Why would a guy choose to date a girl with small boobs if he could get a girl with big boobs?

Question

There's this guy who seems to really like me. He is very handsome and nice. He can choose from almost any girl he wants. I have small boobs AA cups. Another girl seems to be interested in him, she is very pretty and has big boobs D or DD cups. She always try to flirt and show her cleavage to him. She has a very nice body in shape of hourglass that men like. He seems to ignore her but he always smiles at me and tries to talk to me. His friend told me he really likes me. Why? He can have a woman who looks like a woman but he would rather be with a girl who has very small breasts and almost no curves? I feel that I'm not enough woman for him and maybe he just wants to pull joke? But he doesn't seem like the man who breaks girls hearts.

Dandeus · Accepted Answer

Some guys actually prefer small boobs, first of all.

But most don't care. Boob size just isn't important. Even for guys who care about boobs, there's things like shape, perkiness, proportion to body, nipple size, areola size, skin quality that all factor into whether a pair of boobs are great. I've seen some amazing big tits, and some really awful ones as well. If your competition has droopy, floppy, veiny, stretch marked DDs with irregular areolas that point at the ground when she's naked, your perky, smooth skinned, hard nippled AAs are going to more appealing to most guys, despite being smaller.

But at the end of the day, the face is the #1 most important physical feature for guys, and personality is even more important if we're looking for a relationship.

Fact of the matter is that boobs are just boobs. Even just below the neck, you've got your ass, hips, legs, and stomach as the other obvious considerations. Then you have guys who worship feet, or collarbones, or long slender necks, or other specific details you never really think about.

Boob size is really one VERY tiny aspect of all the different things that can be attractive on a woman.

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

Believe it or not but many men have this thing for women with your figure. He's not pulling any thing here, his attraction to you can very easily be legit.

If one were to try and explain why some men think this way, it could have something to do with you looking more girly (which means you're more fun), while a woman with more womanly features looks more mature (thus less interesting).

None of that has to be the case, but the subconscious mind works in mysterious ways.

SammyGurl · Accepted Answer

It's not just your body, breasts which attract guys. Believe it or not there are guys who could care less that a girl is top heavy, some even see it as unattractive. Obviously he sees more that two blobs of concentrated fat on your chest! More like he sees your personality, your fun to be with, he can talk to you... He's attracted to you, because of you, because you are who you are!

dolphiny · Accepted Answer

not everything is about boobs.. your personality is probably better, and he vibes better with you. this means he likes you better. and maybe he likes smaller boobs? and if she tries too hard to be flirty and show her cleavage off, she probably doesn't have a decent personality.

Angel_Roux · Accepted Answer

Boobs aren't everything. And maybe he likes small boobs. People like that exist. Personality also comes into play. Maybe both of your personalities are more compatible than him and the other girls. Curves dont equal a woman. Real women come in many different shapes and sizes.

xxxHolicxxx · Accepted Answer

Perhaps because he's not shallow and he's attracted to you as a person? He sounds like a catch to me! :)

heavensgift2girls · Answer

Are you implying that a woman's worth is directly related to her boob size? Do you have any idea how silly that is? If you have been made fun of in the past it was because you exposed an insecurity you had, and an asshole decided to hurt you for no other reason than they could. That is just what bullies do.

Guys like a far wider range of women than the media would have you believe. Every guy has his own preferences which means that there is no perfect body shape. It depends on what the guy likes.

You don't need to be a man's ideal in every way to have him love you. Even if a guy does like bigger breasts you could have another trait he likes so much more that even girls with big breasts don't have a chance against you. His preferences are his own. All you need is you accept that there are plenty of guys that will find you attractive.

lumos · Answer

Lmao girl you need to take a seat. Not everything is about boob size, you should know this by now if you really are 18-24. There's more to attraction than boob size, there's more to relationships than boob size. NOT EVERYTHING just boils down to boob size. Stop thinking so lowly of guys AND yourself and start appreciating the fact that someone actually seems to like you for who you are and not for your boob size. Come on now.

Meesterlijk · Answer

He really likes you! Don't be insecure about some other girl's breasts... Tits are not as important to guys as girls think they are. (They are soft though..) A cute smile and pretty face are in most cases what attracts a guy the most of all physical features. (And even then, personality is more important than looks!) You're not just 'a girl with small boobs'. He's attracted to you and maybe even in love with you. Trust me, most guys would never 'pull joke'. Most guys just want to have a really nice girlfriend. And you may be his really nice girlfriend. If you like him the way he seems to like you, give him a chance! You may end up very happy together!

parkway · Answer

You are the problem. I would not date you for a simple reason your self negative attitude.

Not everyone is into a woman wearing to big milk sac off the front of their chest. They are just glands and in some countries they are made very sexual and other they are just what they are.

The best times of my life have been with small chested women, in short God knows where to hide true beauty. Rethink your thinking it is flawed the moment you feel good about you, life begins for you.

Ozanne · Answer

With your logic I would have never been rejected by any guy, like ever. I have big boobs and I have been told I'm pretty, yet guys still passed me over for women very different from me. I'm blonde, and I know some men like dark haired women. I'm short, and I know some men like taller women. I'm independent and some men are intimidated by that. I come from a good home and I know some men for whatever joke of a reason, like some women who are needy with problems (and yes, it was revealed to me by one guy who admitted this to me). So whatever the case, men have types, and though a guy might to look at big boobs it doesn't mean that it's the be all/end all of a relationship if she doesn't have them. Some guys fall in love with a woman because of her cute face and nice personality and is totally satisfied with the cup size she has no matter how big or small.

martyfellow · Answer

Few guys care that much about a girl's breast size, Just the weirdos buying the girlie mags, and guys under 15.

dogbert777 · Answer

Size of boobs really doesn't matter. It's you that matters. How he relates to the real you inside, your personality, the way you tick. You are woman enough to be able to handle any man that comes along, I promise. For what it's worth, both my mum and my sister are prob about your size and only 5' 1" tall.

TadCurious · Answer

Believe it or not, guys aren't just attracted to girls with big breasts. You shouldn't feel less worthy of a guy's attention just because you have smaller breasts. If I like a girl, I couldn't care less how big her breasts were. If I like her, I'm going to be attracted to her just the way she is, whatever size she is.

Reginelli · Answer

Because he likes you more. Just because she has bigger boobs and curvier body doesn't mean she is a better person for him. He may think you are sexier than she is. Its all in what he likes. He may not even be paying attention at your bodies and just like you better anyway. If he likes you go with it. Don't downgrade yourself and say you are not good enough. He likes what he likes.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Not everything is about one body part - he may find both of you pretty, but connect better with you. Even if it is all one body part, something like 1/3 guys -prefers- small breasts.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

maybe because boobs have nothing to do with character and personality.

AshleyMD · Answer

He is probably attracted to small boobs. Also he could like all sizes of boobs and you might just win in other areas for him.
No one thinks they're good enough for someone they find to be perfect in their eyes, just go with it but don't fall too hard just in case he changes his mind.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a crush on this petite girl in my class i'm mesmerised by her charm and her personality
So either he likes you because of your personality
And not all guys like big boobs some like small :)
I however appreciate a fine body regardless of the size you know? It depends on other things as well may be face, eyes, hair, ass
Hope you get what I mean

gray_sailor · Answer

Maybe the boobs are not as important as the woman they are attached to.

He likes you, if you like him then that's a perfect match.

Let the other girl find a man who likes her for who she is instead of the size of her bra.

azalea0912 · Answer

Breast size doesn't matter. A guy should date you because they like you for who you are as a person, not your breast size. If that's the only reason a guy wanted to date you, then he's a jerk and you should just walk away.

hswhis · Answer

Guys don't use just one measuring stick - boob and bra size. There is more to a woman that that and they know it.

Sara413 · Answer

Because guys have different taste - not all guys are into massive boobs... some prefer smaller ones. Some don't really care at all.

zazada12 · Answer

Can't even begin to explain how much questions like this are beginning to bug me.

She has big boobs. so. fucking. what.

i have big boobs. just as big as hers. so? a guy isn't going to just want me because i have big boobs (and if they do, it's for purely sexual reasons and thats not wanted basically).

stop acting like women are nothing except a pair of boobs. That mindset is really disgusting and offensive.

Frost_Byt3 · Answer

Boob size isn't tha important. Either he likes your face better, or he simply likes you for your personality.

Polswedgirl · Answer

Because boobs aren't the most important thing in the world. Maybe he doesn't like her personality.

Prof_Don · Answer

All guys like boobs. Not all guys like big boobs.

Learning_English · Answer

Because pretty girls sometimes are better than "boobs" and sometimes we like the girl because of her personality and personal preference. I like breasts but this is not really so important and a lot of girls are pretty even with small boobs.

breastman69 · Answer

Well some guys like little TiTs , I'm not one of them but they are out there & U also have U'r personality , he must like that aswell as U'r Little TiTs !!! I say U should just go for it , U don't know if U don't try !!! Good Luck LT.

zombiebabe · Answer

boobs aren't the only things which matter when a guy is looking for a gf

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

I prefer small, petite and not so 'curvy,' but boobs don't hold that much sway anyway. If I like the girl then I like whatever boobs she has.

Ihav2fart · Answer

Cause there's more to a relationship than her boobs...

muspelhem_5 · Answer

There is much more to a person than their boobs and their body. Maybe he just thinks you are beautiful and have an attractive personality.

Ulyss · Answer

Its not all about the boobs its about who owns the boobs

front2back · Answer

Maybe because there's more to a girl's worth than her cup size?

Phoenix1991 · Answer

Everyone has different preferences and likes, maybe he connected with her or he finds her attractive, doesn't mean you're any less attractive. You will get a great guy without competing with anyone.

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys are less in to boobs. It could be that he's just really attracted to you for some reason. Or he doesnt' like the other girl. Big tits aren't everything.

Paddy2764 · Answer

small boobs are sexier than big boobs and its not always looks that attract guys

Anonymous · Answer

Why would a woman choose to date a man with a small penis when she can get a man with a bigger one?

Same answer as with your question-- because connection and personality are more important than the size of body parts.

AboveTheClouds · Answer

I really don't care about how big your boobs are. I love you, because I love you. Not because of your body.

jtgibson85 · Answer

He may have choose you because you are a great person and someone he could see himself with. Breast are nice, but personality and character matter that much more.

Werewolfy · Answer

Because boobs aren't everything and men are not as shallow as some rabid manhaters would have you believe.

jess41076 · Answer

He sounds like he's more interested in you as a person and not the size of your boobs. There's more to you than just what your body looks like and he probably sees that.

easy2please · Answer

Most women I know with your figure are more fun and are less hung up on how they look. This in my experience leads to a more loving and lasting relationships

llorando · Answer

Because boob size isn't as important as personality is. Most of the time boob size isn't a deal breaker.

Roadcruiser1 · Answer

Not every Guy is attracted to looks. Maybe you need to have a bit more self confidence so you can love yourself more. :).

geraya-sansey · Answer

it doesn't matter the size of boobs, the good girl is the one who has good personality and manners , not big boobs, so do not underestimate your self

Anonymous · Answer

If I like you then I do not care about your boob size or anything at all. No girl will steal me away from you.

linkywinky · Answer

Because boobs aren't shit if you don't have an awesome personality AND pretty face to go with 'em.

TripleAce · Answer

Maybe her booty Is nicer... Lol Booty surely takes precedent over boobies

Anonymous · Answer

Because small boobs are better. The thought all guys like big boobs is wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

Because guys don't care that much about breast size. Most guys are fine with any normal sized boobs.

JamielovesKU · Answer

He might not care about boob size...

zorro8888 · Answer

Uhh because boobs don't define a girl.

meatballs21 · Answer

I like small AA boobs, that's why.

madhatters4 · Answer

boobs aren't everything

Daniel121 · Answer

... you have an offensively low view of guys

karthickkv · Answer

Better b careful he may leave u after sex

Luvme66 · Answer

All guys are not always about boobs..

JackPack · Answer

I prefer small breasts ;)

bubbletrouble · Answer

Boobs aren't everything

Anonymous · Answer

smaller boobs means tighter vagina

abc--123 · Answer

Maybe he likes your personality.

CourtJester · Answer

Maybe he is not as shallow as you think.

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