If a guy tells you his schedule does he want me. to understand his. life?

[kindgirl21]

Guy I like for. months but. only. few. weeks ago. got his. number told. me. his schedule. for. work. I felt bit ignored in beginning but he was busy and would text when he can.

When. i messaged you. ignoring. me. He called saying what did you text me I said you know. He said that. im. ignoring. you but. i am not babe. i am just working.

He called. to say about his hectic work life. One. date was cancelled. due to it. I seen him two weeks. back. an. he. was. so. exhausted he was. laying. on. my. shoulder. We kissed and. cuddled and. it was great to see him. out of. work. hours.

he's a real. honest guy as he is open about everything. I am. understanding now. i wasn't before and would. moan an it. got. to him. as he said. i see not seeing me. gets to you but dont. let it.

We are. taking. things slow. Every. other guy. I've met have always wanted sex quick he said. in time. it. will. happen. An. is never disrespectful. towards me. I guess thats why im shocked he hasnt. tried. to. jump my bones. .

How can. i distract myself when I think. of. him too much.

[ledfoot64]

he wants you to know what he is doing and loves you and waiting for right time to make love to you plus it sounds like to me that you love him too and the both of you want everything to be right when the two of you do make love for now just enjoy the time you send with him and the rest will fall in pace it may take time but it will happen

[kindgirl21]

Dont think he loves me after three weeks. of. contacting. I've seen him around for 7 months and we. interacted but. only recently met. up one-on-one.

[ledfoot64]

sweety he loves you but not saying it he doing it by showing you he loves you and from what you said about him sounds to me you love him too but can't or not saying it to him yet

[kindgirl21]

Showing he loves me how. Not seen him for two weeks and he said we are friends seeing how things go

[ledfoot64]

he is testing you to see what you say this happens when two people start to see each other

[kindgirl21]

Testing me when he said friends I said ok so is that not what he wants?

[ledfoot64]

maybe not he might just be waiting to see what you say plus his job may make him too tired to do anything including going out having fun

[kindgirl21]

I would want more but at this stage he is very busy so I understand. An oh ok I get that

[ledfoot64]

at least that what it sounds like to me he wants and not only for sex but in all parts of his life and he feels you should know and be apart of his life so start telling him what your doing in your life if it work school it don't matter and see what he says from that also

[kindgirl21]

I would but we dont get time together since two weeks ago so I dont want to contact when he is busy will let him in get in touch and be patient

[ledfoot64]

he texts an calls you to let you know what he is doing even if he leaves a message on your voice mail well you can do same with him this way it shows how much you care and love him like he cares and loves you

[kindgirl21]

He last called 22nd September since then I've calldd him three times on diff days an he's answered and seemed stressd and busy he said lst time I saw hin will tke u for dinner and make It up to u nufin happend yet. Dont think he loves me after 3weeks

[ledfoot64]

next time you two call or text each other say or put I love you and see what he says or text back sounds to me you two love each other and don't know it

[kindgirl21]

isn't it too soon? I wish he loved me

[kindgirl21]

Has gag changed where new opinions go

[ledfoot64]

nothing is too soon I told my wife I loved her 10 minutes after I was in her apartment she said she loved me too that was 3 years ago and we still say I love you even after 13 years of marriage

[kindgirl21]

Oh wow was it not different back then or. Doubt he loves me. Only had one date but seen him around for months.

[ledfoot64]

thanks for the MH

[kindgirl21]

We went on one date an now I feel like im nothing to him. ;(

[kindgirl21]

Hi I think you was right about him wanting to share info of his life and wants to know mine he called last night. Am in morning. Said hows work and me etc an said its not like we are married or been in relationship for years its like he saying we are together but early days I feel like he's afraid to say how he feels but he said that he wants to know me and talk to me. As I sent a text earlier before he called saying maybr your better off just focusing on work. He said he doesn't want that and said obviously there is something there between us. As I also texted saying I dont kiss friends an he hasn't referred to me as that since.

[ledfoot64]

well next time you see him plant a big one on him and say I don't kiss friends also only my boy friend I kiss like that see what he does next

[kindgirl21]

Yeah great idea I amnervous to say it haha