Because generally they seem to think women owe them things (specially intimacy/sex) for being 'nice' which is not the case. While they keep failing to understand that, they'll stay ending up alone.
It's because they act too needy and clingy, I'm a nice guy and I suffered from it. You just need the right amount of confidence and be nice when needed
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Nice guys only end up alone until women reach 30's and now are looking for providers and wanting a man who they can easily control. Hence come in the nice guy who many women will now come looking at as a partner.
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Anyways. The only thing women really care about is:
1. MONEY 2. LOOKS (Height, Face) 3. Social status
You can be greatest kind guy and have the best personality in the world and it wouldn't matter to her. The above 3 is ALL that matters to women with kindness and other BS just being icing on the cake.
@AlexanderMTW A lot of us women like, trust and hang around nice guys even if they already have a boyfriend. But these guys will never make a move and it can be frustating.
@AlexanderMTW But when a girl indicates that she's not happy with her arrogant over confident boyfriend and follows you around, there's a good chance that she likes you!
That's becuase when we fight bad things happen to us to the people we care about and is fighting someone worth it for a girl that's gonna be gone in a year?
@AlexanderMTW she took advantage of your kindness and always being there. That's why you learn and for the next time just be cautious how much you give into their needs. It's a two way street. It takes two to make a relationship work. Not just one.
I know, but to be honest I thought about going back to her becuase she was my first and I'm not very good at starting daily conversation, I can keep it going, but if there not helping it makes it very difficult.
That depends. I am a nice guy to people but I do it in a charismatic way, I am not alone per se, I don't usually have a steady girlfriend but I have sex with many girls.
Not even ugly people end up alone. It's mostly extremely awkward social recluse types of people that end up alone, and it's because they can't get over their fear of social situations
Maybe they aren't all that nice and are trying too hard to be something they are not. The real nice guys are nice to everyone and are natural about it.
There's no such thing as a "nice guy". If you want a girlfriend, being nice is the only way you'll KEEP a girlfriend. This term is so not legitimate. and so is friendzoned. Lmao.
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Because generally they seem to think women owe them things (specially intimacy/sex) for being 'nice' which is not the case. While they keep failing to understand that, they'll stay ending up alone.
Because they like to complain about how no girl likes them and they blame it on their niceness instead of acknowledging their flaws and fixing them.
"Nice guys" is bs. If you lack confidence and don't take risks you won't get girls.
I'm the nicest guy ever and I ask out girls that I have a spark with... and I'm doing well
Because they dont express theyre feelings... like tell the girl how they feel.
It's because they act too needy and clingy, I'm a nice guy and I suffered from it. You just need the right amount of confidence and be nice when needed
Nice guys only end up alone until women reach 30's and now are looking for providers and wanting a man who they can easily control. Hence come in the nice guy who many women will now come looking at as a partner.
Anyways. The only thing women really care about is:
1. MONEY
2. LOOKS (Height, Face)
3. Social status
You can be greatest kind guy and have the best personality in the world and it wouldn't matter to her. The above 3 is ALL that matters to women with kindness and other BS just being icing on the cake.
Because they never make a move? Or too decent to break up other people's relationship even when the girl like them back 😊
"Or too decent to break up other people's relationship even when the girl like them back"
So... a guy should go after a woman he likes even if she's in a relationship?
@Toad-1 All is fair in love and war, no?
No. l, I don't think so.
@AlexanderMTW A lot of us women like, trust and hang around nice guys even if they already have a boyfriend. But these guys will never make a move and it can be frustating.
I'm one of those guys so I understand how it is, but I personally don't want to disrespect a girls relationship.
@Toad-1 I don't mean break up a happy relationship but if a girl tells you her problems she usually likes you. And if you do too just ask her?
I didn't know that's what that meant darn..
@AlexanderMTW But when a girl indicates that she's not happy with her arrogant over confident boyfriend and follows you around, there's a good chance that she likes you!
@Opinion Owner that makes scince but unfortunately I'm a depressed introvert so, I don't go out very much.
It's not my place to break up her relationship
Thays how I feel Toad-1
Sometimes I feel you guys will never fight for what you want 😔.
i'll go for a single girl sure but im not gonna break up any relationship because she doesn't have the guts to do it herself.
That's becuase when we fight bad things happen to us to the people we care about and is fighting someone worth it for a girl that's gonna be gone in a year?
Ok Toad-1 I agree with your opinion I got a bit overboard with mine.
maybe because they're too nice so women take advantage of them? but I haven't really met any nice guys like seriously
Just like women. "Nice" guys need to stop being available for women all the time. Don't always be at their beck and call.
But dosent that come off as not caring?
@AlexanderMTW you learn how to balance. And it doesn't come off as cold.
Yeah, I balanced it before and my ex thought that I didn't care about her but she was a cheater so her guilt could explain it.
@AlexanderMTW she took advantage of your kindness and always being there. That's why you learn and for the next time just be cautious how much you give into their needs. It's a two way street. It takes two to make a relationship work. Not just one.
I know, but to be honest I thought about going back to her becuase she was my first and I'm not very good at starting daily conversation, I can keep it going, but if there not helping it makes it very difficult.
That depends. I am a nice guy to people but I do it in a charismatic way, I am not alone per se, I don't usually have a steady girlfriend but I have sex with many girls.
They don't. Are you really going to say every married men is trash? That's so misandrist.
Not even ugly people end up alone. It's mostly extremely awkward social recluse types of people that end up alone, and it's because they can't get over their fear of social situations
Most of the "nice guys" I know are either afraid of women, or treat them like little delicate flowers. Just don't do that and you'll be fine.
Maybe they aren't all that nice and are trying too hard to be something they are not. The real nice guys are nice to everyone and are natural about it.
It's my belief that dating is survival of the fittest, and the weak shall perish.
There's no such thing as a "nice guy". If you want a girlfriend, being nice is the only way you'll KEEP a girlfriend. This term is so not legitimate. and so is friendzoned. Lmao.
I'm a nice guy. I'm alone. It's because we aren't perverted idiots. Girls now I've noticed go for the PERVERTEDNESS in guys. Which isn't cool.
Is nice guys are much better people but are always over looked. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔
Because the "bad guy" is alluring at first then they get taken advantage of. It happens to us too. Hang in there.
Because girls take nice guys for granted... or they put them in the friend zone
Hehehe. I'm alone but i'm definitely not a nice guy.