Today he rubbed his pinky finger on my hand and touched me several times on the arm.
Why is he doing this?
He's hitting on you and you need to know that that's not cool. I assume you're very uncomfortable when he does this. If there's someone in authority over him you should tell them what he's doing. You should also make clear to your boss that you're not comfortable with what he's doing. And take notes of what he's done; what he's said; what you've done and said, and when it all happened.
In some countries touching is very common. Kisses on the cheek are acceptable hellos and goodbyes.
If he's not foreign though, then he's either trying to be a bit more of a ladies man (which is inappropriate in the workplace) or he's hitting on you.
Clearly, he is flirting with you.
People that aren't flirty usually aren't so touchy feeling.
If this makes you uncomfortable complain to someone in a higher position and write a letter to the department.
If you like your boss... then be smart enough to not engage in any sexual behavior with him.
That should not happen in a professional work environment.
I don't like it at all. It makes me feel uncomfortable
Sexual harassment!! Tell him to quit doing it. If it persist, time to file that to the human resources center. Touching you without permission is definitely creepy, uncomfortable and not cool at all!
That's not ok if you do not want to be touched and are not looking for that kind of relationship with him.
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UGH. Been there...
It's harassment. You need to tell him to stop. Say "Can you please keep your hands to yourself? Thank you". If he doesn't listen, then you should report to the company's Human Resources.
The question "why" isn't nearly as important as the question "what do you intend to do about it?"
Tell him to stop. If he fails to stop, report him.
Long story cut short, it sounds like your boss wants to get into your pants.
this is sexual harassment.
if he ever put his hands on you, cut them off girl !!
Oh oooo you have a situation here
This is all too common in the workplace... your boss shouldn't be touching you like that at all
That's sexual harassment at work place. You need to tell him to stop.
He's a pervert who can't keep his hands to himself.
My sister has just said the exact same thing to me!
Hell yeah! He probably thinks he's being smooth, but we can see right through him.
Shit. He's absolutely hitting on you. Been there and it SUCKS.
don't let him do basically!!
if he hasn't got yer permission... then DON;T!!
I have been avoiding him, putting my arms behind my back and distancing myself yet he always manages to get a touch in!
I may have to change jobs
That's called sexual harassment and if you keep letting him do that he will take advantage of it. I would immediately stop it if I were you.
Wait until he does something stupid and file a harassment lawsuit get him fired and some money.
He is checking ur attitute... Be away or show ur uncomfortablity if u don't like :)
Who cares why? Sue his ass! Sexual harassment!
sounds like a good chance to get promotion.
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