I can't stand irrational feminazis who go around spouting off chilish crap like "All men are evil" Evetything in the world, every single bad deed in the history of himan beings was caused by men blah blah. Do you not realize how dumb that crap sounds?
First off, with your question. No, not all men want a submissive girl. In fact, I would rather habe the opposite. I like a girl who would stand with me equally but who can be dominant/aggressive when it comes to a more intimate setting.
You're that type of person that labels a mass of people under one description. 'All Muslims are terrorists, all black are ghetto thugs, all whites are trailer trash'. Human beings overall vary is so many different ways. If you had bad experiences in the past, ever stop and think that maybe you wrre the problem in those situations? If you're saying all bed are evil and bad, that means it was multiple situations and I'm going with majority vote that so many vs you and each had a bad outcome. Here is an easy fix if you think men are all so evil, you ready for this solution? ... go bury your face in a girls snatch then. Problem solved, no more problems involving a man.
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Women are not stupid or in competent in today's 21st Century. They are smart enough to make the decision of the house as well as the work place.
Some men treat the women as a servant who has to do all the work of house, perform the duties of work place and also satisfy them in bed.
The reason are male ego, jealousy , put down by other males , crave for power and control and few other things.
I would suggest to the women who are treated in this way to stand up against this kind of men fight for own right with courage.
Why is it that when some women hear the word submissive they think dog or floor mat? And that's because now a days women are trying to over power and emasculated men. Look what at what the 3rd wave feminist are doing. They just want a woman who will let them be a man when they need to be a man. Even women want a man who will be a man, most women find submissive men as soft. When we see a man take charge we see that as he know what he wants and to us that's attractive. I think what we all want is balance.
I literally have never met a man like this. I know more women who get off by being submissive and wishing to be stay at home wives than dudes who want doormats. Most guys I know find those types of women dull.
They think that they are strong enough to control us whereas in fact they are stupid big asses, they can't even run they life without us
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Nuture or nature?
As a mature lady I have seen all sorts of females and males unknowledgeable/knowledgeable, adept and inept, dominant and submissive.
My parents did not teach me to speak up and get in there with my opinion. My brothers taught me this but only so much as when they knew I was getting picked on. It wasn't as well received when I voiced my opinion with them. Women that spoke up (even the same amount as the men) where considered aggressive and not lady-like. I don't remember a disadvantage in school at any age I was lucky to have respectful, for the most part, teachers of both genders. I found being the youngest may have made me less driven to be more knowledgeable, more competent and timid.
I have found some men in general seem to think of some women negatively as they get older. Maybe competition for jobs? I find if some people cannot express their smarts and competency with words they tend to fall back on directing their frustration with abusive behavior towards the woman that they are competing against. There is also herd mentality. If a man puts down a woman other men chime in because there are safety in numbers even though if talked to individually they may not have reacted the same way. Sorry for rambling. A fantastic discussion.More complicated than that. When a guy tries to take a 'let's vote on everything' you don't end up equal partners. 9 times out of ten the woman will just not respect the guy and take over completely or dump him.
I don't think women are stupid but experience taught men a few things like no matter how much a woman says she wants a guy who shares his emotions she really does not give a sh*. The second he is as emotional as a woman she will dump him for a more macho guy or go lesbian.
A lot of women want guys to take the official lead because that's easy for her. If he fails she can blame him. Just how it is. If you want to lead go ahead but don't even think about not taking 100% responsibility when stiff goes wrong.I can't speak for every man in the world, but that's not why I like submissive women. Reason number one; It gets me off. Sue me. Reason 2; I believe that a man should take care of his girl as if she were a child. If her shoe strap breaks, I'm on my knees fixing it. If she's going through a tough time, I make sure that she is alright. If she's sick, I take care of her. If someone hurts her, I make sure she's safe and I kill the bastard responsible if I get the chance. Women are not property, they are not stupid and they are not inferior. Women deserve to be cherished and protected. That's what being a dominant is all about. It's not about sex or about control; it's about love and devotion.
I will admit, when I was younger and a lot less mature, I thought a little along those lines. Now that I am older, I have a more varied exposer to certain types of women, those that are strong, wise, and keep me on my toes. I had a real perspective check and I am glad I will never go back. I have been helped out of dark places in my life that would have dragged me down further if I hadn't met some very specific women in my life.
As far as wanting someone submissive. I don't want someone that is just a push over. I want someone that maybe, could see how in our species the male role being dominant leads to a more fulfilled family, and that the testosterone that men naturally have, could be what makes men so ambitious. The kind of ambition that a family could rely on to see through tough times and to financial prosperity. Someone who chooses to let me lead. This is my take anyway.Men want to be in charge. And is why we like submissive women. When I comes to intelligence we don't care you could be Einstein smart as long as were in charge. Just please not incompetence that sucks if a woman can't do anything even cook a simple meal that seems over-the-top and extreme but men do not want to be controlled we do not like to be controlled and it's easier to control stupid women then is smart women.
Women are crap at reading maps. When I was a kid we went to Nevin in Wales on holiday, my father drove and my mother read the map, she kept misreading and getting us lost, then my father would call her a "Bloody stupid woman" then my mother would say "I wish I'd never married you", potty sat have didn't exist in the 1960s.
There's a difference between a servant and a submissive.
You sound like you need to spend more time with men...
Yes... I want a submissive woman. I want her to obey me. I want a little doll who will do everything I say, never complain and never leave the house. Specifically the kitchen.
not all men want it the way you're describing it.. thats just weird. but most of us do look for a healthy amount of submissiveness in women yes. there's nothing wrong with that. just like women who look for healthy masculinity and strength in men.
i actually want a dominate women. one who will push me on the bed. or initiate most things. who is not some doll
You're meeting the wrong men. Yes, there are MANY men like that. There are also lots of men who are the opposite. Many more are balanced and share dominance
When an Anon says all this extremely exaggerated shit based on a different question asking if men like submissive women, I can't take it seriously
Men prefer submissive women as it is a control factor. My preference is a strong woman, not just physically but especially emotionally and mentally.
indian guys dont!!! . y country girls r special.. they beat us in every field.. so what we can do is only respect them a lot...
everyone is different I'm a man and I'm happy with my woman that's independent and the best friend I have people are people regardless of race or gender
Because they are potential pedophiles and need women to act like 2 year olds.
There are quite a lot of that bunch i agree but as you already know that not all men are same. As for myself, dominating woman has always caught my interest and thats the primary characteristic i look for in a woman.
Women tend to be more emotional which usually results in bad desicions.
I desire a woman who can think for herself and take full responsibility for her own happiness.
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