Can a guy change his mind about liking someone?

[Anonymous]

Especially a shy guy.

[skype1000]

I have done that quite a few times. I did it a lot back in the days when i was extremely shy. Its funny when i think of now. I remember some of these females had boyfriends, I would notice her for the first time with her boyfriend and I be like " oh wow, she's amazing looking" I was so obvious to, but not trying to be. More like I just couldn't help my self and me and her had a stare glance moment and then i'd stop and be like " okay what am I doing, she has a boyfriend" and I just forget right away it ever happened. Then later on, when the girl has no boyfriend, she's being very friendly with me, holding my hand and stuff. and I am just like ah. Some how, my interest was already lost in her. Similar story with others.

[Kolya]

if there is a certain reason yes, if not i don't think so... no one changes its mind without a particular reason that is somehow strong, you don't get to change your mind because that person said something about a bad habit, you do it when you find out that person lies, values unethical or stupid things, tends to be ignorant or changes moods because "it's fun"... i can go on all night about this, but i never stopped liking someone unless that person rejects me

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Anyone can, it's easier with guys though. I read somewhere that women decide whether a man is dateable within the first thirty seconds while it takes men considerably longer to make up their mind. Either could change their mind but it takes a lotttt for a woman and not much for a man.

[SarahsSummer]

Of course, but it usually comes about from some behavior of yours.

[Jager66]

yes they can. A shy guy is probably most likely to do that if he thinks he doesn't have a chance with someone or if the person he likes seems to be showing interest in another man/men. If he is shy enough he might even misinterpret talking, laughing, being friendly with other men as him not having a chance.

[Lopezz1999]

Of course, especially if you like him back. If a guy and a girl have a crush on each other, the both of them are going to want to do something about it.

[fenixx0083]

Well, I think "changing his mind" implies that he simply chooses how he wants to feel, like choosing to flip a switch, and I don't believe that anyone chooses their feelings like that... but can his feelings change? Sure!

[Sovereignty]

Yes, but don't bank on it.

Move on to someone who likes you now instead of possibly later.

[XuR_CXV_115]

Sure
but he can't just wake up and " I change my mind about her "
YOU have to change his mind
Not through words, rather through action

[RaisingKaneFromHell]

Really hard to say it can happen and again it might not happen.

[Anonymous]

Most guys - yes... but shy guys are not like most of the guys, they rarely change their mind, though, it's not completely impossible.

[Ovidiu-Nicolae]

Yeah but again really depends on behaviour and how well get to know each other

[ThisDudeHere]

Anyone can. This depends on each individual.

[AriadneSky]

anyone can. shy or not. guy or not.

[mattmanyah]

yes but usually they have to be given a reason

[Ali55sven]

Anyone can doesn't matter.

[KnightCross]

yeah he can, everybody can, girls can too

[jacquesvol]

Is the pope a Roman Catholic?

[Yanoa_Yanza]

If you're really amazing, that is xD

[DaddyRollingStone]

It depends what you mean

[ΉOMO_乇尺乇CTU丂]

Depends on the intensity.

[notallthere98]

Yeah, anyome can

[karahiri]

Yup. Easily.

[JustinTheGreat]

Of course

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I have

[Inkked]

Absolutely

[CT_CD]

No..

[ad48hp]

https://youtu.be/daSG5fwdA7o?t=5s

[forever_love_]

yes sure