How do I tell him he's slacking, He's not even my boyfriend yet.?

[Anonymous]

So I've been having a 'thing' with boy X and i really like him. But i feel like I'm putting more effort in our 'thing' than he is, i text, call, send videos, audios and Skype him. He calls at times but i feel I'm doing more. What should I do, tell him or what? We are'nt even going out yet.

[7heDubz]

Pull back a little, Your over-chasing. Give him a chance to try and chase a little. I Understand you really like him and want it to work but if there's nothing for him to chase he might get bored. Thats not to say ceasse all contact, but give him a chance to call you instead of vice versa as it is right now.

[krash2002]

I don't think he feels the same way you do to be honest.

[Anonymous]

If you're not in a relationship yet, which is a bit odd to know it is on the horizon but not happening, then he's already showing you how a relationship with him would be. It's obviously not what you're looking for, and at this stage of knowing eachother it's when they bend over backwards and he isn't.

[Anonymous]

I'm kind of in the same situation, try giving him a bit of space. Giving him too much attention might make him feel like it's whatever (cocky attitude) go M.I.A for a day and if he doesn't send a message it's best just to drop everything

[strawberrycupcakes]

some guys are like that though. maybe try to not be the first one to say hi or be the one to start the conversation. maybe after a few days he'll realize how lucky he is to be getting so much attention (:

[DoctorFeelgood]

Relationships are not like a set of scales.
Sometimes they don't balance out.

[Panzer103]

He may not know it is currently a thing. Might want to see if you're both on the same page.