If I invite a guy to my hot tub at night, who obviously has interest in me, will it give him the wrong idea that I want sex?

[Serah8675309]

This guy and I have been talking but he literally always is complimenting how pretty I am. I want to talk to him in person cuz in school we don't see each other. So I figured maybe il invite him to my hot tub tonight and talk to him. I just don't want him thinking I'm gonna have sex with him

[PeachSunset]

Lmao yes and teens tend to overthink things like that. If you don't want to give him the impression that you want sex then don't invite him to your hot tub cause even I think thats sexual, lets admit it, inviting a guy to chill in your hot tub alone at night is basically a sex invitation in itself. But if its a group party then its obviously not anything sexual. So if you want to hang out with him just invite him to your place period or if you really like water go to a waterpark lmao

[Michonne551]

Yes, I think it could. Maybe don't do anything where it's at home/you're wearing little clothing too soon if you're not looking to hook up soon.

[MikenotIke2]

It's pretty suspicious to invite someone to a hot tup at night without the intent of it going further than just chilling. Just don't skinny dip but also don't try to cover up any more than you would normally wear in a hot tub or else it's kinda weird.

[Browneye57]

Seriously? You're gonna get basically naked in a hot tub and think that no one is gonna think about sex? Really?
And why wouldn't you? Confused about man-woman relations are we?

[Skylane]

Most definitely. If you want to just talk. Ask him to lunch or Starbucks or something. Not something intimate like a hot tub especially if you aren't ready for this outcome.

[mystintri]

Yeah. You just want to turn him on, raise his hopes, and then break them.

I don't need your response to know I'm right on this one.

Try a coffee shop. Not a half naked, sensual, secluded place.

[VirginiaBeachBum]

You better make sure he knows the ground rules up front, or don't do it at all. Yes, it's generally a signal that sex is likely.

[RomansToPhilemon]

You don't have to have sex with him, but at least kiss him

[Noxifer626]

You are inviting him to be near you. While both of you are half naked. And covered in water. Sexual undertone much?

[JSmuve]

He definitely will. Find another way of talking.

[Tom-collins]

He wil undoubtedly think sex

[Intraluminal]

Yes unless it's a group party.

[MyUsernameRules]

That would definitely give him the wrong idea.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It will indicate u want sex.

[Kuraj]

Who wouldn't get the wrong idea?

[takumii]

Lol definitely it will

[capsteverogers]

obviously... it would give him the wrong idea

[DarkHumorRUs]

Yes. Yes it will.

[Anonymous]

That would normally mean that to most guys

[teawrecks]

50/50 tbh

[swampfawkes]

Yes it will.

[jakeofalltrades]

probably

[Smells-like-lavender]

Yeah it will