Confident guys, do you ever get weak in the knees over a girl?

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(36-45)

Like being nervous around her when normally you are completely in control. Or it never happens?

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ScruffyNerfHerder Follow
Guru Age: 39

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Confidence doesn't mean a lack of nervousness or emotion. It's simply the choice and ability to act how you want to despite those emotions. The effects tend to be mitigated, not absent. If I'm not feeling any tinge of emotion, it probably means I don't care.

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- Asker
  
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  That's a great answer!
  
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- ScruffyNerfHerder
  
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  Haha, it's also the truth. When you get on stage in front of hundreds or thousands of people, it's the same feeling as talking to a girl who excites you--when you're inexperienced, it's nerve wracking, but as you gain experience and find out what works, the nervousness remains, but it becomes something that excites and motivates you rather than being frightening.
  
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- Asker
  
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  I believe you! And another great response!! Thank you.
  
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AleDeEurope Follow
Master Age: 28 , mho 33%

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Yes. There's always this girl that will make even the most confident guy, lose it for a second.

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- lucrecia3
  
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  How can you be that girl?
  
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- AleDeEurope
  
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  @lucrecia3 It depends more on what the guy is looking for in a girl. If the girl has all that he's looking for, if he thinks she's perfect, he will definitely get nervous when talking to her.
  So just focus on being the best you you can be, be the best person you can possibly be, and you'll be "that girl".
  
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- Asker
  
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  That's a great response
  
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- Secret22
  
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  That girl you like would be lucky to have you! Good answer and response! :)
  
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- AleDeEurope
  
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  @Secret22 Thanks :)
  
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Anonymous
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All depends if you play them right. There’s this big popular handsome player and I made him nervous because I was the only girl that ignored him.

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Anonymous
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I'm wondering the same..
But I think that this happens sometimes when the guy really likes the girl

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thewanderingme Follow
Guru Age: 40 , mho 31%

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...
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=976b8TPPFJU

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Neurath Follow
Explorer Age: 35 , mho 65%

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Did in my early years. Now one woman is the same as another in my eyes. The novelty has worn off after years of exposure.

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- Asker
  
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  So do you see attraction as just a novelty?
  
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- Neurath
  
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  The problem is that attraction wears off after a while. It gets replaced by something deeper or by nothing at all. If it's deeper i have a strong connection with the woman and i am no longer nervous by that point. I don't get nervous in the initial stages any more because i've been attracted to many women so i am used to the process (after all, confidence is just a lesson well learnt) so i suppose, yes, you could say i see attraction as a novelty... something or nothing can come from attraction but thats no need to lose my sense of self.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Those are great points! Thank you for sharing that.
  
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blackeagle007 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 43

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In the past I would break down and just get nervous and have no confidence ( which is how girls want average guys to feel) but now that's changed, I can over power a girls looks and no longer intimidated.

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- Asker
  
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  So experience has helped you?
  
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- blackeagle007
  
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  Very much so. A man cannot be weak. Women don't find that attractive.
  
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- Asker
  
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  That's true.
  
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Klaatu51 Follow
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tsk noooooo, and that's no lie ;-)

www.smiley-lol.com/.../napoleon1.gif

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Dakota_The_Rota Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29

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The closer she is to perfect, the less confident I'm going to be, so I would just have to breath and relax which will make me more confident.

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- Secret22
  
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  Just think of how good you will feel once you get her :) good luck!
  
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- Dakota_The_Rota
  
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  @Secret22 II would probably have a panic attack!
  
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- Secret22
  
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  Lol nooooo, you'll be too busy kissing her!
  
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- Dakota_The_Rota
  
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  @Secret22 So I'm just going to walk up to the perfect girl to me and kiss her? I think I'll get a restraining order in the mail within a week after doing that.
  
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- Secret22
  
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  Lol no no no no no! AFTER you sweep her off her feet XD
  
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- Dakota_The_Rota
  
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  @Secret22 Hahaha! Did you make that picture in your avatar?
  
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- Secret22
  
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  I could replicate it if I wanted to, but I don't have the time! That it someone else beautiful artwork XD
  
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- Dakota_The_Rota
  
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  @Secret22 Aw man, I looked at your profile and seen your occupation was art. So I thought your name was Niki for a second there!
  
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- Secret22
  
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  Lol, does the picture say Nikki on it?
  
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- Dakota_The_Rota
  
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  @secret Yes if you click on your photo, then look at the flowers and keep looking down you will see Niki, and usually people put there name some where on their drawling or painting. So I figured that was your name.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Cute. You two should lookup: )
  
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- Asker
  
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  Hookup. Lol damn phone corrector
  
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- Dakota_The_Rota
  
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  She's in a relationship and we don't know each other. :p
  
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- Asker
  
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  The relationship can't be too great... she's here isn't she? And u can get to know each other. Haha
  
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- Dakota_The_Rota
  
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  There's plenty of people on here who's in a happy relationship that just wants to do something in their free time. :p And I wouldn't feel right talking to someone who is in a relationship, whether it's a good or bad relationship.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Point well taken. Good man
  
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James0 Follow
Yoda Age: 30 , mho 32%

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350 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

By surprise, yes, sometimes I see this one gextraneous girl that stands out. I try to slap myself for staring,

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zorro8888 Follow
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There is always a girl who can weaken the most confident guy. We're not immune to her charm D:

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Anonymous
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Is she on her knees? If so then it's possible my knees might buckle.

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- Asker
  
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  Haha no
  
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Anonymous
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I'm not confident, so i guess i can't answer you :'(

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- Asker
  
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  You can still answer if you want. Wait, i have a special question for you. Why aren't you confident?
  
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Thrifty Follow
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Yes, but its rare. Only the girls who you really like... which again, is rare.

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- Thrifty
  
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  The greatest example is Leonardo DiCaprio in "The Great Gatsby" after Jay arranges to meet Daisy at Nick's house and he starts frantically pacing around...
  
  Tea Invitation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7yBQIGyunI
  
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SaltandVinegar Follow
Guru Age: 31

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408 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yes there is this one girl that drives me crazy. I get butterflies and sweaty hands when she is around.

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- Secret22
  
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  You should ask her out
  
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Anonymous
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there is no woman worth such a thing

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- Asker
  
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  Is that true? ? or bitterness talkin?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  its true
  
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- Asker
  
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  Was it always so?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  always
  
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- Asker
  
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  Oh come on... not even in grade school?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  ... no
  
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- Asker
  
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  No man is worth my time but i still give time.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  remind me to care
  
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