Why do men stare at me now that I have an hourglass figure?

[Lollipop94]

I'm 5'2 and I have an hourglass figure and I'm pretty thick. I used to be skinny. I was 20 pounds lighter and I was so thin and active but then when I was 16, I've gained 20 pounds and and developed more into an hourglass figure (thanks a lot mom!) And I got more attention from guys since I "filled out". One of my guy friends said, "Whoa, you filled out well!" So what? What's so special about the hourglass figure. When I was thinner I didn't get that much attention from men that I do now, well I did but not this much. I get hit on A LOT. Lucky I have a handsome boyfriend that loves me for who I am and not my body.

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I don't wear anything revealing or anything. I cover up.

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I was 105lbs and now I'm 125lbs and trying to loose the weight off.

[Anonymous]

Goodness gracious. No, men don't just want sex. You're just attractive. You can think someone looks good without wanting to have sex with them. Don't blow it out of proportion. Guys don't just want sex, and it's insane of you to think every guy just wants sex. Yeah, we enjoy a pretty looking girl. But I can tell you, from my own emotions, and many guy friends of mine, guys like sex no more or less than girls. There are just some perverted guys, just as there are some perverted girls. Please stop it with the sexism.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, 105 pounds is on the unhealthy side. You should be around 118 or 120. Do what's healthy for you.

[Lollipop94]

I'm not being sexist. I'm just telling it like it is. Are you saying im fat?

[Opinion Owner]

No. I'm saying you shouldn't try to be 105. You're seriously overreacting over everything, and you are being sexist. You're using misguided assumptions because some guy probably fucked up your view on every guy, but newsflash, we're all people. We all have minds. We all think differently.

Yes, I'm calling you the fattest person ever. No. Seriously? Are you really asking me that? God. You are the exact bane of me. You assume every guy has cruel intentions for everything they do and say. I was simply saying you should stay at the weight you are at! Good lord, quit it with the assumptions.

[Opinion Owner]

And if that was unclear, no I wasn't actually calling you fat.

[Opinion Owner]

In fact, I will quote you...

"Why are men attracted to curves? You just want sex?"

Really? Really? You can be attracted to someone and not want to have sex with them. Curves just look nice! Curves have NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX. What about me liking curves makes it seem like all I want is sex? I like dogs. I guess all I ever want in this world is dogs. Fuck having a house! DOGS FOR LIFE. No.

You're terribly misguided and it needs to stop.

[Lollipop94]

Well fuck you! If you're going to be an ass to me then don't fuck with my mind okay?

[Opinion Owner]

Fuck with your mind? Ha! You fuck with your own mind by drawing these blind assumptions. Don't misconstrue what people say just because you had a bad experience with a guy. Or else they'll get confused and pissed off like I did, and they'll piss you off. Just take it as an honest fucking answer and don't twist their damn words.

[Lollipop94]

Bitch please.

[Opinion Owner]

You say that because it's true.

[BertMacklinFBI]

they stare because you have assets, im assuming. well you used the word thick so yeah lol.

[Lollipop94]

What the fuck?

[BertMacklinFBI]

you're curvy girl! a lot of guys like curvy lol.

[Lollipop94]

Why do guys like curvy girls so much? Why you wanna have sex with me and get me pregnant? Is that all what guys want to do with a curvy girl? HUH?

[BertMacklinFBI]

don't turn me into an asshole D: but guys like curvy because as I mentioned before, your curves are assets, boobies and a nice butt are things a guy can play with and its sexually visually enticing to look at as well during a sexual activity. it turns guys on.

[Lollipop94]

So what? You jusg want so get with a curvy girl to play with her body? That's one of the reasons why I'm losing weight.

[BertMacklinFBI]

guys in general. I couldn't care less hahaa.

[Lollipop94]

Okay. Sometimes I wish I was a guy.

[miserybusiness]

LMAO omg the Asker exploded on you for no reason. Run, Bertie, run!

[BertMacklinFBI]

why would you wish that? i know there are shitty sides to both genders but why

[BertMacklinFBI]

@miserybusiness whaaat? I can barely hear you from the tree im hiding in wayyy up here xD

[BertMacklinFBI]

@misyerbusiness eets all guud :) paramore!

[BertMacklinFBI]

@miserybusiness

[heatherlu]

The hourglass figure is the general consensus for the ideal womanly shape. I mean, sure there are people who prefer others, but it's the most innately feminine. Curves in all the right places, it accentuate your assets in the best way.

[Lollipop94]

I don't care. I'm getting back to 105 pounds.

[Anonymous]

You're stating the obvious hourglass figure is the most attractive figure to males they are obviously going to be up your butt, you have to be the one not engaging with them and you have to respect yourself

[Opinion Owner]

I wish I was hourglass I used to be till I lost weight

[Lollipop94]

Them why did you lose the weight if you had an hourglass figure?

[Opinion Owner]

stress was too busy at school that I hardly ate and lost a lot of weight

[zombiebabe]

hourglass body shape is really sensual and also a pleasure to the eyes<3

[Lollipop94]

Yeah right?

[zombiebabe]

yeah!

[Prof_Don]

Your body is more curvaceous now, and men are attracted to that.

So those "stares" are due to more atttaction!

[Lollipop94]

Why are you men so attracted to curves? You just want sex?

[PhiOmega]

really? I'm surprised ur so confused, why would you expect guys to be "more" attracted to a skinny body?

do u understand what men r attracted to?

[Lollipop94]

I hate when men stare at my body.

[koko124]

because men are generally more attracted to women with that figure.

[Lollipop94]

Why though?

[koko124]

don't know. Why are women attracted to the things they're attracted to?

[Lollipop94]

Well I do like broad shoulders on a man. I like manly men but i actually care if he has a good personality. Girls want loves, boys just want sex.

[koko124]

Nah.

[Lollipop94]

Well it's true

[koko124]

eh, nah.

[AHumanBeing]

Some males prefer, as you say: "thick" figures, than skinny ones.

[Lollipop94]

Why?

[AHumanBeing]

Same reason as to why men like skinny women I guess. Think about it, why do men like skinny women? There's not really a fixed, stable reason, and the same goes for men who like slightly heavier women.

[Calex]

I guess they just want to know the time :D