Tell him your concerns. You don’t think he has a healthy lifestyle. He could wind up in a lot of legal drama with the pot smoking (and if he’s driving while drinking). Tell him you’re looking for a serious partner with whom you can build a life. Tell him he’s obviously not in the same place as you.
If he’s serious about you and knows well what he stands to lose, he may even change his ways. Sometimes it’s the kick in the pants that a guy like him needs.
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Doesn't sound harsh at all, so long as it's, "these things that you do are unappealing" instead of "you are unappealing."
Not too harsh. It’s true. As long as you word it tactfully I don’t see anything wrong with it.
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Just be straight with him that you cannot be with someone in that way that lives the way he does
You need to be honest with him.
That isn't mean at all.
not mean at all
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