Guys, what do you think about your FWB?

[Anonymous]

are you attracted to her, like her, think she's hot, or you just are in it for hooking up? don't you have to be somewhat into her to constantly hook up with her? I'm just trying to understand friends with benefits from a guys perspective

[anysound]

personally, I don't have one or want one because I think it would interfere with a potential relationship in the future so it looks better on me if I've only slept with girlfriends but I would definitly think she looks good because when sex is the only thing that matters then looks are one of the only things that matter, but yeah guys are just trying to get laid. simple as that, they follow by the philosophy of if it feels good do it, or theyre doing it to fit in or whatever, guys can be complicated too but when they are complicated they are REALLY complicated because they won't sit there telling everything on thier mind, although girls do lie a lot for many reasons

[anaughtymouse]

We all think she's hot, but we prefer to be friends, because we don't love her or just don't want to deal with the commitment, or like the freedom. If she wasn't hot we wouldn't do her. Guys are really shallow. The ones who aren't shallow don't have FWB's... typically

[Anonymous]

Most guys do not have to have romantic feelings (even a little bit) to hook up with her. They can very easily separate sex from romance. even a guy thinking a girl's hot doesn't mean anything more than just basic attraction. A guy can have sex with a girl he doesn't like whatsoever simply because he's horny and she's willing. A word of advice: if you care about the guy at all and have feelings for him, never let yourself become fwb...if he isn't willing to have a relationship with you then you don't mean much to him

[hellothere]

If a guy is having a FWB he most likely just sees her as a sexual object, no other emotions are involved