Confident guys, do you ever get weak in the knees over a girl?

Like being nervous around her when normally you are completely in control. Or it never happens?

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  • Confidence doesn't mean a lack of nervousness or emotion. It's simply the choice and ability to act how you want to despite those emotions. The effects tend to be mitigated, not absent. If I'm not feeling any tinge of emotion, it probably means I don't care.

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    • That's a great answer!

    • Haha, it's also the truth. When you get on stage in front of hundreds or thousands of people, it's the same feeling as talking to a girl who excites you--when you're inexperienced, it's nerve wracking, but as you gain experience and find out what works, the nervousness remains, but it becomes something that excites and motivates you rather than being frightening.

    • I believe you! And another great response!! Thank you.

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  • Did in my early years. Now one woman is the same as another in my eyes. The novelty has worn off after years of exposure.

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    • So do you see attraction as just a novelty?

    • The problem is that attraction wears off after a while. It gets replaced by something deeper or by nothing at all. If it's deeper i have a strong connection with the woman and i am no longer nervous by that point. I don't get nervous in the initial stages any more because i've been attracted to many women so i am used to the process (after all, confidence is just a lesson well learnt) so i suppose, yes, you could say i see attraction as a novelty... something or nothing can come from attraction but thats no need to lose my sense of self.

    • Those are great points! Thank you for sharing that.

  • Yes. There's always this girl that will make even the most confident guy, lose it for a second.

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    • How can you be that girl?

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    • That girl you like would be lucky to have you! Good answer and response! :)

  • In the past I would break down and just get nervous and have no confidence ( which is how girls want average guys to feel) but now that's changed, I can over power a girls looks and no longer intimidated.

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  • The closer she is to perfect, the less confident I'm going to be, so I would just have to breath and relax which will make me more confident.

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    • Just think of how good you will feel once you get her :) good luck!

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    • There's plenty of people on here who's in a happy relationship that just wants to do something in their free time. :p And I wouldn't feel right talking to someone who is in a relationship, whether it's a good or bad relationship.

    • Point well taken. Good man

  • tsk noooooo, and that's no lie ;-)

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  • By surprise, yes, sometimes I see this one gextraneous girl that stands out. I try to slap myself for staring,

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  • There is always a girl who can weaken the most confident guy. We're not immune to her charm D:

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  • Yes, but its rare. Only the girls who you really like... which again, is rare.

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  • Yes there is this one girl that drives me crazy. I get butterflies and sweaty hands when she is around.

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  • Is she on her knees? If so then it's possible my knees might buckle.

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  • there is no woman worth such a thing

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    • Is that true? ? or bitterness talkin?

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    • No man is worth my time but i still give time.

    • remind me to care

  • I'm not confident, so i guess i can't answer you :'(

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    • You can still answer if you want. Wait, i have a special question for you. Why aren't you confident?

What Girls Said 3

  • All depends if you play them right. There‚Äôs this big popular handsome player and I made him nervous because I was the only girl that ignored him.

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  • I'm wondering the same..
    But I think that this happens sometimes when the guy really likes the girl

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