Both.
The honeymoon period is over, and sometimes that can make or break a relationship.
I've just read your update, and I'm sorry, I think you're correct. Long distance relationships generally don't work. But it's down to the people, how long they've been together, if they saw each other before the relationship started etc.
The problem with long distance is it can be fine but people long for physical intimacy. It can be as simple as his female friend stays over a lot, and then they ended up getting closer and he's wishing for more, wants to give her a chance instead. Of course, she may not feel the same.
To answer your last question, yes it's usual for a guy to drop off a bit. At the start of the relationship you are happy and you want to keep that person interested, you are always thinking of each other. As the honeymoon period ends and it becomes a relationship rather than a passion-fuelled fling, things like the boss asking you do get that report done by the end of the day, doing your chores, having some chill time by yourself to get over your week's work takes over from asking your darling to dictate everything they've eaten that day. The best thing to do is to be busy yourself and just appreciate that when something is important and urgent they will pick up the phone but not over "what did you have for lunch"
Good luck.
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If he says everything is fine, take his word for it and don't worry. Perhaps he is busy, or struggling with the distance and is missing you. Is there any way you can see him more often?
He lost interest. Don't judtify him with the honeymoon phase being over excuse.
Time for you to move on too.,
Don't be worried I have no experience but from my point of view I'm having the same thing with my gf but still early in the relationship so will have to wait to see also do you put ️xxx in your messages this to me says I care and read the message and took it to heart. My gf stops now and then with xx after messages and sometimes I think ooh have I done something wrong. Hope this helps a little 😀
I have done this twice im afraid.. it is just the end of your honeymoon period.. guys lose the will for a short while, it'll pick back up after a year or so, if it doesn't, try experimentation in the bedroom
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Can i give you a hug?
dont worry - i htink you're just a new phase.
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