Why do Men hate career women/working moms yet oppose women valuing them by their money? How is this logical? (Page 2)

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Don't know if it's the world of the Internet but so many hypocritical and contradcting men out there who routinely bash feminism and complain about women having our own careers YET complain about women who are so called "gold diggers" or "value men by our wallet size". Where the hell is the logic? If you believe our place and identity is the home or oppose working mothers then you need to be a stable financial provider and be financially literate. And since the U. S. still doesn't have maternity leave , the responsibility is largely on the man to be financially secure and have the resources period to provide for the stay at home mother. Why is that so hard for so many guys to understand? I don't like to generalize groups of people but you can't deny the historical age old myth about women being "golddiggers". If you hate or criticize women having their own careers or women who choose to establish their own financial savings before kids, then take responsibility when you have a stay at home wife/mother. When we take a break with a kid or when we decide to feed your ego and be a long term stay at home wife/mother, then our future/safety is literally on your hands: --If you die prematurely --If you are killed --If you are fired or laid off --If your salary isn't enough --If you become disabled Etc These are the risks that by far greatly impacts a woman when she is relying on a man. So why the hell do so my guys make such a big deal when women have the nerve to expect and demand a financially secure or successful man? If we plan to be the mother of your children we have a right to be worried about your bank account, savings, career pathway, salary, etc. This is why so called "obsessed career women" take the time to establish themselves before children. Go read the countless stories about stay at home mothers who were on the brink of financial devastation because something bad happened and they did not establish a workable degree or savings PRIOR.

clampfan101 · Answer

I actually admire career women and working moms.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

I'd rather a career woman than a gold digger.

SuitAndTie · Answer

I love career women

ACrazyHaggis · Answer

citation needed?

BruceTrails · Answer

Wtf since when?

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

We don't.

redxiii74 · Answer

umm not in my State

Why do Men hate career women/working moms yet oppose women valuing them by their money? How is this logical? (Page 2)

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