My friend is insanely gorgeous, My best friend. She is a brunette with light blue/greenish eyes tanned, perfect sexy body and has a great personality. Everywhere she goes she turn all heads, makes me feel ugly standing next to her lol. Yet she can't seem to find a boyfriend? She is super funny and kind.. Super down to earth kind of girl. And i am average and I have a bf! Lol! Why is this? Guys are you afraid to get in a serious relationship with gorgeous girls because maybe you feel insecure that she will leave you easily? Or whats the reason? For an example My gorgeous friend kind of looks like these girls: kind of average girls guys go for: Kind of girls like me lol! So why guys? Why do you ditch gorgeous girls with great personalities? And if you have a chance to be with one, why not go for it? I appreciate honest questions! Thanks! Xx
Guys, seriously.. Why do you mostly commit to average looking girls and leave the gorgeous girls hanging?
'Perfect' women get FAR too much attention and they KNOW it. They're never going to stay in one place for very long either, always susceptible to better offers from other guys, so their loyalty will always be tested.
Another thing is that 'perfect' princesses have standards that are excessively too high, they can't be seen as being impressed with a really decent but average guy, instead they most likely want a guy who's rich, successful, funny, sociable, extremely hard working and great in bed, great with money and generally highly this that and whatever else. Those are qualities that most men in the REAL world just haven't got or can do etc. It's unrealistic to expect an average (but otherwise decent) guy to meet those totally unrealistic expectations.
So guys tend not to bother with 'perfect' princesses, they're demanding, stuck-up, unrealistic, living in cloud cuckoo land and are rarely happy with what's on offer because it doesn't meet their totally bonkers ideals and standards.
I always left swipe women like this on Tinder because they're just incredibly unrealistic and also incredibly vain. Horrible traits.
Fear of rejection. Also, I would go for girls who I specifically connect with personally as well as physically. If she doesn't have the personality then she's not worth the trouble. I'm assuming she does have the personality, tho
Personally, the first girls look hot but look overdone. The second girls look more genuinely beautiful and I feel that without make up, the first girls would look like the second ones. I find with guys, they look at girls in different baskets. Hot girls they want to see naked, cute girls they want to cuddle and go grocery shopping with lol
Girl: Omg I'm so out of you're league!!! You deserve someone who looks way better than shitey old me - It's not you, it's me. Guy: ... [damnit again?] ///// Guy: Leaves hanging Girl: I'm so much better then them how does this even happen?
A lot of guys aren't bothered now about relationships. It used to be that a guy would show off his girl to other guys and want to be seen with her around but not so much any more.
Conventionally attractive girls are far more likely to get played by players and, contrary to what women believe, most guys aren't players (shocked Pikachu face ladies!!) but those are the guys most out going girls and girls in general get attention from and thus get their world view of what guys are like through this lens of playboy types. So normal guys seldom get a look in and are just checked out because they see the vapid nature of relationship games and it's not as rewarding as it's made out to be.
Average girls who haven't been doing this find it much easier to relate to normal guys so find it easier to get to know them and see them as worthy and can establish something meaningful.
It's an unfortunate reality that there is such a that attractive girls won't get attention from well meaning guys but that's because a lot of the guys aren't seeing the value in relationships.
Id say there's a few considerable favtors at play here. Let's start with what i believe is right up front. Some, extremely pretty woman are not the nicest. And even if they are the sweetest I'd venture to say that a lot of men may hault with this belief of such. Look at our pop culture.. it's a stereotype that's there. In some instances, I'm sure men are under confident in the approach. And though these woman are merely humans little different then the next, it's easy to see how in a country were men are taught to be over confident and sure of themselves, how this could raise an issue. I also do believe our country tend to make it seem as though the average woman is more wifey material. But at the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so one could and should argue that the approach to beauty and what is beautiful is very far from black and white. This is just my opinion. However, as a man, i have personally put myself in a box, sometimes, in fears that i may not be up to her standard.. reguardless of the phyisical. WOMAN!, it maybe was unconventional years ago, but if you like what you see then making a step in that direction may build confidence in the men your feeling overlooked by. Let us see you for the valuable woman your are, reguardless of your looks. Hope I've given some helpful insight from just a regular man.
I think it has a bit more to do with how easy she makes it for guys to approach her. You might have have a gorgeous girl and a average girl, who are both extroverts, but the average girl often strikes up conversation with other people in their class/school/workplace, While the gorgeous girl, although never being rude, rarely speaks to other people in the class/school/workplace and basically only speaks to her close friends. Guys would rather try their luck with the average girl, not because they think they have a better chance with her, but just simply because its easier to approach someone you've actually spoken to before. Also is she very popular and constantly surrounded by her female friends? Because no guy would want to get rejected in front of her whole friend group. Guys wait for a opportunity when she's alone. When its easier to approach her. And yes, average guys might fear that she would choose a better looking guy over them and might leave them when one comes along. Which is not a unrealistic thing to fear. But thats only my opinion! Hope it helps!
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Average-looking girls have a certain je ne sais quoi about them. They just seem more "real," at least to me. Very attractive women have an air of unattainability and disingenuousness that's difficult to describe succinctly, even if those stereotypes are undeserved.
Very attractive girls are also seen as manipulative, since many of these women know that they're attractive, they use it to take advantage of men (think of the stereotypical attractive gold-digger). Just being honest, gorgeous girls with great personalities are so rare, they're pretty much nonexistent. Say all you want, but it's true (sadly).
That's not the reason, most of the time I see a Super nice girls and I think I don't even stand a chance with her so why even boder, I'm 5'10 weight 156. The problem is that we treat average girls like nothing, that means that we see them as average and we can be our self's and we don't have to try hard to impress. A easy fix to this would be for girls to aprouch guys and talk to them and make them feel comfortable have a small conversation and see if he makes the move and asks for your number, if he does not than you ask him if he whants to be friends with you and get his number, always ask to hang out, hanging out is the best word to use, Never say let's go out on a date, just say I'm off on Friday you want to hang out?
Average girls are less intimidating to approach and most of the time a lot of guys think they won't stand a chance with a hot girl because she either probably has a boyfriend or would fear she will reject them off the bat.
But in terms of your friend, maybe she comes off as boring to some guys. What can she bring to a relationship with a guy besides her looks? How is her personality?
Guys may feel that good looking women are out of their league, or they may think they are high maintenance. And they may also think a good looking girl will go out with them, but drop them the minute a good looking guy comes along, and the guys want a more stable relationship. These are just some educated guesses.
Well, most of the girls in the picture are pretty unattractive to me cause they're full of makeup. Maybe your friend isn't as awsome as you think, there's more to falling in love than just someone's appearance and a few traits. Maybe she's not sincere enough or people think she's the type of person who just wants hookups, it could be plenty of reasons
generally from what I hear most guys are intimidated by girls like your friend which is they generally have to approach guys they like. where as girls like anna kendrick (whom you call average which is odd as I find her drop dead gorgeous because she has a great personality from what I have seen and she actually accepts her imperfections proudly) those are the girls that guys seems to consider "in there league" (whatever that is) which is why they generally go for that.
also girls in pics 1 3 5 are wearing way to much fake bake yeah they look flawless which is an issue they look like (pardon my language) fucking barbie dolls. pics 2 and 4 look like they are trying to be overtly sexy. Though I can say I like what I see I also don't like what I see for me I would have to get to know them before I really decided if they looked good. for me a bad personality makes the person ugly even if they look amazing to everyone else.
a lot of guys are insecure and so are afraid they are not attractive or good enough. I consider my self a good guy (highly educated, in shape, good job) and when I've dated atractive girls I always felt like every other guy is competition. Some might say thats ridiculous but since they ALL cheated on me I won't even talk to an super attractive girl.
Oh, come on. The first girl you listed under 'average' is the prettiest one to me and looks exactly like what I would imagine any average schools prom queen would like like.
Anyways... the fear of the super attractive girls being super high maintenance or the guy simply not matching up. The assumption that she's taken already, etc.
I don't even particularly enjoy talking to beautiful women. Looking? sure. Social interaction with them? No point.
cause let's be frank, the hot chiks are often narcissists or somewhat underdeveloped in character. simply cause they never had to develop a character cause their beauty privilege always handed everything to them, never creating a necessity to form a good character and that's why they get stuck with fuck boys cause fuck boys don't care for character.
and i'm not necessarily blaming these women alone. it's simps that help ruin their characters by putting a red carped out for them everywhere just cause they're hot.
Some of those girls are far from gorgeous in my opinion, and have waaaay too much make up on. Anna Kendrick is …. eh, ok. The blonde before her is who? Not attractive. Anyway, guys are intimidated by girls they think are SO beautiful they'll either reject you, or they "have to be airheads".
Well see the average girls don't act like pieces of shit to you, actually care about you and aren't fucking every dude they see, that's not all of them but a good bit of them. Is it wrong to feel that this girl may cheat on me because she knows she's pretty hot and if she wanted to she could easily go get another boyfriend while i am at work? I like average girls cause there willing to listen
Your friend is obviously very attractive. The only Thing that I can think of is that she seems unapproachable. I can't imagine any other reason a very beautiful young woman with a great personality is single, unless she is just between boyfriends.
Gorgeous girls are too much work. Very difficult to sustain them long term. They are very demanding and want the best all the time. With the average girl you can be more relaxed, take it easy some of the time. Also, average girls tend to put more into a relationship.
she's not ugly... but that uneven fake tan and that over-plucked eyebows... barely looks like have eyelashes on the left eye and exaggerated concealer and highlighter too and i don't understand what's that on her palm... a piece of her peeling nail polish?
The problem is that us guys don't have the confidence to attempt. The fear of a no from a gorgeous girl is basically torture. So we go with those we think we can get with. Also if u ever been to a high school, u know word travels fast. Same goes. If u are discovered to hav been turned down by the most gorgeous girl, no one gonna let u live it down.
Really beautiful girls can intimidate guys. If she also has a great personality this can make guys feel like they would not be good enough for her and that they would disappoint her.
I don't care overly much about looks. I like smart women who are in decent shape. those girls you are describing usually go for the hottest guys anyways.
Because most of the "beautiful" girls I meet are vapid airheads. The"average" girls, on the other hand, usually have well-developed personalities, interests that go beyond reality television, clothes, and makeup, and can hold a conversation.
I agree. If I saw a girl like in the pics. I wouldn't approach them. I'd definitely think she's got a boyfriend and why would she ever give me the chance
@dilligaff aha I see.. But what if you come in contact with them? What happens then? You dont believe that she likes you? Or you just think its too Much of a wide competition?
Well if she shows some interest, then that will give us a "green light" to at least maybe be a bit flirty and ask her on a date. It would take a lot pressure off of us
1 high maintenance 2 personality not looking as good builds character 3 fear of rejection and 4 fear of cheating. this is why ugly ducklings are the holy Grail
cause the more attractive the partner the more people will pursue their attentions, so as a male I deduce less problems average looking great brain and I don't use punctuation gl
average girls aren't as stuck up and self righteous as perfect "10s" are. plus those "10s" you posted aren't that attractive anyways but that first average girl you posted was the best looking girl in the post
Because it's normally one or the other with girls, nice personality or hot plus girl that look like this don't date average looking guys and we wouldn't have any common interests as they're likely to be vain!
because she will one day realize that she could do better and will have a higher possibility of cheating and some guy are just intimidated by super gorgeous girls
Because average women make better wives, they are more loyal, realistic, they handle rejection and negative emotions better, they also don't live in a fantasy and think they are not replaceable.
Honestly some guys are insecure and are just as afraid of getting hurt and played as girls are. Also some men dont dont realize what they have till someone else has it and treat her better
I'm sorry gorgues i think that is Because we think she's the right one and as soon as she knows that she will let lose for us to hook on to them and then we can let go!!!
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