I think my crush has borderline personality disorder, should I give up on him? He keeps pushing me away and saying he doesn't deserve my love?

[Anonymous]

I've been reading about borderline personalities and I think my guy friend/crush has signs of this. He's sweet and romantic one minute then pushing my buttons and driving me away the next. He's trying to manipulate me into giving up on him so he can be right that he isn't worthy of my love. I think he's scared of where our relationship is heading so he's trying to wreck it. Then I reject him and he was right to be scared.
How much drama is a guy worth? I know we both do have intense feelings for each other that we haven't really talked about but he knows I love him. I just can't keep letting him be sweet to me and then be cold or distant. I have to let him know there are only so many chances even though I love him.
If he is a borderline, is it even worth it to keep him in my life?
We will probably only see each other this school year but we've been friends all high school.

[MysteriousFlower]

Moody type ay? Give it some space and also tell him that he is being a bit of a prick. It sounds typical behaviour in guys, but if you really think its something else ask some friends and get their opinions and advice.
My guy is a bit like yours in a sense. When he's there he will talk and talk and more talk, but then he seems far to shy to pursue anything much further, so yeah-typical.
Your guy might have some hard stuff in his life, so whilst being firm on the direction you want to take, try to understand where he is coming from, good luck sweetie :)

[stercor]

Play it out into the future.
Your course of action becomes clear.

[Toldol2]

Leave him. Borderlines are the worst kind

[SongBird3]

Trust me. Not worth it

[blondfrog]

How is that borderline personality disorder?