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When asked if they’d marry their partner they go... no way!
Completely agree. None of these are attractive qualities.
"Call women "females" or a different 'species' right before flattering us."
If this is a consistent thing in your life, then it's probably because women are doing something to make themselves seem foreign.
I can see why you might think that, except it's not consistent in my life. It's more so something that only these types of guys teach themselves, MAYBE because they don't interact with women, or men either, that much.
Some of these are legit. But I have a problem with number 3. “Showing aggression to other men to assert dominance”
Women are turned on by those guys. Even if it’s false confidence they like it.
Lol no we dont. Only when its relevant, it all depends on context. If some guy was a general twat and was being aggressive then it would be attractive in that situation. Or if some guy was being creepy and then you warn him off. All good.
Genuinely trying to act tough though... yeah that makes you look weak and like you have issues with self control. I've noticed shorter men usually act more aggressive (obviously not all short men before some guys out there come at me).
Thank you for your honest + non-rude opinion :)
I'll have to disagree, you're referring to a certain type of girl, but not all (not even the majority) of women find it attractive (just like this mytake isn't referring to all guys, just a certain type/some). We actually laugh at a guy swoops in and starts aggressively white-knighting & being pointlessly completely rude to guys we're friends with or chatting to. It's completely bewildering and ridiculous to witness, and whether to the face or behind their back; the girls are either cringing or laughing at them. Don't respect others and they won't respect you, see?
Agree to disagree, but thank you for your opinion~
I’ve just witnessed this happen several times. But I’m glad you don’t like white knights
@anniisa I definitely agree, context matters so much.
However, I don't agree with the short men usually being that way. It's most likely an unfortunate coincidence. I say this as my kind-hearted partner is shorter than myself, and I have plenty of shorter friends who are just fine :) But damn, it must've been irritating witnessing so much aggression I'm general, rightt?
Ahh that must be frustrating @sonnysunshine. I can't say much but hope you encounter better chicks. Thank you✌️
Well my girlfriend is a better chic for sure. Very considerate and she listens to my POV (and vice versa). She’s much younger than me too, 26.
Anyway I just got some bad memories of seeing girls fall for this bullshit when I was younger. I also hate seeing well meaning decent young guys get screwed over. Being a douche pays you with pussy (lewd but I don’t know how else to say it) when you are teen up to mid 20s... sometimes older.
How do I know? Because if these guys were really turning off girls and getting laughed/smirked at they would just quit doing what they are doing. Seriously if they never got laid being an ass they would quit. But it works for them.
I prefer short men to tall men. Just because I'm only 5'2 and I dont like feeling like a child next to my partner Haha.
But in my experience the ones who get angry and defensive quickly have also always been short. Especially the ones who show anger towards women. (Nothing too dramatic, just the attitude, and piss taking here and there)
@anniisa did you see that video of that loud very short guy in the NY bagel shop yesterday? He’s going off on a melt down about women not wanting him. It turns out he also lives in a van and has been disruptive in the past. Maybe you can date him. ;). Jk jk.
Yeah short guys are usually more aggressive and loud. They have to be.
I personally like petite chics (although my girlfriend is 5’10’’ and I’m 6ft). But my girlfriend is so cool in other ways I don’t care.
But petite chics are fun to toss around in bed, cute, etc. I should be able to say that would being judged for being something I’m not.
by the way I too am getting real sick of the “alpha vs beta” label that gets thrown around. We aren’t animals. We are not wolves. Plus the wolf study was actually discounted later by the same researcher. But at that point it was too late.
With that said their is a grain of truth of the concept. But people are just too complicated for that.
Nope I can't say I have. I'm already in a relationship thanks I dont need anyone else 😂
Yeah my boyfriend's 5'11- that's the tallest I'll ever go. And yeah I've heard 6ft+ men say this quite often about throwing around petite women in the bedroom and all.
@sonnysunshine Really happy you have a good relationship, firstly👍😁
But I'm begging you not to think that way😅 You're better than that, just look at your girlfriend, she's way different, right? There's many women who aren't attracted to that shit. Your words resemble things asses on The/NiceGuys say (if you don't know this, look it up on YouTube if you don't like Reddit format). Try steer away from that mindset now that you have a hopefully lovely relationship :)
Well I got some other things going for me. I’m tall (ish), got blue eyes, I’m athletic and got a decent career. Although I’m introverted I did inherit some of my dads sense of humor.
Those things helped me get some girly action when I was younger. Also helped me land a decent girlfriend. But for those other “nice guys” who are ventilating I’m here. I know EXACTLY where they are coming. Precisely. And they aren’t wrong. They have to work on improving themselves but they are at a big disadvantage.
*ventilating on here
Highly disagree, they're known as wrong by the majority of men & women for a good few reasons, aren't they?
But I'm sidetracking now~ honestly wish you all the best
Well just hear these guys out okay? Listen to the details of their stories. Some of them really are hateful incels but many are decent guys who got jaded but being burned too many times.
They're not decent when they end with the way they do. For the record, same goes with r/NiceGirls.
+For reference, I check out SorrowTV & Cuestar YouTube compilation vids of r/NiceGuys
Yeah, being yourself would work right? yeah females love that right? if that's the case why am I single then? I don't act like nothing you said here yet my ass is still single, so how do act to get a girlfriend huh?
Do you go out & meet a lot of people, join social groups, go to events, etc? Maybe that's a good start :)
Yeah I have, especially in college, No one likes me at all, I don't even have one friend in my 4 years of college and I've been through the whole introduce and join a group routine like other students have
How can you join a group while simultaneously not having a friend? It's not a "done it once, didn't work" thing. If you're struggling with making friends, let alone meeting a woman, there's other factors at work there.
Yeah whatever thanks for the advice I guess
Wish you all the best man
All women are females.
F E M A L E. F E M A L E. F E M A L E.
Deal with it.
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Okay😂
Number five is dumb but I like the take in general.
Fair enough, what don't you like about 5? :)
I don't like number 5 either. I mean okay, you don't just run up to 10 girls, and see who'll go on a date, but you can find great people to date everywhere. You don't have to be working together (bad idea anyway), or be in the same class, or some kind of sport club, or any social group to be allowed to talk to and date others.
It would be stupid to narrow your chances down that much of finding a good partner.
@ElvenMr oh I didn't mean it that way, you can of course meet people even that way. But majority of the time, it won't lead to long-lasting or compatible relationships. The most successful relationships tend to be people you already know like at least one little bit in a particular setting, but you actually liked them for who they are, you see which girl ends up doing shit you don't like so you don't pursue them, etc. When you're shopping on the streets you solely have looks to go by, and many of them can be incompatible, taken, not interested, doesn't like handing numbers to strangers, girls who just wanna play but not take you seriously, girls who already have 10 others guys numbers, girls who may be interested but don't end up liking your personality. I think if you ask some long-lasting couples (2-5+ years, you'll see they didn't start on the streets randomly). That's all I meant~
By all means, do so if you want to, but don't expect the best results & feel sad or hatred of yourself or hatred of women, cause there's far better ways & better reflections of people in more natural settings.
I'm sure there are other guys who don't do any of these at all,... and we are still not going to be attractive to you ladies considering some of us are not your type.
Women are not just one person who have one type. Lots of guys would always complain that no short guy is gonna be able to have a girlfriend, no matter his personality, but it's simply not true. I myself am living proof of that, there's all these women with all these types. You just haven't encountered enough women in more natural settings, go out, have fun, socialise more with friend groups, aquaintences, parties with plus ones, etc. You'll get there :)
I've done that,... nothing happens.
It's not a "I've done that once, didn't work". You're missing the point.
I didn't say "I've done that once". I said "I've done that"... and that was many times.
You're saying you've done it in the past tense though. I think the misconception here that people want love, but they try to get it through specific tricks and games. You socialise and you meet someone you confirm isn't crazy, asshole, bitch, slutty, IS your type, DOES like you back & then you two naturally begin intimacy or flirtations. You don't go to socialise just to find a girl to set up love with. It's just not how it works. Nothing happened yet? Great, but it's not the end😂
1. I STILL got your point...
2. ... still nothing.
Your number 2 contradicts 1, but okay~ all the best x
Wait until you get older in life,... you'll understand.
I'm in my twenty's and in a long-term & healthy relationship, I'm just fine, thank you.
Well consider yourself one of the great, fortunate, lucky ones in life. Not everyone has a great, beautiful, blossoming relationship in life like you do. Even if you offer a guided suggestion in life to other people on how to meet someone like the way you described,... believe it or not, it's not always going to work out that way.
Oh no, definitely not, I never wrote this take because I thought it was 100% factual or was gonna help everyone. I just thought I'd throw in some suggestions of what's not great for the most part. Suggestions aren't to be taken so factually or for everyone. If it doesn't work for you, then that's that. I don't claim it to, it's a take for anyone who might WANT to hear and give stuff a go, not to change those who don't.
I have a good relationship, thank gosh, but I'm not in the minority there, I've seen some fairly good couples😊
(as well as bad couples.)
This. So much this. Thank you for this take.
Awww no worries!!
Good take!. Well said.
Thank you! :)
LOL!! we can't call you females now? Good lord I would disregard a woman for saying some BS like that.
Read the whole point, don't just take 3 words out of context.
Oh no I did not take anything our of context. You clear stated for #2
"2. Call women "females" or a different "species" right before flattering us. Putting us on a higher pedestal isn't right, nor does anyone like a suck-up. It's more so creepy and confusing as we normally don't think of segregating ourselves from you."
How the heck is that taking it out of context? It is not. AGAIN, you clearly point out calling you females before flattering you is somehow bad? What word next will we be banning because of femnazi?
Yes, thank you for copy and pasting what I wrote, well done. Now try to understand it. Is it a word I'm talking about or is it the intention when using a word in certain way what I'm talking about?
Anyone can sound like a feminazi with this sort of misinterpretation & the lack of context.
Maybe next time, you could elaborate better instead of being vague or maybe you could just admit calling women females before anything is not wrong, it's just snowflake generation being snowflakes.
Or... you could've read the description that the majority of person understood?
Oh yeah, snowflake generation. Which gen got triggered over a misunderstanding & used the term "snowflake"? Your anonymous age ain't fooling no one.
You make no sense. Literally, I read your description. Reacting to a post isn't being triggered. It is responding to something I cannot grasp even when you try to explain your "point" multiple times. No matter how you try to word it, taking into context your description and your title, there is no way that word is bad.
To make it simpler and to end this since you cannot even rationalize, it is like me saying, hey, before flattering me, call me a male and I'm offended.
Jesus. It's not the word. We've been over this.
You can be triggered in reaction, and that's what you did. You jumped to conclusions and called me a feminazi and a snowflake whilst acknowledging you don't understand what was trying to be said. Even my whole generation, even though the generation you're insulting IS the generation that created the term "snowflake" (so your usage of it is ironic).
The closest you came to making a valid point was bringing up elaboration, but even that is to difficult for you to ask kindly.
You thought I was a feminazi, fine, I get it. But I'm not, I'm telling you again, you've only misunderstood the meaning. So the next time you insult me - after being told - is the last time you'll be "reacting". Be civil & I'll elaborate for you civilly back. Like two proper human beings. If you don't care enough, that's fine with me too.
Putting words in my word at the end about acknowledging I didn't understand what you said about the "female" word. I never said that, end of conversation.
"you could elaborate better instead of being vague" - This implies you didn't actually fully grasp what I was saying, blaming it on my vagueness. I'm sorry your words contradict yourself. But if you like to withdraw that; noted.
Wooooow, you said "end of conversation", so it must be😂 lmao. Let's see if you're a man of your words at least (I'mma bet no due to that contradiction of words earlier).
this is just the pot calling the kettle black. men can never be as pretentious as women are. everyday i see all these girls who try to look and sound slutty so they can draw men to themselves. this is just something that people do in general. and if these things that guys do are so unattractive then how come the guys who do them get laid. especially number 4. other girls must think differently
Firstly, "men can never be as pretentious as women are" with your following reasoning is very ironic considering in my post I'm only referring to the guys who behave this way, whereas you're implying no woman is better than any man, in regards to pretentiousness. If crediting every member of your sex, irregardless of individuality, of being more superior to raise your own value/significance isn't pretentious, then I don't know what is.
Also, because of this statement: "and if these things that guys do are so unattractive then how come the guys who do them get laid", I think you need to take a look at the r/incel & r/NiceGuys forum, man. It'll show you damn well that no decent MAN nor decent woman thinks highly of such people.
In hindsight, I think I should've added "thinks men are better than women" to this list. But I guess that was too obvious of a point, and achieves the same level of disgust as those women who think they are better than all men to warrant its own separate list of "delusional people".
i don't care how you take my words. i never said men are better than women i just meant to say it's ignorant to blame men for something we all do. i don't understand why you're referring me to incel forums. those are the people who can't get laid so how can they know if these methods work or not. and it's funny how you compare me to those superficial guys that you hate so much when you don't know me at all. and yes i still say men can never be as pretentious as women meaning that women are so much better at pretending to be what they're not. the whole idea of using make up is based on that female trait. also men are new to this while women have done this for a long time. i don't know what kind of guys you've run into, all i can say is that similar people are usually drawn to each other. again i never said who's better than whom i just think we should all take a look at our own flaws and once we've accepted how imperfect we are, we can accept other's flaws as well. i assume that's something you haven't done yet
Talk about "how you take my words"😂 Never did I call you an incel, no need to be over-sensitive. Another look & maybe you would've understood that I meant nobody that's decent actually would get laid with the people in question (and as a source of proof, I provided you a suggestion to look at r/incels and r/NiceGuys for reactions of those people posting shitty guys' actions and responses. Mind you, r/NiceGirls also exists for women with those shitty characteristics).
So you said, and I quote "men can never be as pretentious as women are". This does NOT mean what you're justifying it to mean in your most recent reply. This English sentence means that men are never more pretentious than women are, and never did I even say men were. You took a look at this my take and for some reason came to the assumption that you needed to point out to me men are more pretentious. Where? Where in my MyTake do I say or even imply that? I addressed a particular type of people to take a second look at that actions. Not you (I hope not), not all men, just the guys with the above. Women too have equivalent shitty characteristics. I personally, as a woman, attract only men, so I cannot compile a list like this for women. How about you go ahead and make a list of what women do that's not attractive, advise them on why, paste the link here; and you know what? I'll give it a like, and most likely agree. So you can stop 'assuming' shit about me when you so wholeheartedly went off at me for allegedly making an assumption about knowing you. Hypocrisy never wins.
Oh God your comment... Are you really gonna say "again i never said who's better than whom" when you had a couple sentences before said: "and yes i still say men can never be as pretentious as women meaning that women are so much better at pretending to be what they're not"? BUDDY😂 I was taking you seriously before that.
Contradicting yourself:
1. IDC how you take my words
2. yes I can say who's better
3. Never said who's better
Um..
this is starting to sound like an old couple's quarrel rather than a serious discussion. i was expecting to be disagreed with in terms of the points i made not my writing skills and my paradoxical statements. so have a nice day
Contradicting statements in any discussion are crucial to be pointed out and rebutted against, but I respect you not wanting to fight. I hope you have a good day too :)
Don’t forget the “men” who claim to be Nice Guys, but aren’t actually nice at all.
Yeah! That's one source of inspiration for this MyTake
You're confusing "nice guys" and pretend tough guys with the rest of us
I certainly am not, I know the majority of people are not like this, thank fuck. This is just for the minority (but still many) people who are this way. No guys in my social circles do this because guys like this tend to find trouble in finding solid groups of people to get along with unless they think like them.
Nowhere in this take do I say, imply or even think that this is a reflection of men.
Good job I never accused you of that then. Those points you listed off are the bread and butter of nice guys, it's just how it is.
You said I'm confusing those guys with the rest of guys. But I never did. I referred to some men, and yes, they're still some men despite being nice guys, wannabes, incels, guys who just are inexperienced, etc.
I don’t care what women find unattractive you women are backwards as fuck and superficial and hypocrites the dumbest thing a man could do is take woman advice on woman
How many of these applied to you, buddy? I'm not trying to insult these guys, I'm just telling the blunt truth to help. A few looks at Reddit will also tell you this isn't merely just a woman's advice, no decent man tolerates majority of this either.
Now the incels are gonna attack you.
😂😂 Yep, I found one!
Although so far, there's been responses from mostly smart and respectable guys, even if they disagree a little here or there, so👍
Yeah I saw! It's refreshing to see nice men on here 😂 it's such a rarity.
Fortunately it's not a rarity for me, I meet majority of great guys :) The off ones just lurk on the internet and make their really presence really loud on it
I'm so glad to hear! Yeah that's true :)
Out of all of these, only like maybe 1 or 2 of these things are stuff that incels do.
No, I'd say the majority, except for the gym pictures. I've seen incels do most of these
Wow, maybe girls should worry about all the unattractive things they do. We are a lot worse than guys. The guys aren't the ones showing skin on Instagram or wearing barely there clothing.
Maybe you shouldn't take everything as an attack to a whole gender, only to attack the other gender as an unjustified defense🤔
The truth hurts does it?
Clearly a lack of self-awareness doesn't. Good for you, bliss.
You know what is a beta for? Reading your works to publish. 😂
What a beta is for*. Pardon
Sorry, I'm confused about what you mean.
Beta.
Oh, Jesus. You don't write.
Why the fuck are you posting?
No, I saw that word, genius😂 I'm saying your grammar isn't amazing up there, and there's no correlation between a publisher and a beta, so I have no idea what you're on about.
Yet all the girls I've met like all the things youve mentioned a guy of this type does. You only say it online to make yourself look good and sit anonymously in the comfort of your own bedroom.
If all the girls you know like this, that says a lot about you & the type of women you particularly are around.
I say it anonymously because a bunch of incels have stalked my Facebook before & hit me up, in incidents such as this. They like to hit on me even if I'm in a relationship & then say I'm just like all other women for rejecting them. Figures aye~
If it makes a difference, I dont care for those guys either.. They all can take a flying leap!