Why do people hate transwomen more than they hate transmen?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed especially among men. Men hate male-to-female transgenders much more than they hate female-to-male ones. Most women don't seem to give a shit, but most men really despise MtFs.

[CountessSarah]

I think there a couple of causes.

A) People give males a harder time for any sort of sexuality/gender attributes from the norm. Even cisgender gay guys a harder time than gay girls.
Anti-trans have a hard time separating their perceptions of cis men as sex-crazed, aggressive predators. They see transwomen as no different.
Transwomen are just trying to covertly invades girls bathrooms to... I dunno. I dunno what anti-trans think transwomen do in the toilets...

B) Most anti-trans people don't even realise that transmen are a thing.
When you see anti-trans go off on their rants, particularly regarding restrooms, they seldom think about bulky transmen sharing a space with cis girls in the womens toilets.

Due to the nature of Estrogen/testosterone, it's far easier for transmen to be passable than transwomen. It's easier to get bigger and bulkier and hairier, than it is to get narrower and softer. No disrespect to transmen, but you have a much easier time passing.

[Asker]

"Transwomen are just trying to covertly invades girls bathrooms"

If they get surgery and remove their penis then why would cis girls be threatened by them? Sounds like pure bigotry.

[Asker]

Isn't it the penis women are always scared of?

[CountessSarah]

Even if they have a penis why would cis girls be threatened by them? I'll never understand anti-trans paranoia.

[Asker]

I'd imagine they'd be afraid they might get raped, that and women generally find male private parts repulsive/gross.

[CountessSarah]

But that's still dumb - what's stopping cis guys from just slipping into restrooms to rape people now? The restroom rape paranoia is completely unfounded.

[Asker]

I believe Cis guys would be stopped by other people and arrested if they were caught going in there.

[CountessSarah]

They wouldn't always get caught entering.
Furthermore, what stops women raping women or men raping men? The inclusion of trangenderism into the equation doesn't even make sense.

[Asker]

I think rape is generally putting a penis into a vagina. Most women wouldn't really care that much if another woman "raped" them, cause she wouldn't have a penis (which is what women are really frightened of).

[CountessSarah]

Then you don't understand what rape is.

[Asker]

I do. It's when you have penetrative sex with a woman without asking permission.

[samhradh_leannan]

I think men are more bothered by the idea of male-to-female transgender people because they don't want to date a trans woman, and they're worried that they won't be able to tell the difference. They see them as imposters or some sort of threat to their masculinity or heterosexuality.

[Rissyanne]

I think trans women. Because some of them expect straight men to want them. And a man isn't straight if he wants a transgender woman.

[Water2020]

I'm a trans woman and I feel the same way as you've stated to some degree but I have friends who are trans men and you'd be very surprised how hard they have it. For example for me as a trans woman my social network of support (peers) are women. And women are more accepting then men. And the women who don't like you may make you fell bad but rarely get physical. On the other hand trans men are trying to become apart of the male social hierarchy which is extremely difficult not to mention that men ARE physical at times.

Bottom line is we need Love in our Culture because while we all have our differences we are ALL human and we ALL deserve LOVE ❤️

[CountessSarah]

Why are you using a male account?

[Water2020]

That's a fantastic question, probably because I haven't transitioned yet and still am used to just hitting the male button on things. But that's a nice observation :-). Thanks for the insight

[Rissyanne]

I am just curious. Do you want to date a straight guy? A lesbian?

[RolandCuthbert]

For the same reason why people hate gay men more than lesbians.

[curiousnorway]

Why do people do that?

[Asker]

Good point. But why do people hate gays more than lesbians? I've seen Isis throw gays off rooftops but never lesbians.

[RolandCuthbert]

@curiousnorway It has always been that way for as long as I can remember in the U. S. Lesbians in the media were always sexy and beautiful to watch.

[Asker]

You always have the answers don't you Morpheus?

[RolandCuthbert]

I don't have answers. I have an opinion.

Let me explain something to you young one. I don't know why people have to follow the ass that is front of them. I can't work like that. In order for me to adopt a belief or a view, it has to come from fact or at least from some bit of logical objective reasoning. If I sound supremely confident in my beliefs. It is only because they are not given to me by anyone else. If I have an opinion it is because I have an understanding of the material we speak about.

When it comes to gays. I can assure you I do not have a clue. I am ignorant. And I admit that I have biases when it comes to gay men. But those biases disappear when it comes to lesbian women.

[Asker]

Maybe it's just biology/evolution.

[jacquesvol]

I don't hate any of them.

But between not hating and wanting to be in the same bed there's an ocean.

[Asker]

So if you had sex with a woman and then you later found out she's born a guy, what would you do?

[jacquesvol]

I'd shrug.

[Asker]

Yes but lots of guys then murder her.

[jacquesvol]

Lots of guys are plain DUMB. But I hope that's no news to you.

[ColoradoChick84]

I don't hate any of them

[Anonymous]

Theyre all gay.

[curiousnorway]

Some trans women are attracted to men, but other are attracted to other women or are bisexual.

[Opinion Owner]

@curiousnorway still gay.