"She's not my type"

[Anonymous]

guys what do you REALLY mean when you say that? is the girl ugly to you or what? what are some turn offs or situations that would make you say that about a girl?

this guy said that about me tonight and it did get to me. I don't like him in that way (dated a few of my friends) but he went out of his way to say it and he's not the first guy who has said that about me. I am just trying to figure out what it is about me that seems to be such a turn off to people.

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Well what usually makes a girl ugly? I know I'm not the prettiest girl but I want to know because I'm tired of being the unattractive one.

[whatdoiknow]

If I would say that then it would mean she is not the type of personallity I would have a relationship with if it was about looks I would say "i don't find her attractive" or something like that.

So depends on the person generally it just means your not the kind of girl he would be attracted to and probably not that you are physically unnattractive, I see many girls who are good looking who are not my type.

[NoLimitArtist]

Yea it usually means something physical or attitude wise that made him not attracted to you, and the fact that the guy went out of his way to tell you that, well that's just an asshole move on his part, so don't let it get to you, because there is some guy that will like you for who you are and whatever faults you may have

[Anonymous]

She's not my type in my dictionary means she's ugly but that wasn't cool what he said at least he should of not said it to your face or whatever. Just keep your head up don't let it get to you and move on.

[blah52]

I doesn't necessarily mean your ugly, he just wouldn't be interested in dating you.

[Anonymous]

It can either be directed towards physical appearance or personallity.