I like him more than I thought... Does he like me?

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I live a few states away from this guy. We initially met online and have been friends for years. We've Skyped and met in person a few times. He's 26 and I'm 24. This time I noticed something different...
This happened last weekend but it's been bugging me.
*When I was cooking dinner for him he kept staring at me the whole time. When I asked him why he would stare he wouldn't give me a straight answer. A few times he would stand really close behind me.
*We watched a few TV shows and I happened to laugh at a few things. He would look at me and smile... Then he would laugh because I laughed. Which is weird.
*Then we had a tickling war on his couch. I started it but he ended it with getting on top of me and pinning me to the couch. It was super hot. Nothing happened but I got so turned on. Lol
*I noticed throughout the whole time watching TV shows, he kept moving his thumbs. Like he couldn't stay still.
*When we went out, he took me to a place that I've been talking about so I can see it.
*When he hugged me good night, he held me so tight and he kept rubbing my back. But I know a hug's a hug.

I wanted to make a move so bad but I didn't want to make an ass out of myself if he didn't feel the same.

Bad_Man55 · Accepted Answer

He either wants to have sex with you or cut your skin off and wear it as a coat.. I hope his awkward creepiness is just his inability to make the first move with a girl as he is socially inept. Delete the fact that you are into him and read that story and it sounds like the start of a serial killer novel. You have 3 options he either gets his shit together and makes a move, you get tired of waiting and make the move, or he locks you in his trunk and goes on a drive to the middle of nowhere. Good luck!

Nubxei · Accepted Answer

The chemistry between you is clearly there, the tension is building. I say you go ahead and move in for a cuddle or a kiss, you don't need to make it awkward with words. Seeing the way you two behave, he should feel right at home with you in his arms. Wish you two all the best. 😊

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I kust read your question title. and I'm warning you. don't get into a relationship. most guys are huge douche bags and they just break your heart. you'll never be the sane again and you'll cry all the time and when finally you move on they will be back to apologize and when you do forgive them. they'll break your heart again. save yourself a lot of trouble. and at least right now stay single.

missmaddy1337 · Accepted Answer

Seems like all the signs are there girl! To me it seems like he likes you but I get being hesitant because your not 100% go with your gut next time. He may be feeling the same way you are! I really like this girl but what if she didn't like me like that?

unethical · Accepted Answer

You guys sound so adorable. I am pretty sure he is interested. There's no signs that show otherwise. You should say something, because I think this could become an amazing relationship. Good luck. 😊

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Make a move. He's too nervous or shy to but he's giving you all the signs he wants you Next time you're watching tv together, lean over and give him a kiss.

Keonisha · Answer

I think you should go for it next time cause it seems that you both were thinking the that making a move would be wrong he was probably afraid thinking she might not feel that way and/or he doesn't want to overstep any boundaries so that he won't I don't know lose you because your really good friends but I don't think you have anything to worry about

natebragz · Answer

He wants you. Just be hella confident and go up to him and kiss him for like a second. And then go again. If he stops you, then it's all good because he seems pretty close. If he doesn't the take it from there.

starbucksjr69 · Answer

I'm pretty thick headed when it comes to this, so I think he just sees you as a friend or a really close friends. Maybe he has some feelings for you but I'm not sure cause the signs aren't obvious enough for me.

Ask him yourself just to confirm. Just a What do you see me as? Do you think we'd be a good couple if we ever dated? Do you have anyone you like?

Matt21 · Answer

those are all very good signs! I would make sure to get your opinion heard and drop some signals that you hope to be more than friends.
of course it's also great if you want to come out and just tell him if you have a crush on him :)

nobuddy123 · Answer

He obviously has some interest doesn't he eh? I would say try to get closer to them and try bit of flirting. In a couple of moments your world will change. Good luck!

darksoul1 · Answer

hey scumbag listen, I know you are gonna do whatever you will feel good... so move on with whatever you feel. it's on you whether you wanna give him chance or not. If he would been sex freak, he would have taken you down on that particular night of couch pin down #pointone

UncleRayRay · Answer

The guy had you pinned on the couch after a "tickle war" and didn't even kiss you? Is he a virgin or something?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He could like you more than just friends but i think you need to open up more to him , you do seem to be a bit on the shy side, so he's most likely not to make a move so it appears your both on the same wave length but just scared to make a move.

XanatosPR1ME · Answer

have you two ever kissed or or do anything else serious?

Bright_Life_95 · Answer

you never know untill you try. if you keep waiting and waiting then it'll be too late and you'll regret it.

TheKnight · Answer

Make a move girl. He is shy nothng to worry. You won't make an ass out of yourself. I likes you.

ThePagal · Answer

hold on to it, it's great to see two souls under such control. With time you'd both be open and lively.

DiogoRibeiro · Answer

I think there's something there. Go for it. You'd only regret doing nothing. 😉

jay001 · Answer

The boy is just shy and doesn't know what to do, show him!

jesusnicolas97 · Answer

He either likes you or he's trying to have a one night stand. But the way you described it I believe he likes you

Anonymous · Answer

He likes you a lot but doesn't want to initiate, seems to hold back so you won't think he just wants sex

eagle1951 · Answer

he's shy. but he's thinking. about what he'd like to do to you.

Anonymous · Answer

This question is showing up waaay too often - so I guess I'll go ahead and answer. "No" he doesn't like you.

zombiebabe · Answer

he likes you more than a friend

AutisticGurl · Answer

He likes you more than a friend... .

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