Well, if this isn't the first time you got stood up then that's your fault. Stand me up once and we're done. But to answer your question, some people are just douche bags who only care about themselves.
Break all contact... if someone ( applies to BOTH genders ) REALLY cares for another person... they will NOT flake !! Don't waste your precious time & energy , in the past , with me , flaking meant no further effort on my part !!
He does it because he doesn't like you enough. His loss! Next time he wants to hang tell him sorry but you've already made plans with people who follow through on them.
don't take this personal cuz I'm only speaking by experience but you're not his first option. possibly... js
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Nope. I'm not talking it personal. Lol My thing was this why did he keep asking me out then? If he's not that into me, I get it. But don't keep texting/calling & asking me out only to cancel. Makes no sense to me. Just don't ask me out at all then
I don't know really to be honest it could be a few possibilities... but from experience the only time I've ever done anything like that is when I've dated several people at once and you always have your favorite out of everybody so it just kind of depends on if he's got one certain one that's his favorite out of you or could be more it's hard to say
Hmmm ok. That could be it. Not saying it makes it ok for him to disappear hours before the date but hell if I care right now. lol I'm just gonna move on.
He is suffering serious cold feet syndrome. It's time to dump him unless u reallly want to see where your relationship will go--but that's highly un likely. Tel him how u feel and tell him u had it with his childish game.
I suppose if a woman doesn't ever write back (i mean come on, if there's tons of time for a reply, and you never hear anything back), after a point you just sorta stop trying, especially situations when you're trying to start/keep a conversation going and all you get is. Yep, good, mmmhmm, fine, one word responses etc. Without any effort from them, I just stop because it's just a waste of time, if they keep doing that. Life's too short get with it if you want it, i mean damn
you don't seem to be a high priority for him, it essentiamly means that he doesn't really care about you. A guy who cares about a girl would make time for her.
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Well, if this isn't the first time you got stood up then that's your fault. Stand me up once and we're done. But to answer your question, some people are just douche bags who only care about themselves.
Break all contact... if someone ( applies to BOTH genders ) REALLY cares for another person... they will NOT flake !! Don't waste your precious time & energy , in the past , with me , flaking meant no further effort on my part !!
He does it because he doesn't like you enough.
His loss!
Next time he wants to hang tell him sorry but you've already made plans with people who follow through on them.
Well good question! Why do you even allow this to happen? Do you even have self-respect or what?
If he flake's or is lying all the time just be done with him and continue with you're life.
put your foot down. Apparently he has it easy, he flaked once and twice with no consequences so he thinks he can do it everytime... end it
It's not guys, it's assholes. Sounds like he's fucking others.
don't take this personal cuz I'm only speaking by experience but you're not his first option. possibly... js
Nope. I'm not talking it personal. Lol
My thing was this why did he keep asking me out then? If he's not that into me, I get it. But don't keep texting/calling & asking me out only to cancel. Makes no sense to me. Just don't ask me out at all then
I don't know really to be honest it could be a few possibilities... but from experience the only time I've ever done anything like that is when I've dated several people at once and you always have your favorite out of everybody so it just kind of depends on if he's got one certain one that's his favorite out of you or could be more it's hard to say
Hmmm ok. That could be it. Not saying it makes it ok for him to disappear hours before the date but hell if I care right now. lol I'm just gonna move on.
I definitely would. no since waste any more of your time
Why do you continue to agree to see him? He sounds like a complete waste of time. I would just move on.
He is suffering serious cold feet syndrome. It's time to dump him unless u reallly want to see where your relationship will go--but that's highly un likely.
Tel him how u feel and tell him u had it with his childish game.
I suppose if a woman doesn't ever write back (i mean come on, if there's tons of time for a reply, and you never hear anything back), after a point you just sorta stop trying, especially situations when you're trying to start/keep a conversation going and all you get is. Yep, good, mmmhmm, fine, one word responses etc. Without any effort from them, I just stop because it's just a waste of time, if they keep doing that. Life's too short get with it if you want it, i mean damn
You end it by never speaking again and not giving in to any texts or calls.
Wake up He's got no respect for you. Get away and stop looking back. Better to be with out than with him.
you don't seem to be a high priority for him, it essentiamly means that he doesn't really care about you. A guy who cares about a girl would make time for her.
tell him to piss off if he can't be stuffed to make time for you
just move on from this guy.. he's obviously playing games and not acting very mature I wouldn't waste anymore time
He's just not that into you *shrug* Walk away girl, he's not worth your time.
I don't know why did you trust him even after the 3rd time?
The other times didn't happen the day of the date. Still bad but you're right. I gave him too many chances.
next time he asks to see you just tell him you're hanging with your boyfriend
Oh how I love this response! Great idea
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Tell him how you feel, if he's that flakey just drop him, delete & block, he's not worth it.. your emotions & feelings, period!
How can you end it? By just ending it. Don't go out with him. Cut contact an etc. Simple.