I think he's letting out his true feelings but doing so to make it the least awkward for him. Never in person, never documented in a text, just a quick voiced comment, but the truth. Do you like him like that? Ever tell him your feelings?
Yeah I really like him.. & I do tell him that I've got feelings for him and stuff but the thing is he doesn't think I'm telling the truth when I tell him how I feel or he'll ask me if I'm sure
He's trying too know for sure that you do like him before he opens up when he's sober. It's his way of protecting himself. he needs the be more confident in himself.
Oh brother. Saying words is not love. It is a symptom some people show when they are in love. She is free to move on but the world is full of people saying, 'I love you' every 5 minutes while cheating or being abusive. Words don't prove sh**
Tell him that you love him while you are both sober and see what happens next.
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I've done it before and it's kinda just turned into a joke.. I said 'I love you' and he said 'I love you too' then I said 'you mean you love me more' and then he goes 'actually nah, I hate you'
But that's literally the dynamic of our relationship when we're sober
He is most likely not very good with feelings and how to express them, or he might just be too scared to say it sober, if the feeling won't be reciprocated.
maybe he is shy, people think been drunk gives them a type of adrenaline and confidence... but they get it all wrong
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Well im drunk right now, and i can tell you he doesn't mean it, I don't even mean what Im saying right now, including that statement and this one, and probably the next one and the one after that,.
He probably loves, but doesn't have the gut to confess it. He only does it when he's drunk because he doesn't realize that he is confessing it. Just tell him how you feel.
Im not one to give unnecessary hope,, but,, When a guy is drunk, he's usually honest. The drunker he gets, the more unlikely hto lie is e. So he's probably meaning it
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He is in love with you. One can not fake it in drunken state.
people can fake it in drunken state too unless they are drunk to the level of unconciousness... he might be coward who is telling his feelings by telling a girl that he js drunk so that she won't mind since he is drunk
Yea he's definitely the very truthful drunk. I think he's just afraid of your reaction if he saying while he's sober but when he's drunk he doesn't care at all.
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What shady stuff have you done? I can be in love but because I don't trust her 1000% I'm not saying the words.
Truth generally comes out when drunk. Do you ever go out together?
Yeah we've been out a couple times
Does he say it in person to you or just over the phone/text?
Over the phone and when we video call aswell. But never in person and Never by text
Do you get drunk together?
Nope.. but we have met up once when we were both a bit tipsy
I think he's letting out his true feelings but doing so to make it the least awkward for him. Never in person, never documented in a text, just a quick voiced comment, but the truth. Do you like him like that? Ever tell him your feelings?
Yeah I really like him..
& I do tell him that I've got feelings for him and stuff but the thing is he doesn't think I'm telling the truth when I tell him how I feel or he'll ask me if I'm sure
He's trying too know for sure that you do like him before he opens up when he's sober. It's his way of protecting himself. he needs the be more confident in himself.
Thanks for the help ☺
It could be he is more reserved sober and loosen up drunk. It is coming from a real place but getting there is not reliable right now.
Have You Ever Heard The Saying "A Drunk Person speak A Sober Mind?" (Something​ Like That) So I'll Take What He's Saying In Consideration
Not a healthy relationship. He should love you no matter what. Not because your "drunk" , Find someone who loves you for who you are.
Oh brother. Saying words is not love. It is a symptom some people show when they are in love. She is free to move on but the world is full of people saying, 'I love you' every 5 minutes while cheating or being abusive. Words don't prove sh**
Not all men do that.
He is speaking his mind when he is drunk. This means that he actually loves you.
Tell him that you love him while you are both sober and see what happens next.
I've done it before and it's kinda just turned into a joke.. I said 'I love you' and he said 'I love you too' then I said 'you mean you love me more' and then he goes 'actually nah, I hate you'
But that's literally the dynamic of our relationship when we're sober
It may be time to dump him then since he didn't respect your question. A relationship can't last without respect between the two
He is most likely not very good with feelings and how to express them, or he might just be too scared to say it sober, if the feeling won't be reciprocated.
I think he love you but he's just too shy to show his true feelings. Like it said when your drunk you tend to say all the things you truly think.
ask @ralphblack why he does it. He does it all the time.
maybe he is shy, people think been drunk gives them a type of adrenaline and confidence... but they get it all wrong
Well im drunk right now, and i can tell you he doesn't mean it, I don't even mean what Im saying right now, including that statement and this one, and probably the next one and the one after that,.
He probably loves, but doesn't have the gut to confess it. He only does it when he's drunk because he doesn't realize that he is confessing it. Just tell him how you feel.
Im not one to give unnecessary hope,, but,,
When a guy is drunk, he's usually honest.
The drunker he gets, the more unlikely hto lie is e. So he's probably meaning it
He is in love with you.
One can not fake it in drunken state.
people can fake it in drunken state too unless they are drunk to the level of unconciousness... he might be coward who is telling his feelings by telling a girl that he js drunk so that she won't mind since he is drunk
Well drunk people are the most honest people you will ever encounter
maybe he's not the lovey dovey type and it takes a few drinks to open up
he probably has issues with opening up emotionally as so many guys do.
Yea he's definitely the very truthful drunk. I think he's just afraid of your reaction if he saying while he's sober but when he's drunk he doesn't care at all.