It doesn't really matter how you view women or to which category you belong to. This is as much of your personal choice as are your beliefs and philosophies and values. I will not say which is right or wrong.
There will be lots of hate and the urge to slam that keyboard. I can smell it. I don't care. For them haters being a "simp" (which means normal man right now) is worse than being homosexual back in 2000.
The normal man
(or as some internet blues call them any of these silly terms: "Blue pill, white knights, simps" and so on)
(or as we know them as: "Red pill, MGTOW, incels" and so on)