What I, as a classy female, find attractive in men


I'm not going to tell you how you have to live your life, just how you should.


What I, as a classy female, find attractive.


1) Dress up even without reason. It is so attractive when a guy is dressed classy. Doesn't even have to be a full suit, just always look your best. When going casual, I always find a plain v neck (not too deep) very attractive.

What I, as a classy female, find attractive in men


2) Shave the beard, and cut your hair


Look I get it, shaving is such a pain, but would you really rather trade shaving your face for having to shave EVERYTHING. I didn't think so. SOME of you men can pull off facial hair though even then it is best to keep it trimmed short and classy looking, and this only works for men who can grow a full beard. I'm sorry, but if it looks like pubic hairs are just randomly growing in all directions from random splotches, it's just gross.


What I, as a classy female, find attractive in men


As far as the top of the head goes, keep it short too. You hair has to look clean and well kept. If you are willing to put in the extra work every morning to style it neatly then feel free to let it grow a little longer, but if you are a "wake up and wear it" kind of guy, its your best bet to let it be as short as possible.



3) Be confident


Look here's the deal. I hate when I have to constantly be the one taking charge at every place we go to. If you want something at a restaurant, I don't want to have to be the one to get it for you. Or if you forgot your phone at a store, I don't want to have to ask the store clerk for you if anyone has turned it in. I can do these things, and it's not that I don't want to do things for you. It's just that, after a while, I wish my knight would step up and take charge.


What I, as a classy female, find attractive in men


So when I meet someone who is timid, I immediately view that relationship (either friendship or more) as a lot more work. Someone I will have to put a lot of energy into as opposed to having that energy reciprocated. Which is draining.


4) I'm going to wrap the rest of barney lessons up into one:


a) Be happy, just be happy whether you are happy or not.


b) Have a sense of humor and just go with the flow.


c) Be creative, not everyone thinks to make the ring bearer, a bear, or to lick the liberty bell. Just be an interesting person in whatever you do.


d) Be supportive. If someone says off hand "We should buy a bar." Your response should always be a very excited "We should buy a bar!"


e) Remember that your bros make you who you are, never forget or leave them behind.


What I, as a classy female, find attractive in men



5) Don't be a Barney Stinson. Treat women with respect. Be chivalrous, open doors, even for women you are not romantically interested in. Treat all women and with respect and the woman you like will take notice. I promise.

What I, as a classy female, find attractive in men



And that goes for all living things as well, not just women. Be friendly to everyone. Be loving to all people things. Nothing will turn a girls eye on you more than you playing with a puppy or even better a kid like a niece or a nephew.


What I, as a classy female, find attractive in men
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