I get what your saying, I think anyways you're saying we want to be an expectation to man? Like the one he chooses although he seems unattainable? Correct me if I'm wrong bc I'm not familiar with this statement. Sure there were guys I could not have that I wanted in the past, like as in having a full commitment, but in all reality if I was with a man I knew had treated other women like crap I would be deeply bothered by it and I would want to confront him.
@likelyOK the statement is not meant to be that deep. It simple says that girls want a bad boy, a rough and strong guy who is tender and caring only to her. On the other hand guys want a girl that is feminine and pretty who is a bad girl on his bed and only on his bed.
@DevilsAdvocator when I say good girl that is bad only for him I don't mean that she is pretends to be good but actually abuses him! I don't mean that at all. Those two downvoters and you understood that? No! It means that every guy wants a good girl, a honest good girl, feminine and sweet, a princess... that doesn't act like a princess in bed! That's where that "bad" part comes from. She is a sweet in the streets and a beast in the sheets.
@DevilsAdvocator either I keep using wrong expressions or I really can't get a point through. I mean a girl that has some fire! That doesn't just lays there and let's you do all the work. A girl that also grabs you, talks dirty, blows you not as a favor but because she loves it, etc. And yes also a girl that can ride you. Not one that violates you. Come on when I girls say a guy is a beat in bed they don't mean that the guy taped them. Why the hell would I be referring to that?
Because you made an extreme, absolutist over-simplifying generalization, and as such, people are automatically going to think about the most extreme, absolutist examples of said generalization. "Every guy wants a good girl that will be bad only to him"- what's the most extreme potential example of that dynamic that you could imagine, in a relationship? And would you really want that?
@DevilsAdvocator because it was a satirical generalization. I don't even believe that "all girls want a bad guy who is good only for them". I think most girls don't want that after they grow up past 20. No need to take it to seriously.
Kinda untrue. Most girls like bad dudes because they are hot as fuck. But u do have 1 thing right. The assertiveness is attractive and if he can make u feel protected , it becomes attractive
Smiling too much and being and being a bit too friendly comes off as weak. When a man is brooding it gives him a bit of a "fuck off" vibe - which attracts a lot of women.
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To be honest is kinda crazy but if the opposite is a guy that emotional all the time then the brooding guy is best.
Me personally if a girl has a hard time smiling then she should stay away from me.
wonder if thats how men think about me #broodinggirl
"Every guy wants a good girl that will be bad only to him. Every girl wants a bad guy that will be good only to her".
Why was this downvoted by two guys?
This is spot on 🔥
I get what your saying, I think anyways you're saying we want to be an expectation to man? Like the one he chooses although he seems unattainable? Correct me if I'm wrong bc I'm not familiar with this statement.
Sure there were guys I could not have that I wanted in the past, like as in having a full commitment, but in all reality if I was with a man I knew had treated other women like crap I would be deeply bothered by it and I would want to confront him.
@likelyOK the statement is not meant to be that deep.
It simple says that girls want a bad boy, a rough and strong guy who is tender and caring only to her. On the other hand guys want a girl that is feminine and pretty who is a bad girl on his bed and only on his bed.
Ah okay I get it
D'uh, because us guys DON'T want a self-proclaimed "good girl" who despises and singles him out for abuse? It's not hard...
@DevilsAdvocator when I say good girl that is bad only for him I don't mean that she is pretends to be good but actually abuses him!
I don't mean that at all. Those two downvoters and you understood that? No!
It means that every guy wants a good girl, a honest good girl, feminine and sweet, a princess... that doesn't act like a princess in bed! That's where that "bad" part comes from. She is a sweet in the streets and a beast in the sheets.
Why would we want a "beast between the sheets"? You want a girl who'll violate and dominate you sexually, good for you. Most guys don't though.
@DevilsAdvocator either I keep using wrong expressions or I really can't get a point through.
I mean a girl that has some fire! That doesn't just lays there and let's you do all the work. A girl that also grabs you, talks dirty, blows you not as a favor but because she loves it, etc. And yes also a girl that can ride you. Not one that violates you.
Come on when I girls say a guy is a beat in bed they don't mean that the guy taped them. Why the hell would I be referring to that?
Because you made an extreme, absolutist over-simplifying generalization, and as such, people are automatically going to think about the most extreme, absolutist examples of said generalization. "Every guy wants a good girl that will be bad only to him"- what's the most extreme potential example of that dynamic that you could imagine, in a relationship? And would you really want that?
@DevilsAdvocator because it was a satirical generalization. I don't even believe that "all girls want a bad guy who is good only for them". I think most girls don't want that after they grow up past 20.
No need to take it to seriously.
You asked "why was this downvoted by two guys?" I was just offering my two cents as to why it might've been, that's all.
@DevilsAdvocator I actually appreciate it! I will be more specific next time.
Honestly, I'm done with bad guys.
Another reason- because girls are aroused by male anger, rage and discontentment, and actively turned off by any displays of male happiness...
so what if I have a male friend that listens to me far more when I'm pissed... he's also married already... uh oh xD
Kinda untrue. Most girls like bad dudes because they are hot as fuck. But u do have 1 thing right. The assertiveness is attractive and if he can make u feel protected , it becomes attractive
woah woah woah hold on, does your man know you're posting his pic?
Yeah, of course Lol I tell him everything anyways.
Smiling too much and being and being a bit too friendly comes off as weak. When a man is brooding it gives him a bit of a "fuck off" vibe - which attracts a lot of women.
lol this make me remember school time when I try to be as much brooding as possible. So fuking waste of time.
they don't want to sit on eggs all day until they hatch?
Uh girls only like "brooding guys" if the brooding guys in question are taller than them, and attractive. It's not about the brooding.
I prefer guys that are the opposite
Angel.
To each her own
Yeah, fair enough.
Good take.