How embarrassing!! I got beat up in front of my girlfriend last week. Girls, is this also embarrassing to you?

[Philehenderson]

Okay, so last week I was out with my girlfriend; driving around. I cut this guy off, and he got angry. He pulled ahead of me and then cut me off and stopped. I also had to stop. He got out of his car to confront me, and I got out of my car. We started yelling at each other, and it came to blows. He was also with a woman who came out to watch close up. My girlfriend did the same. What happened next is that we got into a fight, and I lost pretty easily. He gave me three hard punches to the belly which pretty well did me in. He left me there holding my belly and groaning. His lady friend was turned on by the event; I could tell by the look on her face. My girlfriend, on the other hand, had a look of embarrassment on her face. We got into the car again and drove away. She asked if I was okay. I told her the pain in my stomach was nothing compared to the pain of humiliation I felt. Nothing was said for about fifteen seconds, then she said, "Yeah, I feel embarrassed, too." Girls: is this how you feel when your boyfriend gets beat up in front of you? At least she was honest, but I wish she hadn't been. Are you honest with your boyfriend when he gets beat up? How do you feel inside? And what do you say to him? Is it more embarrassing to you if he gets beat up in front of your friends? Have you ever told a boyfriend you were embarrassed because he lost a fight; especially if he lost easily?

[Anonymous]

I think you should break up with the uncompassionate girl you're with, what the fuck she mean i was embarrased? you didn't even start the fight! why should either her or you be embarrased cuz some lunatic idiot decided to act like an ape and get physical for no clear reason. Probably this guy is a failure in his own life and this is how he feels good about himself, you shouldn't worry about that at all. Feel good about yourself, you never fought before and you at least got out of the car and tried to protect both yourself and your girl
And regarding your girlfriend, if I feel that my gf is this primtive of a human being I would just leave her and go for bigger and better things, if she believes that arguments should be won by fighting she is not the right girl for me!, girls like this deserve to be with some drunk abusive lunatic (like the guy you had the fight with) who would treat her the way she deserves to be treated and she will probably love it too!

Feel good about yourself, you never fought before and you at least got out of the car and tried to protect both yourself and your girl

This is coming from a boxer btw!!

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Well don't cut people off anymore dude. Lesson learned.

You wouldn't believe how many people out there cut me off, flip me off, "brake check" me. It's like, "all of you are SO lucky that I'm a nice guy."

Obviously you ran into the angry guy that doesn't give a shit. This is what people need to understand. If you don't want shit to go down then be polite. Chances are those guys have criminal records or tendencies too because the rest of us are too worried about losing our jobs or going to jail. So be careful.

[hopromantic]

Umm no I care a lot about my baby so if he ever was about to get into it I would first try and calm him down n telk him to walk away and if he had gotten out then I wouldve probably tried to calm the other guy down and if that failed and he got beat up then I wouldve ran to his side to see if he was ok and taken care of any wounds your girls a jerk!

[lamebabe]

Oh man...that sounds like the epitome of awkward and embarrassing. The fact that his girl was also there to witness makes it so much worse:/ I don't know what I would do. I would likely admit my embarrassment too. :(((

[Philehenderson]

Lamebabe, you are 100% correct. My getting beat up was so unbelievably embarrassing. And very awkward for days after. And it was worse getting beat up in front of the other guy's woman friend. But not half as embarrassing as being beat up in front of my own girlfriend. After all, she's the one I have to look in the eye. It took a long time for me to be myself again with her. And I could sense she didn't quite know how to handle my obvious embarrassment. I wish I would have won.

[lumos]

I'd be embarrassed because he got into a fight. Not because he lost. Fighting is pathetic.

[Yang-gwang]

This should be most helpful

[Keyspirits]

Dis or ma coco haha x)

[Anonymous]

She was probably more embarrassed by the fact that you picked a fight in the first place. Why did you even get out of the car, especially when there was no accident? You could have just shrugged the incident off, driven away, and your day would have carried on normally.

[JamieLynnG]

I would have more then likely been pissed off at the guy and would have more then likely gone up and thrown punches at him over being embarrassed about my So losing the fight. But I'm also pretty protective over people I care about and I've been taught to fight pretty well by guy friends of mine. Like I've bare knuckle boxed with a couple of them while joking around.

[brocklee]

Never had it happen to me, but I watched it happen a few times. Unfortunately that is something that will never be forgotten. Even if you two split someday, she will likely tell that story.

[randomhobo]

Watching someone lose a fight is embarrassing for everyone involved. You should of just kept on driving once he pulled over.

[LiamJHayden]

She should be embarrassed that you got goaded into such a stupid thing. I do not care if the guy is bigger or smaller. NEVER get out of the car like that. If he goes all road rage, you get away from him, get the plate number, and drive to the nearest police station. I'm trained in two martial arts and have a CCW and still do exactly that when some a-hole gets road rage. Just not worth it.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... I think it's so incredibly hot that his girlfriend got turned on watching him beat you up! Please tell me the truth... did you play with yourself later when you were thinking about it?

[bDizzie]

Your mistake was getting out of the car. The guy is a psycho! And that sucks that your girlfriend got to see you lose a fight.

[puppupper]

it might be different for me since I'm a gay masochist but if I had a boyfriend and they watch me get beat up real easily I think I would be more turn on then anything

[martanogueira]

she was honest, she told you what she felt. she didn't mean to hurt you when she said that but in a way she was honest in the same way that you felt embarrassed
it is a bit embarrassing when something like that happens

[DragonWolf]

Well, I'm a pretty good fighter myself, but I don't think I will be embarrased if my boyfriend got beaten up.

[Rocky1987]

I got beat up in front of my girlfriend one time but it was much more humiliating than the guy who got hit in the belly , and for quite a few different reasons.

[LovelySerene]

I'd be more embarrassed at the fact that he got into a fight...how juvenile

[Anonymous]

Fighting is idiotic for the most part so there was no reason to fight and on top of it you lost. If this story is true then it taught you two lessons.

[COCOCHANEL]

what you described turns me on, the losing part.

[COCOCHANEL]

this is like straight out of a fantasy i've harboured since i was a child.

[Rocco-K]

Lmaooo Coco.

[gemgem]

How so

[COCOCHANEL]

i want to nurse an injured boy ♡

[gemgem]

Huh... Well good luck with your bf getting beaten up lol

[COCOCHANEL]

thank you

[Philehenderson]

Wow!! Cocochanel, you are my type of woman. I wish I would have had you by my side when I got beat up. You could have massaged my sore belly. But I still would have been humiliated because you were there to witness my losing so easily. Don't tell me you wouldn't be just a little embarrassed by me getting beat up like that.

[COCOCHANEL]

actually i wouldn't have been embarrassed. i would massage and be so happy. i'm being serious.

[Keyspirits]

Awww ma coco is so nice, sweet, and luvly <3
Juz gotta luv her x)

[Philehenderson]

I know it's been awhile since you wrote this. But please contact me. I would like to talk to you about this and how it turns you on, because since this incident, I have to admit I was turned on as well. My e-mail is: summitof72@hotmail. ca

[kim_sirtis]

Me too!! omg I saw a film as a kid that showed something like this in a clip... I think I watched it 100 times.

[Rocky1987]

I sort of got beat up in front of my girl one time. But it was so much more humiliating than the guy who got hit in the belly, and it was much more humiliating for a few different reasons. I wouldn't want to post it publicly. I may tell someone in private but not publicly.

[dsrice]

I have been beat up by a girl before and by a guy. I am not very strong. I needed you at the 3 fights I have been in.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... that is so unbelievably sexy! May I please have permission to play with myself while I'm thinking about this? I'll dream that you saw me get beaten up and you laughed at me afterwards:)

[marriedguy1982]

I had a situation last week where I got beat up in front of my wife (see my profile). It is awkward and is not back to normal yet.

[Rocky1987]

I got beat up in front of my girl one time but it was much more humiliating and for quite a few different reasons. Trust me you got off real easy !!!

[Smileyface123]

If she's anything like me she won't get mad u shouldn't be embarrassed about it my ex bf got beat up infront of me and all his friends like 2 months ago but don't be embarrassed

[vk2628]

Maybe that's why he's your ex within two months

[Anonymous]

this is why i carry pepper spray and a collapsible baton in my car.

[Anonymous]

Lmfaooo smh Lmaoooo ;) gotta love this site !!!

[Dzindzer]

I would honestly also be embarrassed.

[Anonymous]

Yeh sorry about that, i just lost it.

[Yang-gwang]

Hey man fighting is kind of barbaric.

[Fite4you]

I imagine he got fucked for hours