Why do Men hate career women/working moms yet oppose women valuing them by their money? How is this logical? (Page 2)
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because they do both they want to be independent yet you have to pay for them. so they end up making loads of money for them selves while your still forced to pay. there this guy in my college and he doesn't have a job his [ex]girlfriend does and she expected him to pay and where is the logic in that
First of all, I'm a man who doesn't working women, in fact I prefer them, I would die of boredom if I had a housewife.
But... you completely lost the nuance here: a housewife should naturally value a stable provider husband, but that doesn't mean she can't love him for who he is first and it also doesn't mean he needs to be rich.
It's really not that different from how a woman doesn't want her husband to be with her only for her looks but she does want him to find her beautiful.
Big assumption.
I'm going to be an anesthesiologist and I'm very career oriented and my boyfriend is more than okay with it.
Though there is the stereotypes that women should be in the house and some men on conservative shitlords so they stick to that.
i had an argument with a guy on here because he was saying I'm a gold digger eben though I have a good job, my own house, my own car, and financially stable on my own and he argued "your a gold digger because women have been dependant on men sinse the beginning of time and everything you have now is because of us men" blah blah blah. like wtf?
Sounds like he was after a reaction thats not exactly a reasoned argument it seems like a drown you out taketic. Talking shit but saying it with a lot of conviction and repeatedly.
yea exactly, he was just being a woman hater ass
Where I live toonnss of guys only go for career chicks, so they don't have to work hard. So vice versa can happen! I think having a secure partner is an excellent idea.
We are not attracted to women who turn them selves into men, have a career men don't care, but don't be like Hillary Clinton /yuk.
It's shitty parenting we don't like because it ruins society, working moms/single moms = shitty moms.
You're misunderstand Gold Digging, it's an issue of appropriate expectations for material possession and valuing someone for who they are instead of what they earn. This is a big issue that most women never bother to understand.
If a woman is working and bringing in the money, how about you take care of the family if a working mum is a shitty mother...
@VickyRed Absolutely, so long as mom spends enough time with the child in the first few years of life, that can work really well.
Didn't even watch the video did you?
That guy was on point. I always try to stay away from men's rights groups and such because there's often times a decent amount of hatred and sexism involved. But he nailed it and neither of those things were present, he treats women as his equals.
I have always wondered the same thing, because men don't know what they want and really are immature. Women must not let them define us, stand on your own two feet, you are a grown up. He is a selfish overgrown child and don't you forget... a brat.
Opinion owner. I'm none of these things !! Why are including all men?
Ya geez... a wall of text. Re-write it into some coherent sentences and put them in paragraphs... then we'll read it.
Oh, and you're trying to mix two different things together when they're not. It's not that confusing, and no one can do everything - it's physically impossible. This is what the strong and independent are finding out.
Women do have decisions about career and children. Either work and come home around dinner, or quit her job to be with the kids. The later makes it harder for men to be the financial supporter, and it may even mean having to move houses if payments become harder to pay.
When divorce happens, women normally receive the better end of the deal and can make things harder for men to pay for child support and then make payments to her too like alimony.
I think that as a unit there needs to be two incomes coming into the family. I am wholeheartedly with working moms and career women. All the power to them
they hate misandric, feminist, slutty, single mommish, where did all good men go whining kind of career women. know the difference.
Ha ha. Yep, exactly this. ^^
This is like... Eh..
Unless you are some rich dude that makes over 2000 € after taxes per month, you are EXPECTING your wife to have a job. What you do not want, man or womab, is your partner to be a stakanovist 100% focused on his or her job who spend no time with family and friends.
My wife is a career woman. I don't hate her. Quite the opposite, in fact.
a lot of men do not like a woman that works a lot because that means she will have less time to spend with him and satisfy his needs. People want what they want when they want it.
They don't, you are just lumping opinions of two completely different groups of people and pretending that they are one.
Can I just say thanks for voicing my thoughts almost exactly
if guys don't women working but also don't want to be valued for their money then it seems somewhat hypocritical
We aren't against women having careers. We're a bit wary of them because a lot of women with good careers get a kick out of making sure the guys they're with feel useless.
I haven't come across too many men that didn't want thier wife to work. Not sure what circles you run in. Maybe change the type of people you hang out with.