How does a shy guy react when offended?

[Cruch101]

This shy guy clearly likes me but has problems making a move so i made it easy for him by inviting him to a dance lesson that i was taking since he already came by the other day to check it out. He didn't come in but was watching from outside ( i didn't see him). He didn't come that day i invited him but my friend told me he was downstairs at the gym the same time as the class went on upstairs. He texted me afterwards; couldnt make it. To ease his mind i texted back; lol darling ure shyness is in a whole another level but its ok. Come whenever ure ready :). He didn't open my message until 2 days after which is unlike him and he didn't text anything back. Did i offended him?

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Urghh this has been taking 6 months. I dont know what to do anymore. We using different method of approach. He wants to bump in to me casually by going to places were i usually go (im too spontanious so he never sees me there) and i like to plan things so i invite him on casual things with my friends which in tge beginning either got cancelled/prosponed so it scares him even more if i attempt to ask him to join us nowadays. We hardly/ not at all see eachother anymore. Why doesn't he ask me out?

[AlwaysBelieving]

Do you know if he's an introvert or an extrovert?

Introvert = needs to be alone to "recharge"

Extrovert = recharges by being around others.

Did you really text him, "lol darling ure shyness is in a whole another level but its ok. Come whenever ure ready. "? How do you know he didn't check the message until two days later?

[Cruch101]

Semi-introvert because we have good conversation face2face although his kind of shy. Yes i did text him that but I've used the word darling before so i dont think he would get offended by that. Messenger (fb) shows when some1 read the text.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Have you used the word darling before on fb?

[Cruch101]

Yes i always do that

[AlwaysBelieving]

Try not using that word for a bit. Since he's shy, he might be too "focused" on what people may think about you calling him that (I don't have fb so I'm not sure if those comments can be read by others).

[Ulyss]

I don't know I think you did offend him and that is so hilarious what type of guy gets easily offended xD

[risaharue]

I liked a shy guy myself, and when I tend to make him offended or upset, they won't show you any emotions for awhile. I'm saying this because I am shy myself... But I don't think you offended him at all. Just give him some time and try to talk to him again, next time without the darling thingy? XD

[Anonymous]

If she's really shy, he already knows it, he probably feels like a little bitch. What you said probably emasculated him even further.

[Despondency]

You didn't offend him.