If he's cat-calling you and making you uncomfortable, you either approach and tell him so. Or you tell the gym management about him making these uncomfortable stares and comments towards you. Giving him looks right back isn't going to do anything major. You have to tell people straight up when you have something to say, rather than trying to convey it through some sort of "look" or scowl.
You can report that to the gyn manager, you´re a client from that gym and as a client you have the right to do that or you can go to a gym that just aloud womens 24/7 or.. You can report his behavior to the police, um um um don´t stay quiet about that if he is really freeking you out.
Pump up the iron and look super angry! Arrgggghhh! Like your going to rip his balls off! Haha jk. Might turn him on. Hmm.. If say ignore but if he does approach you then let him know straight up
Yeah some guys are too stupid to take a hint. I am really good at ignoring and sending some offense body language. Once I pretended to talk on my cell phone how my STD s are acting up again. XDD
good plan because I never look at std people ever again. I think once a girl told me that and she was all depressed I just walked away forever and never
take friends over, or get your husband over, let him have a word with him, or join a different gym, or dont go to a gym at all, gym at home, i dont think a gym is a good place for woman anyway, the biggest idiots you sometimes can imagine go there
no , im not saying that, but walking around pumped up meat heads isn't an ideal place for woman to be, im sorry, but dont be so defensive, im not like that at all, i cook to for the girl i like, i do clean up my mess or want to help her. who is being judgmental not me, it would be better if gyms have hours were its better for women to sport, i rather sport at home, i dont want to be around all these idiots there. women sporting sure, but if you dont like to have guys that around you, than dont go to the gym because its full of people like that.
Just bring any guy you trust enough to put this guy back "in his place" so to speak and have them confront him. Preferably someone he's never seen before and someone who should be close to you, like a brother or a cousin.
If I were you, I will just ignore him as if he is not on my sight... I think looking back at him (dirty look or whatever look) or confronting him will just trigger more since he got the slightest attention from the girl he likes..
I would purposely embarrass him in front of everyone at the gym so they all know what a creeper he is. And if you have any guy friends at the gym, let them know so they can "deal" with him if needed.
hey jus ignore him... if u report about him to the gym owner then he will think that his staring worked for him jus dont look at him and behave like u are not seeing him that he is staring at u
Why not just take your husband to the gym for the next week? And give each other pecks between workouts? Won't that give him a good hint? Do you wear your ring when working out?
say this exactly the next time he comes up to you " ten feet back buddy... im not interested," and stop it with the dirty looks that sounds too highschoolish. just ignore the shit out of him and everytime he tries to approach you just walk away
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If he's cat-calling you and making you uncomfortable, you either approach and tell him so. Or you tell the gym management about him making these uncomfortable stares and comments towards you. Giving him looks right back isn't going to do anything major. You have to tell people straight up when you have something to say, rather than trying to convey it through some sort of "look" or scowl.
I know... you're right!
You can report that to the gyn manager, you´re a client from that gym and as a client you have the right to do that or you can go to a gym that just aloud womens 24/7 or.. You can report his behavior to the police, um um um don´t stay quiet about that if he is really freeking you out.
Pump up the iron and look super angry! Arrgggghhh! Like your going to rip his balls off! Haha jk. Might turn him on. Hmm.. If say ignore but if he does approach you then let him know straight up
I look pretty fierce tbh!
Thanks for the input!
Hah! Then it should work out perfectly >: ).
Yeah some guys are too stupid to take a hint.
I am really good at ignoring and sending some offense body language.
Once I pretended to talk on my cell phone how my STD s are acting up again.
XDD
Just do yourworkout no need to pretend to talk on a cell phone if a guy keeps bothering you just call them out on it
So funny. I tried talking really loudly about my kids, that usually sends them running!
good plan because I never look at std people ever again.
I think once a girl told me that and she was all depressed I just walked away forever and never
ever ever ever evereererevevrververvevrevrererer
take friends over, or get your husband over, let him have a word with him, or join a different gym, or dont go to a gym at all, gym at home, i dont think a gym is a good place for woman anyway, the biggest idiots you sometimes can imagine go there
The gym is no place for women? Let me just take my shoes off and get back in that kitchen then 😒
no , im not saying that, but walking around pumped up meat heads isn't an ideal place for woman to be, im sorry, but dont be so defensive, im not like that at all, i cook to for the girl i like, i do clean up my mess or want to help her. who is being judgmental not me, it would be better if gyms have hours were its better for women to sport, i rather sport at home, i dont want to be around all these idiots there. women sporting sure, but if you dont like to have guys that around you, than dont go to the gym because its full of people like that.
I don't mind guys around me. Guys cat calling me I do mind.
Heyy, it's good to see you back here :)
Well you should directly tell him about it because if you won't then he'll continue to do what he is doing right now.
Take the charge of the situation, that's all.
Good luck
Thanks for the advice. Good to see you again too. :)
Yeah, you went AWOL last time :P
I was emotionally unstable then lol!
Well you could have asked a question regarding that on here, That's the purpose of this site. RIght? :P
True, but I keep my personal things personal. I'm a little reserved actually!
Oh okay, I get it now.
Take care :)
Just bring any guy you trust enough to put this guy back "in his place" so to speak and have them confront him. Preferably someone he's never seen before and someone who should be close to you, like a brother or a cousin.
Okay cool
let him walk by and stare at you as you're kicking the shit out of your sparring partner in the yoga room. total domination!
That would probably turn him on lol. Plus I don't do my taekwondo at the gym lol
Hahah that's funny. You're fucked now.
Just ignore him, and don't try to talk to him like everyone is suggesting you to do here.
That's fucking weird.
Thanks for the advice! 😄
If I were you, I will just ignore him as if he is not on my sight...
I think looking back at him (dirty look or whatever look) or confronting him will just trigger more since he got the slightest attention from the girl he likes..
I would purposely embarrass him in front of everyone at the gym so they all know what a creeper he is. And if you have any guy friends at the gym, let them know so they can "deal" with him if needed.
I have lots of guy friends. You don't think it's lame to ask them for help?
Not at all. That's what guy friends are for. I have had to use mine in sitchs at the bar and parties.
Cool! Will do!
hey jus ignore him... if u report about him to the gym owner then he will think that his staring worked for him jus dont look at him and behave like u are not seeing him that he is staring at u
So far that's what I'm doing. Hopefully he'll get the point and lose interest!
hmmm Good...
Why not just take your husband to the gym for the next week? And give each other pecks between workouts? Won't that give him a good hint? Do you wear your ring when working out?
I don't wear a ring ever. But I especially wouldn't while I workout, it hurts too much!
No pain, no gettin' rid of creeper!!!
"Sorry but you're making me uncomfortable."
Tell him straight up.
If he continues, report it.
Worse case scenario, switch gyms
Switch gyms... ahhhhhh... noooo😉 you're right though.
say this exactly the next time he comes up to you " ten feet back buddy... im not interested," and stop it with the dirty looks that sounds too highschoolish. just ignore the shit out of him and everytime he tries to approach you just walk away
I like it! 10 feet back grrrrrrr!
It isn't that he can't take a hint. He simply won't. Gym owners commonly know how to deal with such people.
I didn't think about it that way. Thanks
Change your schedule. You can't get away from Creepy Gym Guy. And, more importantly, you can't concentrate and get a good work out in.
I'll never change my schedule. I'm used to getting asked out, this guy is just weird though.
Tell him to approach you because you have something important to tell him and then kick him in the nuts
I like you! 😀
being liked is one of my best features...
I understand ur pain, i used to have some guy that stared at me
It sounds funny
... but im srs
Well you're hot. I'd stare too lol 😜
Omg, lol, well i wouldn't mind that :p
Well, hopefully you can report him and have management handle it
I'm pretty sure @Ihav2fart would take him out for you 😐
I'd better ask him lol
I personally think when he cat called you it got pretty disrespectful. I mean that's something valid to make a complaint to the staff about.
That's when it became uncomfortable for me. It was like midnight alone in a dark parking lot, not cool!
I got you Belle. ;) I'd cock block em
Yeah I can see that. How old is the guy?
He's probably around 30 and at least a foot taller and 100 lbs more than me.
Thank you @ihave2fart ❤
With a deadly fart lol