Shy guys if your crush asks you for a favor?

[Anonymous]

Do you do it regardless? Tell her the truth if its something you can't do but make it clear you would do it otherwise? Say no? What if its just any girl is it different?

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+1 y

For someone you have known for a bit... And you are terrible at remembering stuff and she asks you to deliver a message...

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+1 y

If you couldn't do it would you feel the need to explain why so she doesn't think badly of you? Or just say no?

[Illusive_Man]

Depends on what it is , if it involves dragging slaying and defeating satan , than I might say no , if it's like covering her lunch cos she forgot her wallet , then eh what the heck.

Got a feeling that might land me in the "Free Food" of her phone's contact list tho.

[Asker]

Lol! What if she asked you to give a message to someone and you forget stuff easily? Would you tell her that or say nothing and nod your head? Its somone you have had some interactions with before... Not completely strangers.

[Illusive_Man]

Hey that's little teeny tiny favor , SURE why not?
I thought you were talking about defeating satan by how you worded it.

[Asker]

Nope... Just wondering if you would be truthful and tell her you might forget before you see them or just do it...

[Illusive_Man]

Hey if I take on a favor I will do it to my best ability , if I don't think I can do it I'll just say no.
If you have to add a disclaimer to your favors you might as well as work in the insurance business.
That's my take.

[Asker]

Lol! He didn't say no... He just said he tends to forget his own name and didn't think he would remember when he saw the person as it would be several days... Wasn't sure what to make of that...

[Illusive_Man]

What you're talking to there is called a "Dummy" , but at least he's a honest dummy so eh I suppose.

[Asker]

Lol! Maybe he just doesn't like me...

[Illusive_Man]

or maybe he's just a bit of a dummy
You be the judge lol

[Asker]

I guess find out if ifs true first right?

[Illusive_Man]

yeppy

[Alexious]

She could just be using you...
I'd ask for details, I'm not gonna do something blindly. I'm not a Sheep.

[Asker]

She could also be testing to see if you are into her or not... You could fail...

[Alexious]

That's different though, I saw this as a irl situation lmao..

[Asker]

A what? You lost me...

[Alexious]

I thought you meant this as an 'in real life' situation.
Basically them coming over to you and asking them to do something for them..
Hence why I said, I'd ask for details. Not just do something blindly..

[Asker]

Yes, that's what I mean... And not a stranger someone you know... And not just hey..
Can you do me favor? But after hi... And a conversation goes on and she's like by the way... I won't see so and so... And I need to tell them this and give this number... Can you do it for me since you see them before I will?

[Alexious]

Regardless, even if I knew them. They still could be using me..
I have friends that have blindly done things for people they liked. It didn't end well.

[Asker]

Well NOT everyone is like that... And you are pretty young to be so cynical! Wow! Next time, just do me a favor.. don't answer if you can't give a real answer... he knows me well enough to know I don't do that. So that's not it.

[Alexious]

I'm not saying you? I'm saying me?
I don't think we're on the same page.. And I never said everyone?
Sorry..

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

It doesn't have to be my crush, i'd do it for anyone (of course by anyone i mean, people i don't specifically hate) if they asked for a favor.

[Asker]

But if you couldn't do it for whatever reason would you explain why to everyone or just for someone you didn't want to think badly of you?

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

I'd explain to it anyone. Not a very thorough explanation, but it's what politeness requires.

[Anonymous]

yeah offcourse do it without telling her truth... after all its first interaction its time to get close step by step,,, will not ruin the moment

[Asker]

What if you have had a few conversations before and she asked you to deliver a message and you know you forget stuff easily?

[Opinion Owner]

i will not forget it this time after all crush is asking for something...

[genericname85]

depends on the favor but i´d do more for her than for girls i am not interested in.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks for the input.