will show it to you. Expect a lot of passion.

They have a past that made them stronger

A LOT of girls will disagree with this and they prefer a man without emotional baggage, a dark past or whatever but I actually prefer someone who went through shit, who saw things, who experienced pain.

Because I did and I can't be with someone who doesn't understand me.

They're the best at sex

This is once again definitely arguable but those men usually like to be good at all that they do including sex. Everyone loves sex and prefers it when it's good.

They speak well and are smart

I love a good conversation and I can hold one, if you can't, you're not for me.

They drink the good stuff

It's not even really about the stuff that they are drinking. It's about them being able to drink the strong stuff that most people can't stand.

They will do anything for the people they love

Kind of same as the "when they love, they love deeply" but it was meant in a romantic way, this is meant in a family kind of way.

Finally, here's a quick satiric funny tutorial that mad men fans will love : (don't follow it for real lol)

[GirlfromSweden97]

this mytake made me wet

[myTake Owner]

lol you and me both !

[GirlfromSweden97]

BOYSS LEAARNN!
i mean these kind of men dont even need to be habdsome to be hot. its like in their nature

[AbdKilani]

Lol you should get Mho
But let's face it... It is what a normal is like In this take.
I see nothing special or out of the usual man hood

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yeah none of that has anything to do with being "alpha". Except perhaps confidence but in my experience most women can't distinguish between confident and overcompensating assholeishness even if it bit them in the ass (and it usually does (and not in a good way)).

I mean power and wealth? Your telling me Warren Buffet, Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates etc. are "alpha" in your opinion? You also think they are any thing else you have listed? Seems like you really didn't think that through.
Also caring about their family? That's not "alpha", lots of people care about their families, in fact most of the "alpha" people your talking about don't, they don't really care about any one (which is usually why they are more successful as they have no problems destroying peoples lives to get what they want (which if that's your thing more power to you, just don't be pissed off when you catch him fucking your sister in your bed (which is also pretty common with the men you are thinking of)).
Also good dresser? Cars? How many execs are car guys? Probably none. They don't have good taste in cars they just buy expensive shit to show the world how important they are (because they are insecure like that (to just hammer home that point, Bill Gates before giving away most of his money earned more then most countries, he wore a sweater vest. Just let that sink in. He was so rich he didn't need to show how rich he was).
As for intellect, well that depends now doesn't it? I mean was Einstein an alpha then? How about Georgis Lematrie? Shakespear? I mean that's a pretty generic trait and again, doesn't really fit the description of the people you are trying to present, they are not brilliant people, they may not be stupid by any means, but their defining trait is not intellect, again, its ruthelessness and the need to prove to the world that they are important by being the best in what ever it is they are doing (which is why they will work 100 hour work weeks at say a law firm even though they are already making more then enough money, simply so they can have the bigger paycheck (which also by the way kills the notion you have that they are family oriented or love deeply, or are confident really as you can't care about family if your that obsessed with your career and you cannot be that obsessed with your image if your confident).

All in all I think this just shows how little women understand the concept of confidence or being a "alpha".

[myTake Owner]

I didn’t talk about wealth but rather about ambition.
And as I explained to someone, an alpha in a wolf pack is a leader. To lead you must have a lot of qualities that Iisted. Not all of them but a lot of them. Power, Good Speech, Be smart, confidence, life experience, motivation...

[hellionthesagereborn]

Okay, So your telling me Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Mark Zuckerberg lack ambition and that's how they got filthy rich? Because of their lack luster approach to life and work? Exactly. Also yes a leader is absolutely a quality of what one might call an "alpha", and that is a quality you neglected to list. Power has nothing to do with "alpha", hell leadership has nothing to do with power, we have people in positions of power who got their on dumb luck (look at Justin Treudue, he is the least alpha man you can get being weak willed, not particularly intelligent or capable yet he is in a position of power). Now if you said some one who is alpha has confidence (again, I would agree but women don't actually know what confidence is which is why they always mistake self serving asshole behavior and the need to be validated as "confident" even though its the exact opposite), he is a leader that knows how to take charge of a situation (agreed), he is intelligent

[hellionthesagereborn]

(to a degree true however again, book smarts is not really what is needed, the ability to read people and a situation is what is really needed which requires a certain threshold of intellect but not to a significant level (i. e. your panties are not dropping when a guy talks about neurobiology or quantum physics, is what I'm getting at.) so I'd say intelligent enough, cunning perhaps would be a better word for it but I would agree), he has ambition enough not to settle for what comes his way I could kind of see that (however if you look a lot of 'alpha" people are not CEO's they are not big shot lawyers, some of them are just hard working people. I mean when you compare these big shot CEO's that get massages and stay at the best hotels and then see a man who built his own cabin in the woods with his bare hands, we all know who is more impressive and its not the big shot CEO) but would argue that he is a man who is hard working and will do what it takes to get the job done, rather then

[hellionthesagereborn]

a man who desire fame fortune and power (all of which I find very non alpha people seek (as they need validation and they generally wish to be pampered. You throw these kinds of people out in the woods and see who survives, it won't be these kinds of soft men that you are claiming as alpha). But again, I could see why you would come to that conclusion. Also again, the rest is rather contradictory to the examples of characters and people and mindsets you have presented, big shot CEO/Lawyer etc. are not particularly family oriented, they didn't make their way to the top by giving a shit about other people, they didn't get their by stopping everything when a family member or a friend needed them, they got their by forcing their way through and not caring about collateral damage. Again this is why women are drawn to the dark triad personality traits because you confuse selfishness with confidence, power with strength, manipulation with intellect etc.

[myTake Owner]

You have a wrong perception of what ambition and motivation is and it's more than about money. Mark Zuckerberg got rich super randomly I'm sure you will find 10000000 smarter people in Harvard, MIT and pretty much any Ivy League. Bill Gates is not my cup of tea but might be related to the fact that I do not care about money as I previously stated but that I care about ambition which is why no I'm not attracted to the guy you spoke about. I'm attracted to Leonardo Da Vinci, Archimedes and other man who had the hunger and the will of changing the world and who weren't only motivated by money. Hell even Elon Musk attracts me mentally because of HOW ambitious he is.

[hellionthesagereborn]

ambition is generally speaking the strong drive for wealth and power acquisition. Also Zuckerberg did not get rich randomly, he created a web site that people used, he gave them a service that they wanted (social media) and he created one that was preferable then others. Capitalism 101. I am aware that bill gates isn't your cup of tea, that was exactly why I pointed out he was in your list. I was pointing out that your list is based upon imaginary people that do not exist in the real world. That's why I provided examples of real life equivalents that completely contradict your claims. Also I would point out that ambition is rarely used in the service of good, and just because a man is ambitious does not mean he is intelligent or assertive (again Zuckerberg is ambitious that's why he kept control of his company for so long so he could be the one dictating how it worked who it affected, that's why he pushes for the things that he does, yet he is well him i. e. not what you described)

[hellionthesagereborn]

Find it hard to believe your attracted to archamedies as you have no idea what he looks like (he was brilliant though), and has been dead for what three thousand years? Also what of Stephen hawkings? he was ambitious and intelligent (well that's what people say anyway, I have more then a few issues with some of his ideas), is he alpha? the fact is their is a level of complexity in people that your view does not provide and as I said is based off of an overly romanticized view.

[Pejtu]

to be honest u saying some bullshit ;)
are u trying to make other guys insecure or what because i feel that u only made it annonymous , it shows that u probably only look for attention , and someone to shake their heads for yes

Now lets take these 2 things u said there

Confidence, and Powerfull = confidence is bullshit , u cannot be confident in everything that u haven't done before for example if

Confidence has nothing to do with anybody , everyone is a different person and meaby he just doesn't feel like talking to you or doing something that he is pressured to - it does not mean he is not confident or he is a puss , he just doesn't give a fuck about you , or simply does not want to do something

Powerfull , this is the stupidest argument i ever seen in my life , are u 18 y old with daddy issues xD?

Success does not mean u are confident or powerfull , it means u got lucky in your job or people u met in your life

Either u achieved it by urself ( probably not) because u can't be succesfull without having blood on your hands from other people that u climbed on
and believe me in this one or with somebody help - it doesn't mean u are powerfull because there is always someone more powerfull u probably dont even know

And remember fake it till you make it , you want this pussy - "sell her the dream that she wants to hear" and then pound her and stop talking to her , here is your alpha male ;)
Call me ;)

[myTake Owner]

I have a taste in man, I basically explain what it was, you think it’s bullshit? Good, it’s not supposed to be you or what you look for in a man or a woman or whatever. It’s what I look for in a man.
There’s a point about men with blood on their hands, the one with Thomas Shelby and one about judgement and MATURITY also with an illustration of Thomas Shelby.

What you described is being an asshole and I’m kind of into assholes but not those type of assholes.
I dated this type of guys for 5 years and it was a wonderful relationship, none of this bullshit.
We both worked together to build something together. No one had a big mouth or agendas, we both did what we had to do together to achieve what we wanted.
Now, guys write mytakes all the time about the type of girls they like and I would never hate on them for not being it, I couldn’t care less SO respect my freaking preferences.

[Pejtu]

Everybody has prefference true
But that was MY opinion about stuff u talk about because in most cases it is not true u just got lucky with ur "lottery ticket"
also if u feel offended by that well i dont give a F :)
Just shared an opinion how i see people that talk about this alpha fu... male stuff in the way you do

[Pejtu]

I have a taste in women also and i would never even touch you with a stick ;)

[Pejtu]

Anonnymous brave girl haha

[RationalMale]

Hmm most men aren't entirely Alpha or Beta, but a mixture of both set of traits, and yeah, they have their ups and downs.

The thing girls need to realize about the really really Alpha guys (I'm not talking about us guys with a decent confident streak, I'm talking about grade A alpha) is simple.

You're going to get cheated on. It's literally guaranteed. You can indeed get a guy with good confidence and strength and be okay--but when you want to go closer to peak Alpha (literally Don Draper or Oliver Queen or whoever your favorite example is) you're absolutely going to be cheated on. That's literally the female version of "I want to date a hot stripper and I'm sure she'll be loyal and faithful to me!" Or just think of your classmate who dated a ghetto black guy because he was so cool and alpha, and then think of how many times she was crying over getting cheated on

Or to put in a literal example... fat Donald Trump had this at home, but he was still out hooking up left and right and paying big checks to try to keep them silent!

[myTake Owner]

Well in my experience, I only got cheated on once (pretty sure of that too) but I know “regular” guys and women who also cheat. I’d say it depends on other things. Mainly values.

[RationalMale]

Mhmm yes. Step 1. "He's a really good honest guy, you just can't see it." step 2. "Of course he's just working late, his phone died and thats why he isn't texting. Step 3. "She's lying! They didn't fuck! And if they did she is a whore!"

[myTake Owner]

I have doubts, I ask, I don’t like his answer, I leave. I don’t care about the girl. Cheating is about trust not about jealousy.

[Anonymous]

Confident men are really attractive, someone who is themself and can speak up for themself and still show respect.

Powerful I don't necceserly care for. Ofcorse I want them to be independent but powerful is not something I need, personally.

Judging someone is bad but giving constructive critic is good. Because we all have done bad stuff but that's not an excuse.

Being ambitios about something they love is also attractive for me because I'm also that way and then they use their time. But sometimes you gotta take a break.

I want a man who dresses up the way he likes it bit classy is great for party, out on dinner or something like that. Its nothing I need tho.

I don't care what car he has it's not mine so he can have whatever he wants but I understand sitting in a car you like and getting a ride would feel Nice.

Yes They should only love you that way but show respect as long as people around them deserve it. And so should I and everyone else in relationships.

I have also been through shit and I also would like a guy who has been through stuff because we would connect on an emotional level more. But I could be with someone who hasn't been through anything too.

Sex i don't know I'm a virgin. But that's not something that I would Think would be that important because I'm demisexual and straight so I get turned on by the soul.

Speaking well and nice is great. Smart can be great too sometimes.

I would personally prefer someone who drinks healthy drinks and water instead of alchohol. Why do you think it's attractive to hurt their health?

Doing anything for their lover is nice but then you should do the same back.

[myTake Owner]

The question about health is very interesting and right now I’m a bit busy but I will reply it later :)

[3rdSrike]

As a guy i can assure you that the man you're looking around does not exist , a super sexy, motivated, tough rambo style guy who never takes no for an answer and is always advancing no matter what will never respect nor appreciate you... guys and girls who exhibit these qualities are often self centerd, somewhat of a jackases and dont see other people, even if you're in a relationship with them dont expect to get the love or satisfaction you want cause their mind and soul is always somewhere else and you're merely an asset to them nothing more nothing lesss (assuming you find yourself a guy like that ) .

2- the majority of "alpha" men with good "taste" , "style" and who drink the good "stuff" are either gangsters and part of criminal families (i can assure you that dating such a man means close to zero freedom ) or they are spoiled little brats who grew up in rich families and never had to work hard... guys like eminem are far and few inbetween and even when you find them they end up hurting you in the long run.

after all it is your life.

[Hypnos0929]

I think you're living in a fantasy world. The type of man you described are almost always going to become physically and or emotionally abusive and thats not Nice Guy talk. Some if those traits are warning signs, being dominant while dangerous are not good signs.
He'll tell you how much he's sinned to draw you in, hell show you kindness and make you depend on him then hell slowly cut you off from friends, family and more. His power and confidence will then keep you until you feel afraid then your fear will keep you in check.
Not all of the men you described will be like that but it's more likely to happen if they're like this.

[Hypnos0929]

Edit: I'm not saying you should settle for someone you don't love but it's easier to make a dog a guard than to make a lion a house pet.

[GreatnessBack]

or she can be a lioness.

[Hypnos0929]

@GreatnessBack
A lot of people think they can be a lion until they meet one. I've known dangerous men, and possessive ones too and they don't advertise themselves as such. I think this woman needs to be very careful

[GreatnessBack]

I know real dangerous men, and they wouldn't hurt their woman. You are talking about weakling punks who probably don't know how to take care of women.

in my opinion, a man should be dangerous to others to protect his home. He has no point having a woman if he can't.

[Hypnos0929]

@GreatnessBack
I think you're assuming to much about real men vs dangerous men. Dangerous men come in many forms but the one I'm talking about likes control. I most certainly agree these controlling men are "punks" but they are still dangerous non the less, whether they gain power from physical strength, social status or personality and actions doesn't matter.
These types of sociopaths (not to be mistaken with a psychopath), thrive on people believing they have control. Women are simply the easiest to target most of the time, and if a woman has an affinity for bad boys they're easier to control because they are more likely to relinquish control.

[JMghow]

Most are neither lions nor lambs, "Real" men or dangerous men. Most people and just dumb, short sighted, entitled and chasing superficial fantasies. At the end of the day, this can be far worse.

[myTake Owner]

The thing is I'm pretty fucked up myself and if I get with a nice guy, it would be bad for him so I'd rather have someone like me

[JMghow]

That's dumb. You're punishing yourself and cheating others of the opportunity just to avoid fixing yourself. You're young, so you won't get it... but once you have enough experience you'll realize their are enough problems in this world without you adding those you bring with you. Get yourself straightened out. Oh, and hurting fucked up people is still hurting people, so toxic nonetheless. Again, fix yourself and quit being codependent.

[myTake Owner]

@JMghow Do you know Baudelaire, the 19th century French poet? Look up his " spleen", it's a poem from "les fleurs du mal" that speaks about a state of mind which is close to the one I'm in.

[JMghow]

I hadn't heard of him, but I will look him up once I get home.

[AbdKilani]

I don't see this as an Alpha male !!
Some things here are really hmmm not that a trait of a man
A man that can drink a sour drink? like really I mean if a guy can drink piss does that make them Stronger?
The part of good at sex is mostly wrong and right , they are dominant by nature which sometimes means not pleasing their woman , correct me if I am wrong about this.
Look, I am a guy who never think there is such a thing as an Alpha male, cuz I won't let anyone pull some crap on me (as a male friend) , but I think you forgot many things that makes a true man
A leader by nature , a lover by heart , and compassionate when needed.

[myTake Owner]

Well as I said the sex part is arguable but I like it rough so that explains my preferences.
Leader by nature goes without saying and a lot of the things I mention are qualities you’ll find in a leader, « lover by heart » well I do mention the deep love part, « compassion » not sure whether you mean it towards me, because I don’t quite like that or towards charities, people in need... because that, on the other hand, matters to tremendously !

[AbdKilani]

So, as you can see, these are qualities of a real man, a normal real man who is deeply in love... Who would do anything for his woman.
I hope you meet the guy for you one day, just stop thinking about this "alpha male" thing, you might be surprised by a real man

[WitchsLove]

yeah @AbdKilani

[AbdKilani]

@WitchsLove thanks dear 🙏

[myTake Owner]

I don’t think there’s such a thing as “the guy for you” but thank you nevertheless 💕

[AbdKilani]

You are welcome dear
Can you pm me I want to know something there is like a bug, is your name some legal?

[myTake Owner]

Sure !

[AbdKilani]

Hahaha funny 😂

[lilaqua]

Isn’t this like a “good man” of course with little differences in personality. I think “alpha” is such a dumb concept and really explains nothing about human behaviour. If we can’t even apply this logic to an animal species how are we supposed to do it for something as complex as a human?

[myTake Owner]

Actually the whole logic came from animals. Wolves have alphas in their packs. They are basically the leaders

[x4v13r]

leaders usually have a crap personal life, it's amazing that any girl would want them at all.

[JMghow]

Find one. Your children will be that impossible combination of amazing and imaginary.

"Heroes don't look like me, not in the real world. In the real world they got bad teeth, a bald spot and a beer gut. I'm just an actor with a gun, who's lost his motivation. Be seein' ya."
- Bruce Baxter

[myTake Owner]

I don't want kids :)

[JMghow]

Hey, can't judge you there... Well, I could, but it would be insanely hypocritical, so I won't. That said, kids weren't really my point.

[myTake Owner]

That's actually related to your point because everyone assumes I want the long term thing, 9 to 5 family life and therefore go like "If you get an alpha you cannot have that."
I live in a whole other continent than the one I got raised in and do not want kids or a regular job. I travel a lot and I'm already too busy for relationships. I'm just more attracted to this type of guy and it's convenient since I'm not looking for a marriage.

[JMghow]

Well, at the end of the day, you get what you make for yourself. Nothing more, nothing less.

[myTake Owner]

Precisely ! I hope to learn as much as possible about the world, cultures, art, science, history... and even though I have a hard time understanding why people would want the family life, I think it's perfectly fine to have different life purposes.

[Browneye57]

Well duh. 80% of women are chasing the top 15% of guys. The rest of everybody else is standing on the sidelines, waiting for an opportunity.

Women are drawn to looks, power/money, and confidence. And why I tell the guys to hit the gym, HARD, and make a ton of dough. They'll have all the pussy they can handle.

[Youngin392]

What if you can’t hit the gym. What are some alternatives to getting shredded.
I can not lift heavy weights, I can’t do sit ups.

No heavy weights really limit me 🤦🏾‍♂️ to what I can do to workout

[WalterRadio]

@Youngin392
Just become rich.

[Browneye57]

@Youngin392 - You're physically disabled? Can you walk? Are you fit? Can you improve your looks?
But yeah, WalterRadio has the right idea - money attracts women like flies to honey. And rightly so - they want to know that you can support them and the 84 children they want to have with you. No woman wants a deadbeat. Seriously.

[JMghow]

Fuck that. Go monk, live life for yourself, skip divorce settlements, alimony and custody entirely. We are people, not disposable utilities, and sex is just glorified masturbation with limited access and more mucus. That said, nothing wrong with hitting the gym and making money for yourself, just don't think a slimy meat hole with extra herps should rule our lives and destinies.

[myTake Owner]

I'd add intellect and take off the "muscles" aspect of looks. I love a good looking man the same way everybody loves good looking people but muscles don't do it for me, all I can think about when I see a muscular guy is that he cares too much about his looks and that it probably hides a huge lack of confidence. I like strong men but like men who boxe, hike and stuff like this without the steroids look. And I cannot date someone who doesn't have minimal knowledge about some stuff but then again I'm a history and business major so might be related to that.

[Browneye57]

Geesh... a bunch of clueless noobs. Next asker will say she likes dad-bods. Oh well. LOL

[myTake Owner]

I genuinely dislike big muscles though except on guys with wide shoulders and even then I can’t help but think, “not confident probably self absorbed and most liked not the brightest” I have very muscular friends so I know those preconceptions aren’t even real but STILL can’t help but think that.

[WalterRadio]

You described me perfectly.

One girl I dated for a while said she liked that "You can make anything happen!" Another said, "I didn't know people like you really existed, but you do!".

I will note that nowhere in your write up did you say anything about looks or physique. That is a difference common between immature girls and mature women (regardless of age). The latter recognize what is important and immutable.

[myTake Owner]

Charisma, values and class over looks any day !
That’s amazing ! I hope you enjoyed reading it. 😘

[CherryRoseChampange]

I think Alpha male and etc is so over used and annoying now it's just as cringey as the word "Daddy" to me when other people say it. I think Alpha make stuff is no offense, but stupid just like Astrology

[Celtero]

Boys, never listen to women, and especially girls, on what makes a good or strong man.

Because a real man decides for himself, and if women don't like it, they can take a hike.

[myTake Owner]

You just have an inferiority complex. Which a “real” man doesn’t have because he’s confident enough not to.

[SketchForger]

You reply is very ironic, since your usage of the phrase "inferiority complex" is improper.
Especially considering what you said would mean he doubts and hates himself, while he is promoting self love rather than choosing to listen to your template.

Also if he wasn't confident, he would have posted anonymously... Like a certain person on this myTake.

[Celtero]

@SketchForger Hehe... if anything I've got a superiority complex when I'm on GaG.

And don't get me wrong Author, you're right that what you described is conventional male alpha-ness. But I think the world has enough of those douches who in the end don't contribute much. They live life fast then they crash and burn hard.

Much better when a guy respects himself while also being who he wants to be, rather than being who he thinks women are attracted to.

[octopusrebellion]

Well of course. Might as well set your sights high. Contrary to other posters out there - yes, these guys do exist. I've worked with entrepreneurs for decades. That lifestyle is NOT everyone's cup of tea though - it's not a very big pool to draw from though.

[Royalsarcasist]

Alpha males are usually douchbags and honestly a real alpha male doesn’t need to prove himself to anyone. I don’t really like the term. People are people men are men.

[krogaan]

good luck try to find a alpha probably getting roasted buy today laws any type of manliness gets crushed i only see gays, beta males, asexual males, mgtow, and so on never seen a alpha male in my life and am very observant of the environment around me if there is alphas there all taken buy now what's left is beta males the type that stare at girl but never approach them or want the girls to go up to them

[JMghow]

MGTOW shout out!

[myTake Owner]

I would never mind the type of guys you mentioned, they just aren't my favorite. That aside, alphas are getting rarer with time

[JMghow]

Of course! Alphas want to be recognized and admired, they feed off of it... not a lot of room for being admired when you're constantly having to "check your privilege" and being told anything you did was the result of your gender and/or race which is patriarchally oppressing others... That's why it's better to be Omega: You don't need them to do you for you, and that is a very necessary strength in this day and age.

[Rangers]

All I saw was stereotypes romanticized by movies and meme makers that wrote stuff because they had nothing better to do, which is fine. I can tell you've never been in a relationship, which is also fine, but in which case, don't write stuff about dating when you haven't been in a relationship. Since you're bored, I'd suggest going longboarding, it's easy to learn and is very fun. It's also good to go outside as well.

[myTake Owner]

Ouh making assumptions. I’ve been in 3 long term relationships. Two of the guys were alpha men. The first ended because he hooked up with a girl while drunk
after 5 years together, I have an issue with cheating so I had to go even though it was one time, he came clean to me and apologized a lot. The second one ended because after about 1 year together he got signed in a company in Italy and we maintained the long year relationship thing for a second year and a half. ( we did fly to see each other) but then I couldn’t stand the long relationship anymore. The last one was a regular guy and that’s basically why we broke up, we didn’t get along at all besides a few common interests. You want further proof I can follow you and send you proof privately

[Rangers]

You don't have to prove anything to me, I'm requesting that you open things up a bit because pursuing similar people that you've pursued in the past are unlikely to bring new things to fill the gaps.

[Alicepickford]

I feel very lucky and blessed that drlawrencespelltemple @ hotmail. com was able to turn my marriage around with his powerful spell. My husband used to spend as much time as he could away from home with other women. Since he cast the love spell on him, My husband is now so in love with me and committed to our marriage than before. its so funny that my husband had not go out for weeks now!" [phone]

[lifelearner011]

Was fun to read. Yet I find "understated" men are very powerful and strong as well.
Maybe its just me, yet I find very powerful when men have an attitude of doing their things in a confident yet humble way.

[myTake Owner]

Strength comes in a lot of different forms ! Maybe you should make a Mytake about what it means to you, I would love to read it !

[x4v13r]

there's a disconnect between what women think an alpha man is and what he really is. women see it basically like you do, a guy that is best at everything. in reality, that doesn't exist. this is why so many women are miserably single. they have such high expectations of a man that they will never find him. they are often just average women that end up getting used and hating men as a result.