I'm having a hard time of knowing what this guy is doing with me and what the heck he wants. We were seeing each other non-exclusively in my opinion and one night when I was drunk, I texted him that it's probably not a good idea to see each other anymore if I'm gonna be two hours away from you starting this fall when I go to college. (Now, when I texted him this, I was drunk AND angry with him earlier that night) So I didn't mean it. My frustration gets the best of me especially when I'm drinking. I really just wanted to talk to him face to face and ask him what he wanted: would he be willing to be with me even when I went away to college? or would he rather just stop this early so we didn't get attached. well so after my drunk text, he never talked to me again. for like 2 months, didn't return my text or call. but then again, I only texted him probably 4 times and 3 calls within the 2 months that he didn't talk to me. so 3rd month comes, I'm hanging out with this guy who is interested in me and he knows about the previous guy. I get a text at like 11pm from him after all those months saying "i didn't have to be so cold about it". I apologized to him and told him I didn't mean what I said. the next day I tried texting him to see if he wanted to hang out and he never replied...for another 1.5 months. then last night, he "texts me "it's all good in the hood". so I pretended like I deleted his # and didn't know who it was. he went along for like 40 seconds saying things like "oh so now you're gonna act like you don't know who this is? so whatever happened between us probably didn't mean anything to you. I can't believe you deleted my number. This is so and so." after that last text I pretended like "Ohhh you! yea I deleted ur # because it seemed like you didn't want to talk to me anymore". he said "you were confused obviously." I said "about what? you not replying for a long would indicate you didn't want to talk to me." then he goes "fine don't talk to me...be stubborn like always." at this point I'm really steamed and frustrated. I asked him wtf did he want me to do and he was all put me out of my misery. and I'm thinking...wow what a thing to so. so to lighten it up I just said "on a brighter note, happy cinco de mayo!" his response was "it could be better with you". I didn't text him back for prob 20 minutes. I couldn't process fast enough with what just happened. I don't know what to do. I don't know what he wants. His absence and silence for months is making me feel like he really doesn't want to talk to me but when he texts me at random nights like this, it puts me on a downward spiral trying to figure out what is going, what is he doing. Does it seem like he wants to work it out or something or is just messing with me?
What does this random once a month texts mean?
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