Guy being possessive in life Good or bad?
Guy being possessive in bed Good or bad?
Guy being possessive in bed Good or bad?
Guy being possessive-Good or bad?
This is a touchy subject, it's very dependent on situation and the people in the relationship. Sometimes a guy having a good claim on a girl can be attractive and sweet and loving, but when taken to an abusive level it can be dangerous. When being with an overprotective guy you can let him have a small sense of control (if you're comfortable with it) but always make sure he knows that you are in charge. I love my guy to love me so much he wants to protect me and keep me to himself BUT if he goes as far as to tell me I can't hang out with my guy friends and stuff, then NOPE. I have to make it clear that protectiveness is good to an extent. Jealousy however is not. It all truly depends on you and your loved one and the situation you find yourself in. :)
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That is a bad thing. That just comes to show you that he will be controlling everything for as long as you're with the person. Whether it be your boyfriend or just simply someone you have relations with. Do yourself a favor and get out as fast as possible. This type of man can also become violent. That's the last thing you would want in your life. Break free and Good luck!
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Well it really depends on who you are. I love being told that I am his and I belong to him. As for in bed, some people like to be Dominated.
If, however, they get to the point where they abuse you and restrict you, then the line in drawn and they cross over to the bad.
It's generaly bad, unless you have given him a reason to be that way like cheating... It could be that he truly loves you and doesn't want to loose you and therefor is possessive, and if that's the case, you need to find try to find out and find a way to put his mind at ease... It still doesn't make it right though... I feel communication is the major key/role to a healthy relationship... So if he's that way to just control you, get out now, otherwise try to find out why he is and find a way to remedy it... And if it doesn't get any better at all, you should probobly get out..
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In bed yeah, for your life? Nah. You can be with whoever you want as much as you're loyal.
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The first one is bad.
The second one... eh 50-50. -
Much of western culture attempts to scare people into thinking it's all bad. But the success of books like Fifty Shades is indicative of women/girls, on the whole, enjoying being dominated/possessed as long as they are comfortable and ultimately safe.
This is likely due to evolution causing women to adapt to what we would now call "rape" being very prevalent throughout the millennia.
This adaptation can also be seen by women displaying signs of arousal through moisture in the genital region when they sense or witness (impending) sexual activity even when it's unwanted. -
In life that depends on how possessive. I'm that way but mostly with food and things I like but if he is like possessive to the point that he would kill someone then that's bad. Possessive in bed is not really a bad thing but again it depends on how possessive he is.
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in bed, good. i'm a very strict master with my good little girls, i expect them to be on their best behavior or they're getting spankings.
in life... i mean meh do what you want free will is awesome but its still a turnon when girls like being manhandled in any aspect of their life and i'm happy to oblige -
well it depends... if he is stopping you from doing things where there is no reason to stop like what dress to wear, where to go, etc etc then its a bad thing...
but if he is telling to stop doing something which is going to hurt you or the relationship then... he is not possessive...
for example... he does not want you to talk to you ex-boyfriend... then he is not possesive... -
Ok, let me break it down.
Throat punching a guy for flirting with you = good.
Throat punching a guy for opening a door for you = bad.
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Possessive never good anytime. Its a control issue. Turns into abuse!
being dominate in bed occasionally is fine. But tryna control you, he really is just selfish and controlling. Theirs a thin line. Be careful -
epends can be good or bad it could be bad if he's controlling you and saying you can't talk to other guys then you let him know your your own person he can't control u, but also he might be protecting you from something if he is ask him bring this topic to him? Just depends got any other qustions ask me...
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It's seldom good. It can also be a red flag for future domestic violence, depending on the level and nature of the possessiveness.
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I can not taken a guy being possessive over me I feel trapped, I need someone too be equal with not someone that will control me ans since I have strong opinions not someone I would push over. But in bed sure, but I like to try different things so not only that, but so I can take charge sometime.
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Bad; he'll be a control freak and make your life miserable in the long run. Hit the eject button.
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Good cause everything belongs to me!
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Possessive to a mild degree was supposed to be a good thing I thought? Or maybe I'm thinking protective.
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its the worst kind of guy... obsessive... madly jealous... clingy... needy... all the bad stuff... mentally ill is the easiest way to say it...
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Its good to some extent. As long as they aren't psycho. Haja
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It depend on your personality I personally can't stand a possessive man but I can understand if he's possessive in bed he knows I can do better and am happy with or without him
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Being possessive is quite cute! That's good!
Being over possessive is not at all cute! :P That's bad! -
depends on the level. of course if your dating he should be somewhat "possessive" but overly jealous and such can be a sign of other bad things
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Every thing has a limit
If u feel likeur a goat then pack up ur bag and leave. Its not a good idea to be a possessive person. -
Well if you're okay with him saying your his, things like that. But not as in his slave or something. If he's too possessive, he'll start trying to control or manipulate you. Not cool.
In bed, it's yes yes. That's hot.
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