Because the number of women who actually look like that is actually small in comparison to the number of women who don't actually look like that.
Why then do they always have boyfriends, simple it usually but not always but usually because while they are dating one they know there is a very long line of other men waiting for a go on the horse.
So for them then, it's just a matter of hopping from one to the next if they choose.
But you see here's the problem, for them they know more than anyone that their life is based almost purely on their looks, no matter how hard they work or how good they'll become at something their life is all about how they look, their success is because of their looks and so are their failures, criticised for being beautiful and so success is easy and forgiven for failure because if their looks so nobody should expect anything from them.
For me then I assume that's a pretty miserable life because at the end of the day when they sit alone knowing that at some point those looks are going to fade, but in the meantime their whole life is based purely on their outward appearance.
I know so many women like this who when drunk tell me how they despise their lives and how they look, how much they'd give to look normal and just be accepted because of something they can do not how they look, that it must be wonderful to speak to people and not see that they are listening just to try and get into your pants, how it must be wonderful to be with somebody because they value you not your looks.
It's usually at this point I give up because I know that she's too drunk to let me get into her pants so I get them a taxi and send them home and it's usually at this point they realise I wasn't listening to anything they said just pretending so that I can get into their pants.
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It's because a lot of men are just desperate, and are willing to put up with anything.
First, check out this thread from bodybuilding. com: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=168948903&page=1
One of the guys on the forum made a POF profile where he took a picture of a fat woman, photoshopped her with a pig nose and hair on her chest. "She" got a lot of messages, some from pretty good looking men (at least much better looking than her), within a few hours. That's more than any of those men would get. Here are a few screenshots:There are guys who become addicted to paying webcam girls for "webcam sex". There are guys who will pay women on streaming sites to watch them play video games. There are even guys who are willing to spend hard-earned money to pay gamer girl Belle Delphine for her bathwater:
https://www.businessinsider.com/belle-delphine-instagram-bathwater-pornhub-2019-7?r=US&IR=T
Those kinds of men are just so pathetic, so desperate for female attention that they'll literally do and put up with anything to get female attention. The guys who go for the women you posted are almost the same.
When I was a little girl I was always bullied for being weird. I read books and I and I was always afraid to stand up for myself. I rarely ever wore new clothes and my hair stayed in a ponytail for the first 16 years of my life. My family was very poor and I grew up in a house that many “tomboy” type girls would feel was beneath them. I was a tomboy, one of the guys, up until I was about 16. Once I became a woman of my own, I realized I wanted to be a girly girl. Not a tomboy like my mother. I pampered myself every chance I got on facials and nail polish. My mom was upset that I didn’t join the basketball team like she had when she was my age but I wanted to be a cheerleader. But I was too shy to tryout. I was allowed to have a boyfriend and so, although many boys asked me out in my teen years, I had to say no. I didn’t have a boyfriend until I was 20. Well into my “girly” ways. I started working my ass off and never asked that boy for a dime. By then I was fascinated with lashes and makeup and I wanted to be a model. People were always telling me I should. My parents did not give me a thing, I was not spoon fed. Nobody helped me so much as get to work without collecting $100 a week. I paid my way in life and the least i deserved was to feel girly and feminine. Somewhere along the lines people started calling me “high maintenance”. People who didn’t know anything about me. And I ignored it and never tried to argue with anybody about who I was. I was always called pretty even when I was barefaced, and my ex boyfriend encouraged me to love myself. But he eventually left me for a girl who was further along in her “high maintenance-ness” than me. She looked like an Instagram model long before I did. But the point of what I’m trying to say is, don’t judge a book by its cover
Men are visual and sometimes very dumb creatures. They say they want a natural looking girl but the pictures that they’re referring to the girl is obviously wearing makeup 💄 most of the time when it comes to that they don’t know what they’re talking about. 😩
Since these “Barbie” types as you call them are very feminine and attractive they generally have their pick of men. Now notably if she’s just a hateful, rotten or a crazy person on the inside most men will run for the hills. Most are smart enough to know they don’t want that long term.
These girls even though they’re very focused on their looks in some ways doesn’t always make them shallow or dumb they just know how to play their cards and looking their best boosts their self esteem so usually they’re very confident. Confidence is attractive to all genders and if she feels good about herself she’s most likely happy and men are attracted to happy women. So they’re pretty much the perfect storm for attracting a mate. Whether or not their relationships or marriages are good and last only time will tell.
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They do not find them unattractive. They simply cannot have them. Sour grapes
Well usually they're attractive women or they couldn't live that kind of life. In the house I grew up in we actually had one of these girls. Her parents weren't rich but she was an only child I think she was quite spoiled. She almost never came out to play with us and stayed in her room she had her own computer at a very young age and bak then they were way more expensive.
When she grew up she was dating soccer players from the cities team like the U21 players they had their cars with the team logo. She dumped one and moved on to another guy. If she wasn't attractive she couldn't have kept up the spoiled lifestyle but I guess it worked out for her. She did kinda have a bit of a arrogant attitude like she was really interested in status and if you didn't live up to the level she saw herself at, she treated you as lesser even if you were just a neighbor or whatever. It wasn't extreme but when she got older she didn't spend any time with anybody else in the house at all it's like she didn't live there. The rest of us kids were very close so it was noticeable.Gonna go out on a limb and say the guys dating those girls aren't also saying they're not into barbie/glitzy types lol. That and/or what you view as a barbie type isn't the same as them.
To me a girl can be glitzy, but not barbie or high maintenance. Like a Audrey Hepburn type of woman. Definitely glitzy, but people would call her Classy not Barbie. High maintenance is more about an attitude/personality type rather than a look. A girl can be done up and put time/effort into her look without being high maintenance.
High Maintenance from the guys perspective means work she has for YOU to do. Not the effort she puts into herself. She needs you to do XYZ in order to be happy. That's high maintenance. Not taking extra long to get ready, put on the nails, brows and all that noise.
Barbie types vary I would say. To me, barbie type means fake tits, if they're not naturally big, straightened hair or always purmed, tight clothes always, always wearing some form of heels/wedges. Always has a pair of shades on her, always has her purse. Fake nails, not just painted. Full on fake nails. To me that's what a barbie type of girl is. Not just a girl who has nails done, hair done, everything did lol
Personally, I do not care if a girl is all done up. But I do want a girl who puts effort into her look. Doesn't need to be crazy. Just some effort. Like the girls who do the bare minimum by maintaining a good hairstyle for them. Does her eyes, shaves pits/legs, then I'm good to go. Legs don't even have to be pristine. Little grazers are fine to me and I like a little hair down low anyways, so a quick buzz is more than enough to me. Outside of that I just do not care as far as a girls effort in her appearance. I appreciate she wants to look good for me, but that's what I care about rather than the individual things she put effort into.You are completely misreading whats happening. Men love barbie girls. Every girl I dated has been what you would call a "princess" or "Barbie" but I have never dated nor would i a "Queen" or a "diva". They all look the same but are totally different.
Barbie princesses like to do up their makeup and stuff BUT they want a man to lead them, be in charge of them, be responsible for them. They act as feminine as they look and they enjoy looking this way. These girls typically do everything up yet if you threw them in the pool they would giggle and have fun with it, not a care in the world about their makeup.
diva Queens are demanding and thus demand to look this way. If you threw one in the pool she would yell at you and scream about how you ruined about $50 of beauty supplies and hours of her time. They typically do not act feminine much at all and demand to be in charge.
When men complain about high maintenance girls, they don't complain about a girl who is pleasant and just like to look pretty when she can. They are complaining about girls that DEMAND certain makeup and get pissy if you interrupt their beauty process and would never go swimming because it will make her look ugly when her makeup washes off. Fuck that!
They all look hot so of course they will get attention but overall men like Barbie princesses and do not like diva Queens.Have you notice those guys who complain a lot about how expensive women are? Those are the one who like this type of girls. They generalize about woman beign expensive because they are talking about the woman they like: princesses. They have no eyes for regular women, only for their type: princesses. The rest of women aren't women, they are the atrezzo of life.
Usually those guys want a girl mostly because of his status, her beauty and sex. They don't really care about personality, sharing anything in common or so. They want a woman that help their status, that make them look "like a winner", a woman they can brag about and make other people feel envy. Also someone to fuck that looks good enaugh to get an easy boner.Look, it's not that no man finds them attractive. A certain group of men actually do. A certain group of wealthy men actually prefer such women. And those are the kind of men these women end up with. But other kinds of men, especially your average Joe, doesn't really desire a woman like her.
Also, remember this scandal with an influencer (I forgot her name) who got exposed for having a 'fake' boyfriend? She was paying a male model/actor to pretend to be in love with her on camera. A lot of women do that online, believe it or not! It's easy to fake all of it. That particular influencer got exposed because she was misbehaving with the dude she hired and she was starting to control his life outside of his interactions with her (remember he was just a paid actor, he has a personal life outside of it that she shouldn't be controlling).Great question! These barbie high maintenance people who treat others poorly are usually manipulative. The guy finds her attractive and unattractive at the same time. The personality turns them off BUT given a certain special attention and the right excuses, some may overlook the personality and focus on the appearance. They say oh i just want her for this or that but those are excuses to disguise the fact he's caught in a web. The more attractive physically, the more said persons will put up with them. Thus you have a superficial relationship with both people having self serving intentions. It happens to a lot of people and thats just part of life. They key is to learn to focus on healthier relationships and learn.
They find high maintenance attractive if they are hot, but not many men like the fake looking girls with massive lips and cakey makeup. there should be a separate polls for these. high maintenance where they use a lot of procedures to make the hair perfect, skin tanned, nails on point... but still with no surgeries or injections they are fine with it. now when they start with procedures... not many men can tolerate this. and both of these types of girls are hardly considered girlfriend material for them. more like for hookups
They're not really attracted to them for who they are. They're attracted to their looks because it gets them hard for SEX. That's it. Trophy women. And most of these guys are just desperate. For Sex. The truth is they don't get the best type of guys. They just get guys who will anything just to have a girl that meets their fantasy. It's just a FANTASY. Because in truth, they haven't found the right girl who isn't like that and plus their pressured by society to pursue those women. So. No. They don't find them attractive by character. Just looks and that's it. Plus depending on the background of the said men, it's all about image. Only about 1 or 2 women in those photos are not like that. The rest are.
If we think logically about it, there is often a reason these women feel they need to doll themselves up. I think you will find that often the kind of women who excessively doll themselves up have low self esteem stemming from their unhappiness with their natural appearance. This lack of self esteem and inner confidence is often"artificially" boosted when they gauge their inner value on the the men they date and their outer value. Not all men do, but many men do actually find these women attractive. Ironically regardless of how attractive their appearance is perveived they are often easier to date as they unconciously beleive their value is tied to these superficial things. This may also be why they appear to date "more" men and why the relationships they have are often short lived. The successful relationships I have seen from woman who are dolled up that I know are woman who also possess inner beauty, self confidence and self esteem as well. Hope that helps.
Because men who are wealthy, can afford those types of girls.
Once again, as usual, this may offend some, but it is the truth.
One of the main reasons men seek relationships with women is for sex. This is not all we want but it is a huge driving factor. Anyone who tells you differently is telling you what you want to hear.
Now these women tend to spend a lot of time on their appearance because they know what their role is and they take care of their body. Also as I said wealthy men can afford them.
I personally would avoid these types of women even if I had millions. But if you think about it. If you take a more humble girl instead you will probably turn her in to princess because she went have to work. Plenty if money to shop. Plenty if time to workout and she will not want to lose her man so she will be hitting the gym. That's my 2 centsWe do find they sexually attractive, rich guys can handle these women because they can pay for what the women want. (She is a sex object he is a Financial object like a bank ). We do find these women very physically attractive hate having to take care of their high maintenance and we hate having to buy their crap and we hate the demanding part. The reason a rich guy can get away with dating these women is because he can pay for there needs the women know they can’t bitch about them making 500,000 dollars a year. With your average guy we can’t and so we hate there personalities not there beauty.
I can't speak for other guys but me personally I dont find those type of women attractive at all. I found the best woman and I love her so very much. She's a bit of a tomboy and I like that a lot about her. She's very down to earth and speaks her mind. She doesn't need to get all fancied up unless the occassion or work calls for it. Last night I was telling her I started to miss seeing her with her short natural hair rather than the extensions she's been wearing for work. I kind of miss seeing her freckles as well now that I think about it.
Most guys aren't good looking and usually can't play at this level, but the ones who are get tired women that place their value above a man's simply based on looks.
Physical attraction may allow a woman to be more noticeable, but it is only a single facet point in a multi-facetted competition. Yes, life and love are competitions.
So, while some may think your looks are an asset, others may see them a great liability.
But, to answer your question, most never means all and some guys are willing to use that face to open doors, no matter what the cost.I'm not a man , yet I do believe they find femeninity attractive. Not every woman whos' put toghether and looks polished, in a"high mantenanced way" is materialistic or is only looking to become a trophy wife. In my personal case, I'm doing a PhD and yes Im kind of those woman phisically, I love looking beautiful and am tired of seeing how society "battles" appareance with innter personality and values. Why can't some of us have both worlds? Yes I do also aknowledge each person is different. You might meet women who are like the pictures and are superficial and guys who aim towards that.
Have you seen the men that these women are dating?
I used to do marketing with a lingerie company, so I used to work with models on the daily basis and do photoshoots with them. A lot of them (not all) are the women you have described - high maintenance/Barbie/glitzy type women.
A lot of these men are just bums who are players and got the girl by knowing how to sweet talk them. On the flipside, a lot of these men that they date are usually in their late 50s/60s and they are rich enough to deal with the girl's high maintenance lifestyle.I don't believe that's true. Lots of high maintenance woman are very nice people, and they're in a happy long-term relationship. People who say high-maintance women are unnatracive say that, because they assume good-looking people and high maintenance woman aren't nice people. Which is totally is founded. Those women in the photos you've posted are very attractive
Many I know, are that way because they lack confidence and self-esteem. Their self-esteem is gained by making the most of themselves and transforming their self-image.
If I could afford to be high maintenance, I would be.It's a known fact written on a scroll somewhere that is hidden in a temple in a far off land. That a woman no matter what she looks like will always be able to have a boyfriend. Now is this most men you know find these Barbie glitzy women unattractive? Who is to say that they are the best guys. You only see what they want you to see. Guys who seek out a woman purely for their looks I'm going to say that you don't want to be around these shallow mofos. Let them chicks have those dudes and if the dudes want to put up with their crap just sit back and enjoy the show.
They tend to either be shallow guys who want a similarly shallow girl for arm candy, or they tend to look like whipped dogs when out in public with their ritzy girlfriends.
I’m sure I’m being overly hash, but I’m just talking shit. I’m sure some guys have other reasons for being into them. Some can be somewhat driven career wise.I don't really care that they have a boyfriend. I care that she's not attractive to me because I don't like their bullshit. If some other guy wants to put up with it then that's on him, but I genuinely do not find those kinds of women to be appealing even when they are physically attractive. Much of my sexual attraction and arousal is tied to how I feel about your personality. If it's not there, I simply can't be into you.
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