Yea I did it when she wanted to move towards dating but I was going through a lot so I wasn't comfortable and so I regret just ghosting and friend zoning her.
I am not born pretty, but I do not think that it is right for me or any girl to show like on a guy. I have ogled at guys and many reciprocate it because they find me unattractive. I think a guy who rejects my ogling is an insolent coward.
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Well I think that you should go for what you want. And I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman expressing interest in a man. Life is too short to sit back and ogle
When I was in 1st grade there was a girl that liked me, although I didn't like her back. The last time I ever saw her was in 3rd or 4th grade. What sucks is that she could have gone through a transformation through the years and I wouldn't even know it. I don't necessarily regret friend zoning her, but I still think about what could have happened if I liked her back.
Never did that, it's hard to have male-female friend relationship. Too much hormones jumping around.
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Well and I agree. And I find it strange that he only has like two friends that are girls. Me and one other girl. I have tons of guy friends so maybe I'm just weird lol
No, once I meet someone and get to know them I have a pretty good idea if I want to persue anything with her or not. So if you've been friendzoned by me sorrrryyy but it's gonna stay that way.
Yes I have but she was working for me and I'm not into that kinda 'relationship' if you know what I mean. Clearly she's a nice person and maybe if she wasn't working for me I'd treat that situation differently.
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I have been frien zoned and like that she keeps wanting to meet up for a few weeks in a row then doess not. People have told me to move on as she can't make her mind up and it is very frustrating at times. I think if I did based on my experience I would be careful not to have regrets as not fair on that person
Well i haven't regretted, When i do friendzone her it's because i am not physically attracted to her in the first place, this can be changed if she puts a lot of effort then again it won't work to see her differently. BUT in rare cases if someone was desperate he might see her as the light of hope and asks her out.
Nope. All the girls are in my friend zone since I am straight. xD xD Apart from jokes, I know a guy friend who regretted friendzoning 1 of my female best friends. She ain't going back to him though.
There was this one girl back in school who had a major crush on me. Her friend came up to me and asked me whether I'd ask her friend out. I said no... even though I did fancy her. I guess I didn't understand it and I was taken aback.
Yep. Made that mistake many times over when i was younger and couldnt see what was in front of me. Brought on some sad depressing situations. If I've any advice, dont let pride stop you from getting him back..
well not really as in i didn´t love her and i couldn´t see my self ever to fall for her. but i kind of wouldn´t have complained if we sexually "tried each other out" xD
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Only after like 4 months have I developed feelings for her because it takes a while to learn her actual personality. Sadly she moved away before I could ask her out.
i met her in school, liked her. i'm timid, she moved as i was slowly working up more courage. i eventually found her after 4 years of searching. shortly after, i suspected something was wrong, she denied it. a few days later, it all came out. she lead a rough life was scared that she'd go back, i also knew if i screwed up, i'd lose my chances... i freaked... said horrible things... and insured all all my fears came true. that was 6 years ago... almost all my dreams has become nightmares. i knew i should've trusted her, but in my defense, i'm not exactly surrounded by the most rational people,.
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Yea I did it when she wanted to move towards dating but I was going through a lot so I wasn't comfortable and so I regret just ghosting and friend zoning her.
I am not born pretty, but I do not think that it is right for me or any girl to show like on a guy. I have ogled at guys and many reciprocate it because they find me unattractive. I think a guy who rejects my ogling is an insolent coward.
Well I think that you should go for what you want. And I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman expressing interest in a man. Life is too short to sit back and ogle
When I was in 1st grade there was a girl that liked me, although I didn't like her back. The last time I ever saw her was in 3rd or 4th grade. What sucks is that she could have gone through a transformation through the years and I wouldn't even know it. I don't necessarily regret friend zoning her, but I still think about what could have happened if I liked her back.
Never did that, it's hard to have male-female friend relationship. Too much hormones jumping around.
Well and I agree. And I find it strange that he only has like two friends that are girls. Me and one other girl. I have tons of guy friends so maybe I'm just weird lol
Maybe he feels something towards u two.
I have never friendzoned a girl before. I am the one always getting friendzoned and worse.
No, once I meet someone and get to know them I have a pretty good idea if I want to persue anything with her or not. So if you've been friendzoned by me sorrrryyy but it's gonna stay that way.
You never have to regret friend zoning someone because if you're ready to have a relationship they'll always be down lol
I don't believe in the friend zone. In fact, my dating pool usually comes directly from my group of friends.
Yes I have but she was working for me and I'm not into that kinda 'relationship' if you know what I mean. Clearly she's a nice person and maybe if she wasn't working for me I'd treat that situation differently.
I have been frien zoned and like that she keeps wanting to meet up for a few weeks in a row then doess not. People have told me to move on as she can't make her mind up and it is very frustrating at times. I think if I did based on my experience I would be careful not to have regrets as not fair on that person
i don't think i've ever friendzoned a girl in my life.
So you've never had a girl tell you she had feelings for you and they weren't reciprocated?
No. I have never had that happen.
Well i haven't regretted, When i do friendzone her it's because i am not physically attracted to her in the first place, this can be changed if she puts a lot of effort then again it won't work to see her differently. BUT in rare cases if someone was desperate he might see her as the light of hope and asks her out.
Yes, I have, but I was young and it was part of my learning process.
Nope. All the girls are in my friend zone since I am straight. xD xD
Apart from jokes, I know a guy friend who regretted friendzoning 1 of my female best friends. She ain't going back to him though.
Yeah.
There was this one girl back in school who had a major crush on me. Her friend came up to me and asked me whether I'd ask her friend out. I said no... even though I did fancy her. I guess I didn't understand it and I was taken aback.
Yep. Made that mistake many times over when i was younger and couldnt see what was in front of me. Brought on some sad depressing situations. If I've any advice, dont let pride stop you from getting him back..
well not really as in i didn´t love her and i couldn´t see my self ever to fall for her. but i kind of wouldn´t have complained if we sexually "tried each other out" xD
Only after like 4 months have I developed feelings for her because it takes a while to learn her actual personality. Sadly she moved away before I could ask her out.
Well I've never had to do that, but if I did I wouldn't regret it. But I would feel awful for shattering her feelings.
No, I've done worse... I failed a friend who I fell like an avalanche for...
What do you mean by this?
i met her in school, liked her. i'm timid, she moved as i was slowly working up more courage. i eventually found her after 4 years of searching. shortly after, i suspected something was wrong, she denied it. a few days later, it all came out. she lead a rough life was scared that she'd go back, i also knew if i screwed up, i'd lose my chances... i freaked... said horrible things... and insured all all my fears came true. that was 6 years ago... almost all my dreams has become nightmares. i knew i should've trusted her, but in my defense, i'm not exactly surrounded by the most rational people,.
i didn't notice the small signs that she liked until a a year or to ago... hard to tell, time just stands still for me.