Except for the hygiene thing and straight posture I am screwed I will leave the girl but not super hero Tshirts 😂
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lol @ keys to attract women: brush your teeth, stand up straight, don't wear kids clothes. honestly a 12 year old could have came up with better advice.
Like it seems impossible to go from strangers to sleeping together. I feel like some men got it and some dont and i obviously dont. I hav zero confidence i could “seal the deal” with any attractive women
If you shell out money on a date you are paying for a "maybe". If you get a prostitute you are shelling out money on a "definitely". Get rid of the virginity. It is a handicap for men. The better you are rid of it the better.
@joeblow123 That's a lie about the virginity. Plus, much higher risk of STDs with prostitutes. Most girls do not mind virgin men, because they have not picked up or solidified bad habits from having sex with other women. The hottest sex I ever had was with a guy I met just to take his virginity. Turned into a long term, extremely hot and steamy sexual relationship. It was because he learned perfectly how to please my body.
He was 25. Start with going onto dating apps and work on romancing girls into dates. That will get you most of the way into their panties. Start with insecure girls who might be a little desperate, spoil them a bit, go home with them, cuddle, movie, a little kiss and rub here and there gradually. Even if they say no, eventually you'll get a yes or a sexually aggressive girl who will do the work for you once you're home. Or, you could put up an ad about losing your virginity. That's how I met him. I messaged out of curiosity, and his personality hooked me. His looks didn't.
The ad was on Craigslist. Don't sound desperate. Go for cute or endearing. His was short but interesting enough to reply to. I enjoyed his ability to hold a normal conversation and interact. He didn't have to really push the sex angle. Desperation would have chased me off though.
@RaindropSweetie I don't know I kinda just feel hopeless rn. Never even been on a date let alone had a girlfriend or sex. I've only asked out 2 girls the last girl I asked out was 7 years ago.
There you go right there, start with trying to go on dates and being a good guy. Don't try to start off at the extreme. Bad boys aren't getting more women, they are mostly getting the SAME easy, less desirable women and sharing them. Think about that. That's how massive STD outbreaks happen.
That negative thinking is the real issue then. Try turning that positive before worrying about women. There are tons of instagram pages with positive and motivational themes that can help you develop a positive mindset. Don't worry about women in person for now. Try just speaking to more of us online. Every time you go to write something, think of how you can make sure it sounds positive and upbeat. That may also help alter your mindset. Negativity will mess up anyone no matter how much sex you've had or have not had.
@RaindropSweetie@joeblow123 Yea im really starting to think this whole find a women who appreciates me for not sleeping around is a fairytale. I think most women will just thinks it weird or a red flag. Im starting to think I should just lose it to a prostitute before im a 30 something virgin who still doesn't talk to girls and never goes on dates. At least if I pay for it ill get to hav some sex in my twenties and maybe the sexual experience will giv me the confidence to hit on girls. Cus its like even though im in school and I work there's always this sense that lifes passing me by. Every time i see a cute girl im too afraid to talk to im just like fuk this shits old. Any opinions?
Just look at what your eyes tell you. How many girls do confident men get? Being an asshole works too. Just don't be an asshole with the hooker. She won't shit test you. Just pay her for sex and get it out of the way.
They love abusing his beta male, subservient orbiting, until they get sick of his lecherous personality. Normally once they've got what they needed from him. This is the trashy girls im talking about obviously.
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Except for the hygiene thing and straight posture I am screwed I will leave the girl but not super hero Tshirts 😂
lol @ keys to attract women: brush your teeth, stand up straight, don't wear kids clothes. honestly a 12 year old could have came up with better advice.
"honestly a 12 year old could have came up with better advice."
The only person we had at the time was a 9 year old so that is who we went with. LMFAO
Loudest one in the room is the week is one in the room. Girls pick up on this.
I already do this, just dont know how to approach or turn a conversation from plutonic to suggestive
Like it seems impossible to go from strangers to sleeping together. I feel like some men got it and some dont and i obviously dont. I hav zero confidence i could “seal the deal” with any attractive women
@Will23v
There are pick up artist videos on youtube. Go with the one you are most comfortable with.
@joeblow123 those are pretty cringy, and I just dont see that working for me
@Will23v
How are things working for you now?
@joeblow123 yea good point. If i try pua stuff i think ill just be a virgin who also looks like a creep.
@Will23v
Ever thought about going to a hooker to get rid of the virginity?
@joeblow123 yea but that would just lower my self esteem even more. Its more of a goal i wanna achieve, id prefer a girlfriend to a hookup
@Will23v
I'm not talking about a hookup. I'm talking about a hooker aka prostitute.
@joeblow123 yea ik but it would make me feel worse to just pay for it
Are you trying with girls you are already taking on dates? Keep going and some girl will take control for you eventually.
@Will23v
If you shell out money on a date you are paying for a "maybe". If you get a prostitute you are shelling out money on a "definitely". Get rid of the virginity. It is a handicap for men. The better you are rid of it the better.
@joeblow123 That's a lie about the virginity. Plus, much higher risk of STDs with prostitutes. Most girls do not mind virgin men, because they have not picked up or solidified bad habits from having sex with other women. The hottest sex I ever had was with a guy I met just to take his virginity. Turned into a long term, extremely hot and steamy sexual relationship. It was because he learned perfectly how to please my body.
@RaindropSweetie how old was he?
@RaindropSweetie also I've unfortunately never been on a date.
He was 25. Start with going onto dating apps and work on romancing girls into dates. That will get you most of the way into their panties. Start with insecure girls who might be a little desperate, spoil them a bit, go home with them, cuddle, movie, a little kiss and rub here and there gradually. Even if they say no, eventually you'll get a yes or a sexually aggressive girl who will do the work for you once you're home. Or, you could put up an ad about losing your virginity. That's how I met him. I messaged out of curiosity, and his personality hooked me. His looks didn't.
@RaindropSweetie this guy really put up an advertisement? Where?
@RaindropSweetie thanks for ur help by the way
@RaindropSweetie
It's different for men. If he doesn't lose it he can be manipulated a whole lot easier.
The ad was on Craigslist. Don't sound desperate. Go for cute or endearing. His was short but interesting enough to reply to. I enjoyed his ability to hold a normal conversation and interact. He didn't have to really push the sex angle. Desperation would have chased me off though.
@RaindropSweetie not trying to be a dick but how does an ad on craigslist about losing your v not sound desperate?
@RaindropSweetie I don't know I kinda just feel hopeless rn. Never even been on a date let alone had a girlfriend or sex. I've only asked out 2 girls the last girl I asked out was 7 years ago.
There you go right there, start with trying to go on dates and being a good guy. Don't try to start off at the extreme. Bad boys aren't getting more women, they are mostly getting the SAME easy, less desirable women and sharing them. Think about that. That's how massive STD outbreaks happen.
@RaindropSweetie whenever i think of approaching I just get a bad feeling in my gut and my head fills with negative thoughts so i dont try.
That negative thinking is the real issue then. Try turning that positive before worrying about women. There are tons of instagram pages with positive and motivational themes that can help you develop a positive mindset. Don't worry about women in person for now. Try just speaking to more of us online. Every time you go to write something, think of how you can make sure it sounds positive and upbeat. That may also help alter your mindset. Negativity will mess up anyone no matter how much sex you've had or have not had.
@RaindropSweetie @joeblow123 Yea im really starting to think this whole find a women who appreciates me for not sleeping around is a fairytale. I think most women will just thinks it weird or a red flag. Im starting to think I should just lose it to a prostitute before im a 30 something virgin who still doesn't talk to girls and never goes on dates. At least if I pay for it ill get to hav some sex in my twenties and maybe the sexual experience will giv me the confidence to hit on girls. Cus its like even though im in school and I work there's always this sense that lifes passing me by. Every time i see a cute girl im too afraid to talk to im just like fuk this shits old.
Any opinions?
@Will23v
"Any opinions"
Just look at what your eyes tell you. How many girls do confident men get? Being an asshole works too. Just don't be an asshole with the hooker. She won't shit test you. Just pay her for sex and get it out of the way.
you hit the nail on the head. yes dude!
the redpill community has changed my mindset on this a lot.
Great points, Thanks for the take.
Women love faggots
They love abusing his beta male, subservient orbiting, until they get sick of his lecherous personality. Normally once they've got what they needed from him. This is the trashy girls im talking about obviously.