Nicest guys are left alone for their whole life why?

[Anonymous]

I have only 4 years left to live and It seems I can't even find love.
And now it's a highlight of my life that the one thing I ran for my whole life is something I am never gonna get. Makes me feel like a loser.

[Effably]

I have gotten girlfriends because I was, granted mistakenly, thought to be nice and sweet. This notion that girls do not like that is silly.

That said you need to be interesting. You don't need to be an arse or anything else. Literally just take a piece of you that is intriguing and show it off. That's the big secret. The trick that works.

Nicest guys have one very good trait. One trait makes a flat book or cartoon character. You need a few more for a human being.

[Anonymous]

I'm not always nice, but I'm always try to be kind, do you?

Still, I don't have any luck in love, so I understand the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Abbycado]

4 years left to live? Because of what? I’d have my priorities straight if that was the case and dating would be last. Your thoughts @HollyK21?

[HollyK21]

Oh my goodness yes Abby. 4 years left to live? I’ve got a laundry list of things I’d wanna do and none need to involve a man. Of course now I’d include my fiancé lol but if I were single then my priority list would be set up much differently.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

He might be having a disease

[Abbycado]

Yeah, you think? What has that got to do with priorities? Dating would never be one.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

You need to be a bit more empathetic, that's what he wants.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

@HollyK21 ok? But he doesn't want that

[Abbycado]

@Shrimpenjoyer fuck off. You take the internet as truth. Anyone can lie. Another word and you’re blocked.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Holy moly why so negative?
I'm shocked

[Abbycado]

Told ya

[HollyK21]

@shrimpenjoyer not sure if you’re new to how the internet works, but if don’t want people to judge your choices then maybe you shouldn’t post about them. Your idea of being empathetic seems to come with lying to people’s faces for the sake of sparing their feelings, and I’m not a fan of that. So if you’d like to coddle a grown man griping online about how he thinks nice guys get left alone their whole lives then you go right on ahead. However, Abby and myself have every right to openly question why someone’s dying goal in life is to find a woman, before anything else. What you “need to” do is stop trying to police people and telling them how to feel, because that is also not your place. You act as if questioning someone’s priorities is the rudest, meanest thing on earth. Go somewhere with that nonsense we have no desire to be gaslit.

[Asker]

I don't want to live without love in my life. So I am going to donate my body to science.
In a lab and donate all of

[Asker]

My money to my parents,
I have changed myself completely, got new teeth, new body, and being confident. Also I try not to make any jokes.
Being kind and respectful..
For me life will lose its means and my purpose was selfish.
I wanted to fall in love when I was in school.
Even then none accepted me.
Now its like a wound which just keeps hurting more and more.
I have given everything I got.
All the money, time, learning.
But still the same output, of being single and without any love.
I worked my ass of to get the best job , to get early promotions , to impress without making anyone jealous.
I was severely underweight, and fixing that undergoing so many tests that I lost count.
Switching diets, workouts and on going pain of my teeth. Made me feel miserable. Now I am completely a new person. And still I am treated like I don't exist is bullshit.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because they’re not actually kind. There’s a difference between nice and kind

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you untangle love, dating, and all the messy feelings in between.

You’re not a loser, you’re just heartbroken and exhausted. Nicest guys often get overlooked because they stay quiet, scared of rejection, while louder people shoot their shot. That doesn’t mean you’re unlovable.

With 4 years, you still have time to experience connection: be direct, be honest, flirt a little, tell someone you like them. Even a short, genuine love can be real, deep, and meaningful.

You don’t need a soulmate to prove your worth. You already matter.

[Nikki1989]

Excuse #1,245,888.

Perhaps work on your personality and confidence. The fact you are posting this meaningless nonsense anonymously says everything about you.

[Sunshinelips]

Who said you have 4 years left?