Why has my boyfriend stopped being romantic?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has stopped complimenting me, even when i get all dolled up. He is a big jokester he picks on me a lot but never says sweet things. He used to all the time. He was so romantic we went out to dinner and downtown just walking around going no where but in love. Now we watch tv, eat fast food and fall asleep. EVERY NIGHT! Were also physical, almost every day. I have told him and told him in every way possible. He never cares. I am thinking about not hanging out with him tonight and not giving him any for a while till he gets himself together. Bc i am not satisfied with this relationship.

[ilovesexyfeet]

He charmed u now he thinks he's got u where he wants u and doesn't need to keep up what seems to have been an act. Yes let him sweat a bit give him no sex or anything til he starts to treat u like u deserve and expect to be treated. If he loves u he will realise what a cock he has been and start to spoil u again, if he doesn't care then he won't change and u can kick his arse out of your life

[Asker]

he said he is saving his money, because he just bought a house. But i just want one night on a formal dinner... or a freaking compliment instead of him feeling me up.

[ilovesexyfeet]

Its not much to ask and he seems to be using the house as an excuse. Test him by saying book us in to an expensive hotel tell him you'll dress naughty and fuck his brains out, if he books it u know its all about the sex with him but if he says I'd love to but I really am saving for a house then he may be genuine but I think he'll be straight out to book a room and then you can luck his balls lol

[Asker]

true, I don't know i think he means it but who knows

[Anonymous]

Have you ever made any effort to be romantic to him? Maybe he is tired of being the one to make plans. A relationship is 50/50. Sounds like he needs some space. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you don't have to keep working on it. You have to give him a reason to keep trying

[Asker]

yeah i try and plan stuff, he never seems to wanna go. Ill be like lets go to a movie, or dinner. and he will say oh i mean i guess, if you want to,

[Opinion Owner]

Ok if you have sex a lot he is being used to that and getting comfortable. Do you 2 live together?

[Asker]

we don't live together but he is over every night either spending the night or staying late. were physical almost every day

[Opinion Owner]

That's why. He comes over has sex it's so convenient. Why does he need to go out anymore. He's saving money

[Asker]

okay i am cutting him off!

[AllAboutTheX]

Before sex guy and after sex guy.

Before sex guy will do anything possible to make you feel special.
After sex guy will slowly stop feeling the need to do those things as the newness wears off.

[Anonymous]

Are you ever romantic to him? If not then he probay just doesn't like how one sided it is

[Asker]

oh i am like really romantic, all the time.