And now it's summer. We've talked ever single day since we've been home (a solid six weeks at this point) for several hours. I generally text her during the day, and confirm that she wants to talk at night (I say it much more suavely). She's never said no. It bothers me that I seem to be putting more effort in than her: I call her, she doesn't call me, etc. Are my reasons unfounded? Recently. I've thrown in the old "I miss you" line at the end of each conversation, simply because I actually miss her. For the most part, she seems to blow it off or tease me for saying that; she hardly responds with an "I miss you too." From my vantage point, I'm getting some mixed messages; why won't she just say she misses me?
Why won't she just say she misses me?
And now it's summer. We've talked ever single day since we've been home (a solid six weeks at this point) for several hours. I generally text her during the day, and confirm that she wants to talk at night (I say it much more suavely). She's never said no. It bothers me that I seem to be putting more effort in than her: I call her, she doesn't call me, etc. Are my reasons unfounded? Recently. I've thrown in the old "I miss you" line at the end of each conversation, simply because I actually miss her. For the most part, she seems to blow it off or tease me for saying that; she hardly responds with an "I miss you too." From my vantage point, I'm getting some mixed messages; why won't she just say she misses me?
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