What it's Like to be an Attractive Man

[ChefCurry]

Let me tell you as a sexy man, life is not as easy as you think. Just because you're attractive it doesn't mean life is a cake walk. We beautiful people deal with all types of problems that most people won't encounter. Like having so many women throwing themselves at us. And it's not like I dont enjoy the attention, but I only have so much energy and love to give. So breaking hearts is something that's never easy to do.

Also people think you're stupid because you're good looking. And it's like yeah I'm not very smart, but when you're attractive you really dont have to be. People easily overlook your mistakes and are often easily forgiven. I mean comon, how can you stay angry at a cute face?

Then there's jealousy. People put beautiful people, as myself, on a pedestal. So people are easily envious of you, and treat you as a threat. It's a lonely life when everyone is constantly looking for ways to bring you down a notch. If only people knew how we beautiful felt, they wouldn't be so hateful. They'd know we bleed, cry(I dont cry) and feel just like they do.

It's not easy being beautiful. Sometimes I wish I was just like you, average looking without all the drama that comes from being good looking.

[R_Cakes91]

Have you ever tried to become more than a “beautiful person?” Like, read a book or get an education. It might be different if you gave yourself more credit than your looks.

[ChefCurry]

I dont think my character arc allows that.

[R_Cakes91]

Hey, the only person standing in your way is you.

[ChefCurry]

And destiny

[R_Cakes91]

Well, good luck to ya

[ChefCurry]

Do you really believe we can avoid our fate? Or is that something you dont believe in?

[R_Cakes91]

I don’t know about you but I make my own fate and destiny. I go after what I want and never look back on what I was supposed to be.

[ChefCurry]

That's a hard thing to believe. We humans are creatures of habit.

[ChefCurry]

And we all have our bad habits.

[R_Cakes91]

That’s the point. It’s when you break that habit when you become a supernatural human. In other words, legends are those who broke away from that cycle. It sounds like you want that for yourself. If you ever want to talk about it just message me.

[ChefCurry]

I'm not arrogant enough to believe I'm legendary. Or supernatural

[R_Cakes91]

Haha that’s not what I’m saying. I just mean that is as supernatural as us humans get. Once you get out of your comfort zone, the world is your oyster.

[ChefCurry]

I've never lived in a comfort zone.

[ChefCurry]

I'm constantly changing

[R_Cakes91]

In my experience, believe that I am tied to some fate and destiny (besides health) is the definition of a comfort zone.

[ChefCurry]

Maybe.

[ChefCurry]

We are predestined to be flawed, and have negative traits.

[R_Cakes91]

Flaws and negative traits are human nature and also an objective perspective

[ChefCurry]

Many negative traits aren't very objective, in fact some are clearly harmful. We all have them, because we are naturally flawed.
To say why can't you change? Is a bigoted statement. I'm only human.

[R_Cakes91]

I’m not talking about abuse and such. I’m just talking about the traits that stand in your way of being what you wish you could be.

[ChefCurry]

Well I hope my fate allows me to conquer those traits.

[YoungBuII]

NIGGA YOU ARE FUCKING AVERAGE AT BEST 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤷‍♂️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[ChefCurry]

You wish you were good looking.

[Anonymous]

Still not as fun or easy as being an attractive female.

[ChefCurry]

I'd say it's more fun. A good looking guy can make it anywhere. I was able to land a cooking job that people have to go to culinary school for and was trained under a chef. I get opportunities like that everywhere I go.

[Opinion Owner]

Having life handed to you simply for existing and never having to work for anything you have or take responsibility for your words and actions, is more fun than being an attractive male and still having the responsibilities of all men.

1st of all... and this is a harsh truth you need to hear...
You look like a baboons ass with greasy hair.
When they say good looking... they mean


2nd... A hot female could have had that job over you in a heartbeat.

[ChefCurry]

No they couldn't. Also that's just a good looking dude. You won't see him in any movies. I have a different type of beauty.

[Flower7]

Interesting perspective. Do you have a girlfriend or are you single? I'm just asking because I've heard that a lot of people are intimidated when they see someone attractive and they're too afraid to approach them, or think they're out of their league. I'm wondering if you have that problem.

[ChefCurry]

Women are incredibly insecure around me. So yes.

[Flower7]

So you're having trouble finding someone? Do women turn you down when you ask them out?

[ChefCurry]

Everyone gets turned down.

[smølf]

When someone "as a sexy man" and "We beautiful people" I'll say they are so full of themselves. Regardless of it being true or not, this is an inappropriate way of behaving, self-indulgence attitude that is most certainly not beautiful.

[Cuppo_Mode]

No one will ever know, expect of course, Keano Reeves

[ChefCurry]

You're 13. Get off GaG

[Cuppo_Mode]

If the app allows me to be on here then I should be allowed on here bish, you get off GaG
... Wait... Gag? Oh my frekin god...
The short name for this is Gag, yeh big brain time

[Anonymous]

U need to get your head out of your ass because your not beautiful.

[lucazafer]

This guy, this guy , this guy

[ChefCurry]

Calm down

[AceXxMace]

... Intelligence -20 🤨😂

[ChefCurry]

Most my character points went into charisma.

[AceXxMace]

I love the response. 😂🤣 The witty kids always flunked and had hoes. The unlucky ones became drug addicts though. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[ChefCurry]

Yes. That actually sounds like my story. Lots of people I knew in high school became drug addicts. That was surprisingly spot on.

[AceXxMace]

It's sad because it IS our society. Currently living in it is sickening but the world is ever changing. I guess people became lazy after the most progressive times in human history.

[ChefCurry]

Its just the culture on here. Not many are willing to fight the status quo

[AceXxMace]

There's a big unspoken population of these druggys and lowlifes feeding on others in life. "The Unaccountables." Here's a thought, make yourself better and your world better. Wether it's unintentional they're hooked or have mental issues from PTS/ something of that variety, there's no excuse to not want your life to be better. If it's not your God (I'm an atheist) that compels you to try harder, it's gotta be goals of grander things. Maybe not Bill Gates status but comfortably wealthy. Another issue is all the politics in the U. S but we won't get into that. Be beneficial to your people and world. End of story.

[ChefCurry]

I barely associate myself with them. And when I do only bad things happen. Their world does have a sense of thrill with it. Its certainly a hard life.

[AceXxMace]

There is a big thrill in burping the bottle when making meth. 😂 I never involve myself with those people because legally and morally, I try to be a good citizen. Work hard for what you want. Not steal your neighbor's T. V for crack.

[ChefCurry]

They dont do those kind of things. At least not anymore.

[AceXxMace]

Sorry, stealing copper wire. The point is, what the human race has come down to is completely, and utterly pathetic. And I'm glad I'm a part of it.

[Anonymous]

Um... uh... er... well, never mind.

[ChefCurry]

Say it boy.

[GamerGirlPeeDrinker]

Kek fuck real pussy dont need that

[ChefCurry]

English mfer

[CarpetDenim]

Interesting

[ChefCurry]

Did you like it?

[CarpetDenim]

Sure

[ChefCurry]

What did you like about it?

[CarpetDenim]

The puppy

[ChefCurry]

Is the puppy cute?

[CarpetDenim]

Yeah

[ChefCurry]

Could you easily forgive the puppy?

[lofii]

Interesting

[BronzedAdonis]

You’re gorgeous

[Joker_]

Interesting

[Joker_]

@Degenerate

[Degenerate]

Lol I ain't reading all that shit nigga

[Joker_]

I didn't either. Just link it to ChefPapi the next time he mentions how you manipulated that girl from the UK with your incessant talk of suicide

[Degenerate]

Lol ok

[Joker_]

yeah lol

[Joker_]

@ChefPapiChulo

[Degenerate]

Lol he killed himself