Is it bad if I’m talking to a guy I will send him nudes to increase his interest and get his attention?

[Anonymous]

[Stoner710]

Yes, it is bad that you sent him nudes to increase his interest to get his attention. For one he’s seen you naked now he wants to fuck you and then once he fucks you, he doesn’t give a fuck about you. You should tell him no more nudes until he ask you on a date and slaps a ring on your finger.

[Asker]

True I should stop it’s not gonna help me find a suitable partner in the long run is it and they may think I’m doing it all the time or something

[Stoner710]

Not really I’d rather not have nudes sent to me I want a traditional women who doesn’t think she has to take her cloth off to get my attention. That’s for after the ring is on the finger.

[Fireguy17]

Dumbest thing that you can do on the planet is to send out nude pictures.
Once they are out there you have no control at all what happens with them.
I'm sure his friends will see them, and he can post them, or blackmail you so he doesn't show them.
Just don't!

[Asker]

You’re right I hate that I did that I really do. Most of the time I sent them via Snapchat but then again there’s a small handful of times it wasn't and they could save it. I need to try and stop and work on letting them know my personality and I’m great I am to speak to and if they can’t see that I’ll have to find someone that can. Do you think the nudes thing makes me seem promiscuous and desperate

[Fireguy17]

No, not at all, but many guys out there can be very persuading and manipulative in wanting them.
To have some fun with them download some random picture from the internet and send them that.
Protect what little privacy you have.

[kylee2437]

Yea it is bad because you are putting too much trust into a man that is obviously proving to you , you probably shouldn’t have that much trust in him if you have to get his attention via nudes

[Asker]

Your right :( I need to find self love

[Anonymous]

this will change his view of you. and not in a good way for the future.

[Bricealan]

Probably not a good idea, ya never know what he will do with them. I had a girl send me a nude in her bath tub, showing et al, and I just filed it away. No harm, no foul

[Asker]

True but I guess not all guys are like that. I’d like to hope most would be mature and not do anything but that would be silly to think that.

[Bricealan]

I worked in a medium size machine company a few years ago, and some asshole guy, (Hispanic) brought to work a video that he had made of one of the girls in the shop sucking him off. The stupid ass showed it to the other men he worked with. Of course he was fired, but the damage was done... so you are correct.

[slatyb]

Yes, it is. If that's a condition for his attention, dump him. Do not send any photos you would not like to see made public.

[Asker]

That’s true maybe I should work on letting them get to know my personality and if they don’t like me then find one that does. Do you think they’ll think I’m desperate

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

Only if it's unsolicited. I've had girls send me them, without me asking, when I didn't want them. If he asks, send them but, do not send unsolicited nudes

[Asker]

I’ve sent them to guys I was getting to know that where flirting with me unsolicited but afterwards they’d tell me they like it and wanted to see more etc

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

Not cool bro

[Anonymous]

Be careful I have nudes, masturbation videos and sex videos on the Internet. My ex said he lost his phone and was hacked but I know it was revenge

[Asker]

Oh my goodness I’m so sorry that’s evil.

[Opinion Owner]

Once it's put there it out there.

[RavVid]

You will get his attention. It is a bad way to get his attention.

[Asker]

I should stop because it’s so risky. Do you think they end up thinking I’m desperate

[RavVid]

I would think - and most guys would i believe - that you are sbout itexually available and offering. In other words easy rather than desperate. Some nude pics are more nude than others so I can't judge.

If you think about it, it is a step up from flirtatiousness. I think that next step up is offering.

[BlackJeep]

That's not a great long term strategy. What are you going to do next to increase his interest?

[MackBoy]

First you should get to know that person whether he is a honest or dishonest and a trustworthy person, if he has these qualities you can send your nudes to him.

[Anonymous]

It’s pretty creepy and weird. And it also seems whorish and desperate, like you’re trying to convince him to screw you.

[Asker]

How is it creepy if they enjoy it? I’m just wondering

[Sparkie460]

Be careful sending nudes. You have no control of where they end up. It can potentially destroy your life

[spartan55]

Bad? No? Stupid? Yes.

[sheikalana]

That's cheap behavior.

[jahaims]

Depends if you want attention or love and respect

[Wise4myage]

It can be if you send nudes too soon.

[Wise4myage]

Don't be a hurry to send nudes, it will make you look desperate.

[Pterodon]

Yes it is bad

[Asker]

What makes it bad?

[Pterodon]

You shouldn’t have to do that

[Asker]

Your right they probably don’t like me enough or already have their sets sight on someone else if getting their attention requires nudes

[Pterodon]

Exactly

[riverrat3]

Sounds good