Ex friends with benefits has secretly recorded a sex tape of us?

[Anonymous]

I'm completely angry and feel dumb af. When me and my ex friends with benefits had sex I felt like we were in a porno and suspected he recorded us but kept doubting it cause i figured it would have gotten around and i would have known, I recently talked to one of his buddy's and my friends with benefits said that he smashed me and my friend didn't believe it but he said " i can show you proof right now but i dont wanna hurt your feelings" cause my friend likes me. My friend then said he didn't think too much about it cause he thought he was just tryna get back at him cause my friend smashed this girl he really liked. . once i found this out i was horrified!!! my friend said all of his main friends have probably seen it and once his bestfriend was staring the shit outta me at a party. I do not know what to do...

[ambertaylor]

Don't make it seem like it's bothering you, else he will know that it's getting to you and that's what he wants - a reaction. If someone says anything just say something sassy and laid back. My friend was in the same situation in high school and people were coming up to her all excited and she just said "yeah it's hot right? my boobs look awesome" and "I know, it doesn't do ****'s tiny penis any justice" and everyone just was like yeah ok it's just sex and it was forgotten about in a few days.

[Anonymous]

Ask him to delete it in front of you. Make sure thatbisnthe only copy.. And next time stop the fucking, use you brain and search around the room

[Anonymous]

Depending on the country it illegal to film sex with out your consent