Is an incredibly fast and powerful way to attract a woman (or man). Many men struggle with it, not realizing that a few simple flirting tips can dramatically increase any man’s ability to flirt successfully with a girl. If you’re interested in mastering flirting, here are some flirting tips for guys that you can use to attract women.
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Dress for Her
I personally like Suits (that fit well)..
If you haven’t heard how much women love a man in a good suit, then you’ve been living under a rock. Whether you wear one everyday for work or reserve them for those special events - women take notice when you’re in your Sunday best. However, this can all go to waste if your suit doesn’t fit well.
Swimming in fabric does nobody any favours. You want your suit jacket to fit snug around your shoulders and shape your torso; and your suit pantsshould always be hemmed to the proper length. It’s a big call but wearing a suit is probably the most attractive thing a man can do on a clothing level to attract a female.
Confidence is Key
When it comes to attraction, confidence is everything. It’s like catnip to women seriously.
If you’re a man who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a higher perception of himself over others, women will find you intriguing and attractive. As opposed to the guy who’s worried about making a move, follows the crowd, and puts women on a pedestal when he talks to them.
Make Her Smile and Laugh
If you can make a girl laugh and show you’re fun to be around, she’ll associate positive feelings with you. ( Good Thing).
Attraction is an emotion, it’s defined by how a girl feels about you. Her attraction for you is not determined by a screening process your job, looks, hobbies and interests. So, don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Dull conversation kills attraction. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.
Pick the spot for her and pay
The male picking the spot is a cultural norm that also asserts you leave the womb-like structure of your apartment enough to know decent places to drink and or eat. That you're notncheap and wanna split the bill with her. Not to seem like a prostitute, but chicks are also more likely to put out if you pay for their drinks and food "just saying". Bitch all you want guys facts are facts. Woman are more likely to sleep with you if you pay for their dinner you heard me.
Compliment her
In other obvious news, girls love compliments! I personally appreciate getting told I’m funny or smart more than being told I’m pretty or have great boobs, but to be honest I’ll take what I can get. By telling her she looks nice she will feel good about herself and become more comfortable around you because of this new self esteem you've given her.
Manners
The general lack of manners is sad to most women.The nature and dignity of woman may remain something of a mystery to most men.But nevertheless, actions that show reverence to women can and should be expected of them.
Opening a door or pulling out a chair for a woman never killed a man but it might have got them laid.
I would say a lot of what you listed is either common sense or antiquated, but we all have our opinions.
I would say the best way to get someone who is going to actually be compatible to you for the long term is to behave normally but flirt a bit.
Granted, it will take a long time to find someone but if that someone likes you for who you *ACTUALLY* are rather than this fake "I'm gonna impress the woman" you, then you are going to find partners who are a lot less repulsive.
I wouldn't want to be around someone who expects me to wear a suit and pull out chairs for them out of some kind of obligation. If I pull a chair or open a door, it's because I'm being nice for the sake of being nice rather than following some kind of social norm and I would actually do the same for a man as well.
I guess I really don't mesh with gender roles that well. I just want to be myself and not put up a masquerade, you know? What you see is what you get with me.
Always appreciate the odd hint/tip every now and then, only thing I would note is having experienced a couple of nights out in Essex using the line "You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours” is probably not necessary, if you're talking to an Essex girl in a nightclub you've probably already pulled! lol
Beautiful myTake, I completely agree with everything you wrote because it's true. I generally do everything you wrote, although now that I have a girlfriend I'd probably better stop a couple of things or tone them down - when I do them with other women 😂😂!
Clueless from the beginning. Nothing real including the perfect pictures. Looks like straight from glamour or some other regenerated "Duh" historical how to get a woman. Who do you think this helps... perpetuating obvious and myth.
A few nuggets of truth surrounded by a sea of bs. The only tip you need when it comes to anything related to dating is as follows.
'Never listen to dating advice from women' that's it, just ignore all of it because it's bs.
Men are the ones doing the approaching, taking the risks, learning what works, adapting, failing, or having success. Women sit back doing the choosing but if you want to know what works, ask a man. You don't ask fish how to catch fish.
And by the way that 'Compliment her' is the perfect example of bad advice. When women are getting flooded with compliments on social media, simps at work, and society as a whole, what do you think your compliment is going to do?
If your'e going to compliment a woman, make her work for it. Personally I rarely compliment women, but they compliment me a lot. All of the guys I know that compliment women do not get any compliments.
Disagree with what I'm saying, fine. Go ask a fish.
All of this is correct from my experience. However the one thing which has backfired on me was the wearing a suit thing. I've worn a suit once on a date and she actually asked why the hell did I wear that lol. The key here is really just to wear nice clothes that fit your body. Trousers and a button up collared shirt with a brand name like Ralph Lauren or Armani will usually do the job. Nice shoes are also very important.
If you are going out during the day, brand name sunglasses will also help her like you more like ray ban or Versace. Flash a good watch too. Nothing less than say a Tag Heuer. So no G-shocks or anything. Save that for your abseiling or adventure type dates later on.
Smelling good is also important. Have a proper cologne. Not axe spray or something. I personally use Chanel Blue for men.
So wear expensive tailored suits all the time, make sure your always 100% confident your never supposed to feel low self esteem ever, do all the work on dates and pay for her free loading ass and constantly raise her confidence while she never returns the favour... your version of dating sounds like a lot of work and money on the guys side and a lot of fuck all for women
This is another great example of why you NEVER take dating advice from someone without a Y chromosome. If you want to learn how to hunt, ask a hunter for tips, not the animal you're hunting.
Have some guts approach a woman your a man since beginning of time it's been that way so sorry for ya but it is what it is. If a guy doesn't have the balls to approach me he's not for me men take the lead
Funny you can have these qualities, there's just one tiny thing is not mentioned, your actual looks, nice clothes can't fix a busted up face, Don't got that you'll just be brushed off for someone who looks better, it always happen
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